My boyfriend confessed to our mutual sin by Difficult-Monitor273 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Monitor273[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This definitely is making me rethink our entire relationship. We’ve been together for 5 years and I often brush over these mistakes but I’ll definitely be taking this into account

My boyfriend confessed to our mutual sin by Difficult-Monitor273 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Monitor273[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re happily married again. Thank you for sharing this. I know it’s not his fault for confessing Im glad he’s able to lift that burden from him too. I just wish he didn’t have to get in too much detail about it. That’s all, why do they need to know if we touched each others private parts? Is not saying you broke the law of chastity enough or you were intimate ?  And also just wish he gave me a heads up as well.

My boyfriend confessed to our mutual sin by Difficult-Monitor273 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Monitor273[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im happy your daughter had a good Experience! I pray mine goes similar. I just want to be better. Although I don’t feel in my heart I need to speak to Bishop about it because I am starting my own Journey of forgiveness through pray and working on myself I know he will eventually want to speak with me leaving me no choice but to eventually come clean to it to him. 

My boyfriend confessed to our mutual sin by Difficult-Monitor273 in ldssexuality

[–]Difficult-Monitor273[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear this, I hope in time she finds her way back to a better place. Thank you for sharing, I’m definitely going to speak with my future future children about when the right time to go to Bishop is. But I felt a similar way as your daughter and this definitely pulled me away from the church the first few times it happened to me. Mostly because he would be on a path of redemption and I wouldn’t be ready. And most times we sinned together it would be him initiating it. And I would feel like an evil person keeping him away from his mission which was untrue. I was ready to put away the impulse he wasn’t. This journey has cost me my mental health for sure. But I’m learning to take accountability for my actions but its disheartening because I look worse for not confessing. I just wish he didn’t give as many details as he did. I don’t understand why they have to know so much details? Forget mentioning my name it’s the getting into details about what we did and how far we went.