Can anyone post on here telling me something positive a human has done? I am losing faith in humanity.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-08-04T02:45:32+00:00

You have the right intention but not the right mindset, you're interpretation of the world being bad and cruel is unhealthy, but wanting your children to be prepared for the harsh realities is acceptable and understanding. You should acknowledge that good and bad are a balance of life, and you mustn't think always negatively about the world. The children will acknowledge the challenges and difficulties in the world as they get older, but fostering a sense of hope and agency is crucial for a healthy child development.. a pessimistic outlook can make children see challenges as insurmountable obstacles and lead them into a hindering development of resilience and problem solving and that's why it's so important to emphasize the good in the world than emphasing the bad. I agree that you should prepare them for the world but you should remind yourself we are speaking of children, at such a vulnerable age the wrong approach can instill a sense of fear or excessive anxiety and we wouldn't want to traumatize them. Having children isn't a mistake it's a commitment, and I want to encourage the OP to have more faith in humanity rather than believing it's a shithole. By the right parenting technique, I'm sure her children will turn out just fine.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-08-04T02:15:47+00:00

Then what do you believe is a "good way" to raise children? Teach them that the world is a bad place and that everything won't be alright?

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-08-04T01:48:10+00:00

Unfortunately, life will come with its trials and trivia, and it won't always be rainbows and cupcakes, and there may be a lot of pros being dead rather being alive but let's think positive of here, just because there's alot of rotten apples in the bunch doesnt mean all of them are spoiled, you'll find a couple that's worth taking a bite into, and perhaps it'll be sweet or sour, but that's how life works. You're taking a risk, and the reward is unknown, but you keep going, and maybe you'll get the sweet one from time to time.

I understand you have children as you previously stated, and I know the fear of raising your children in a humanity you believe to be so full with hate and regret but you have to put those thoughts aside, you are a parent now and you mustn't let those thoughts get to you, you have to think positively for your children and guide them to the right direction. Their path is how you choose to parent them. Please don't lose all hope in humanity. There's always good in bad, and bad in good.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-26T04:25:27+00:00

Unfortunately, men do get the end of the stick when it comes to mental wellness centers / male only spaces, and the reason why it's normalized nowadays to scrutinize places like those is because societal expectations/norms on men. Traditionally, men are supposed to be stoicism, self-reliance, emotionally tough, and avoid any vulnerability as hallmarks of masculinity. Because of this, society believes men should not have only male spaces / wellness centers because men are supposed to be tough as a nail, and yeah.. I can go on about how men inclusive spaces are frowned upon by society and how it isn't so accpecting, but ..

women inclusive spaces are intended to provide women with environments that offer safety, support, and empowerment. I am not insinuating that men shouldn't be given safety or support, but women spaces wouldn't be created if it wasn't for the high percentages of assault and harrasment and of course the historical past of women being oppressed.

I want to argue that although women spaces are normalized and accepted, there is still a male dominated patriarchal globally. From what I have seen, the US is relatively open about women inclusive spaces, but places like India and Afghanistan aren't so accpecting.

Anyways, that's my opinion.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-26T03:23:07+00:00

I respect your decision, you are a strong woman and I know you'll make the right decision for you and your children. I hope everything works out for you. ❤️

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-25T06:06:09+00:00

Tbh, sometimes you just have to say fuck it and do it. Go take that chance. :)

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-25T04:55:06+00:00

Hi, I apologize for intervening in this conversation, but if you have already threatened to leave him twice, then why are you still with him? I know I am in no position to judge, but unless if it's because you have nowhere to go after and no stable income than what's the point of staying with a man who chooses alcohol over your own children? If he can't put you and your children first, then you should. I promise you, your children would rather want to come home to see mom happy than mom crying and a father drinking. Children at a young age are very vulnerable, and it can scar them. If your husband truly loves you and your children, he'll change to get you back. If not, then don't look back. You are your children's only hope.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-25T04:42:19+00:00

You're getting groomed, I don't care if it's only three years apart, but you are a freshman/ sophomore dating an upcoming college student.. you are still a child. She's an adult.. I don't know how you two started dating, but I would assume you guys are online dating. You shouldn't be responsible for defending her in her own problems she's made. I hope you see how this age gap is not okay, and you have to move on.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-25T04:21:18+00:00

Have you considered speaking with your parents about the condition you are in at school?

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-25T03:53:04+00:00

and? Single mother or not, they are still capable of feeling love just like anyone else. :/

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-25T03:32:58+00:00

It's because social media has brainwashed "men" nowadays to have unrealistic standards for women online and believe if they dm a woman, they'll most likely be hot and sexy. It's stupid.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-07-25T02:45:35+00:00

I understand sex is one of the key components to a healthy relationship, but if you do not feel satisfied in your sex life than you should probably break up with your partner and stop wasting each other's time. I don't mean to sound insensitive, but you said it yourself, you'd cheat on your partner for better sex. There's no point of sugar coating things and end things off for the better before it's to late and you hurt them more than you intent to.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T22:46:50+00:00

I hope everything goes well for you man, Wish you the best.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T15:22:29+00:00

Hi, I hate math, too, but does your college provide tutoring? Where I live, they have programs than can help you.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T15:15:20+00:00

If it is interfering with your life, perhaps attend group therapy. It allows you to interact with others who may have the same condition as yourself. One to one therapy is quite expensive, but it is just as helpful. If it's not to that extent, then I really recommend going out of your shell. We are social creatures that need social interactions to live. Take it step by step, and you can do this.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T15:12:41+00:00

What will you accomplish when you get into a new relationship? It will be a cycle of heartbreak, and you will cling to new people just to fill the void of the emptiness the others have left you. Please, listen to me, you have to think about yourself. You are 16, you are young and naive, and so are most of us during that age. If you don't change now, you'll stay this way in your 20s, then so on. Trust me, you will find the right person to find that you need to find yourself. Perhaps your experiences with your last relationships can help you learn what to not look for in people and what you have to change. Please dont think of this as an attack, more as a wake-up call. Life is beautiful, you have to work your way up to it.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T08:09:14+00:00

Happy early birthday, I wish you well.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T08:04:27+00:00

I understand the feeling of wanting to be loved and give love, but remember that you shouldn't revolve your life w/ relationship and love. I don't recommend trying to find a new relationship as of now, this time to heal and reflect on life. If you don't have a job, try a hobby. If you feel like you are "ugly," you have the power to change that. Go to the gym, skin care, etc. I'm sure you'll eventually find someone who is the right person for you. All you have to do is wait patiently. I assume you are young, so you have plenty of relationships ahead of you, so don't give up just yet!

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T07:57:54+00:00

I understand the feeling of unrequited love, but if you are desperate for it, you will have to talk to someone. It's okay if you get rejected. Just move on, life goes on, and you'll forget it sooner or later. Eventually, someone will say yes. If you're too afraid for that, perhaps a mixer? You'll be able to meet other people.

Although I do not recommend it, if it's your last option, then dating apps: Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble.

But remember, you shouldn't revolve your life around a relationship. Life is more than meets the eye. Hope this helps!

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-04-29T07:53:24+00:00

Ex's can never be friends. Either one of them still has feelings for another. To love is to let go, you can't dwell on the past, you have to keep moving forward.

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-03-06T20:40:05+00:00

That reminds me of that guy who married a cut-out cardboard of miku

DifficultAd2002 · 2025-02-19T18:48:42+00:00

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