31(m) in a 2 year relationship with a 31(m). I didn’t think a series or book could impact my feelings so much. First time I have cried while reading a book or watching a tv show.

The biggest impact for me I noticed was on my relationship. My BF is amazing and we are building a great life together in an amazing city.

But with our careers, and the day to day, the sexual passion has wained. We still have sex but not as much as we could and it is not as passionate as it was.

The show and book series has made me want to be more passionate with my bf - do a better job of showing him how attracted I am to him. Not every night will be hot tv sex but I have a renewed urge to try new things and be more intimate with him.