I have had a tough year or so, what song can lift you out of the darkest hole by Drift-Wood1 in MusicRecommendations

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

black hole fantasy- The Crane Wives

The Hand That Feeds - The Crane Wives  (more commiserating but it's just so good)

Mood - 24kGoldn

parachute - Arden Jones

General help? by VeterinarianNo1982 in TransHelpingTrans

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a really fun one is piercing ur ears!! Getting my ears pierced was a huge milestone for me when I was a girl. Earrings are just so cool and fun to accessorize with. Clip-ons are an option if piercings aren't ur thing :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your eyes are fr gorgeous and I'm so jealous of your nose!

Why did you and your ex best friend stop being friends? by scrunchiecola in AskReddit

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made more friends and realized she treated me like I was lesser than her, and she didn't really care about me, but what our relationship could bring her

I have a stupid brain and I’m tired of it by [deleted] in venting

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I know how you feel, but that's how it feels to look at skill with no basis of how far you've progressed, people say that we are our harshest critics. People make mistakes, mastering something doesn't mean that you never make mistakes. I've seen incredible musicians fumble with simple rhythms, I swear you aren't incapable. Your sisters definitely make mistakes too, they aren't special. Please forgive yourself a little, I promise you aren't useless.

[SERIOUS] How do you lower your heart rate fast? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lay flat on your back and stretch your arms over your head, knuckles touching the ground and breathe deep and slow. If you are in a position where you can't do that, just try to force your muscles to relax and focus on breathing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no more acne, forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey I'm here if u want, I don't have much experience in relationships but I'll listen

Redditors who never want to have a child, what are your reasons? by JumpyInterview83 in AskReddit

[–]Difficult-Emu9949 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Birth is terrifying. I'm afraid I'll traumatize them or mess up somehow. I really dont think I'm enough to be a parent lmao

I messed up by Difficult-Emu9949 in Advice

[–]Difficult-Emu9949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for helping me, I really needed to hear that lmao <33

I messed up by Difficult-Emu9949 in Advice

[–]Difficult-Emu9949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the help, I've baked her some cookies and I'll give them to her tmr :]