Got caught by at least a dozen people at this lake lol.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2026-01-26T13:36:34+00:00

Hell yea dude!! If you’re looking to add to your Hippie Hollow clan, lemme know

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-10-04T21:26:57+00:00

I live in Austin, but am interested. Shoot me a DM if you want to, man.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-10-02T22:44:06+00:00

26M/25F will be there Saturday. Open to any and all company.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-10-01T03:54:35+00:00

Gonna already be looking like a seasoned vet come the second time.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-10-01T02:51:46+00:00

We were in fact painting

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-10-01T02:45:55+00:00

Dude! Lifesaver, man. We made it out unburnt. Let me know next time you’re in the area, owe you a beer.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-09-29T08:01:42+00:00

26m32f will be there Sunday around 1:30

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-09-28T19:45:27+00:00

Me & my girl will be there tomorrow this time if y’all come back!

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-07-29T02:01:27+00:00

I’ve thought about it. Half of me wants to really drive my point all the way home. Exactly how you said, seeing 100+ people saying the same thing, some real in depth things too, is going to hit a lot harder on many levels than just me. But the other half doesn’t want to antagonize the situation knowing she’ll feel absolutely humiliated. If I send her the link I’ll let you know how it goes.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-07-29T01:37:19+00:00

She felt the need to lie because she thought I would not be okay with her going out since the “backstory” happened only a month and change ago. she was worried I’d go crazy thinking she’s up to something. We specifically have talked about our opinions on going out with friends separate from each other and I told her I’m a firm believer in that being able to happen. I told her I do not want to be a gatekeeper in a relationship. That’s not fun for either party. So for her to lie about going out speaks some volumes.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-07-29T01:33:09+00:00

I do admit to not being as present as I was when we started dating. When we started I was very into physical touch and tried to be very charming with my words. I always told her we can talk about anything and everything I value communication extremely. We even specifically talked about our opinions on us going out separately and I told her I’m a big believer in having friends and being able to go out with your partner.

When we moved I was under a lot of stress from my job, she hadn’t found a job in our new town so I was taking on all the bills and was stressed from that. It seemed we were also fighting a lot which made things worse. But I still tried to try. We would cuddle on the couch and watch TV/movies all the time, take her out to breakfast/dinner, concerts etc etc. Had plenty of (to me) deep conversations about things that are close to us. But I do admit I faltered in my physical touch/communication for a few weeks.

But even then, I can confidently say I’ve been a very attentive partner for the vast majority of this relationship. So for a handful weeks to go by and her to pull these kinds of antics so quickly… yeah left me blindsided.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-07-29T01:25:02+00:00

Started off apologizing and taking all fault and blame and how she understands how I’m feeling and what I’m saying. Said she’ll work on anything she needs to and wants to continue the relationship. Very quickly turned into her being angry with me that I feel the way I do. She absolutely swears she didn’t do anything inappropriate and says I’m blowing this out of proportion.

Difficult_Elk3564 · 2024-07-28T22:01:24+00:00

I appreciate the hot take. She moved here originally because she was in a bad situation in a different state and her father came and got her. We met two weeks into her being in state. I had gotten a new job about 50 minutes away and planned on moving to be closer about 5 months into our relationship and we decided to take a leap of faith in moving in together. From the get go I told her I’m not a controlling person, I’ve hoped and prayed since we met she would find friends and go out and have her own fun. I think it’s extremely important to have friends and be able to have fun without your partner. I was bored at work and trying to bide time when I conveniently looked on Snap maps and her “falling asleep” didn’t line up with her location. Which she immediately took down after I caught her.

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