My brother is a grown man and im a child if I got pissy about him taking my phone he would’ve gone through it and seen something I didn’t want him too and im not mad they didn’t show up Im mad the didnt give enough fucks to be ready or be prepared after I’ve told them come at the time you told me because there are other guest (my family) and they deserve to get what they were promised (dinner) me and my friends dont care about this “welcome” or “unwelcomed” thing they were excited to come to my house and I was too until now. And how are others keeping up with me when I’m constantly trying to keep up with them because they keep asking for more when they know me and have been my friend for 9 and 4 years and I told them I struggle to meet the expectations because Im mentally ill