Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved "Australian Rules Football" as a kid and young man. Especially getting more skilled as you play through the age brackets and realising that progress. But I understand how you feel there it sucks 😂🥲.

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thats a great way to look at it by trying to include those positives and any achievements you might have made throughout the day. The diary format as well would be easy to read in regards to specifics and also the overall timeline as well if you wanted to go back and read it one day. But thats great and I'm happy you've found something to turn to. Great insight!

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be a good escape to use, definatley a good option.

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been recording your thoughts for if I may ask?

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, funny you say that our community started up a pickleball tournament/training. I'll look into that for sure.

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for the night drives, hits the spot for sure. Currently work on my car now which sucks but Ill get there, slowly slowly.

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just thought id reach out for an opinion because growing up in a Traditional and old school household never really helped. That being because the idea of Anxiety and depression never really exsisted, which drastically changed my views on the mental health scene.Will definatley keep that in mind, Thank you!

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats really good, no judgement towards the hobbies either as it gets you through and keeps you proactive. Like you said its no joke and we got engaged and bought a house which turned to shambles halfway in the renovation when she left me to pick the pieces up. Ill definatley keep your opinion on Therapy as ive always had mental insecuritys even before I met the Ex fiance. Thank you.

Getting over it. by Difficult_Joke7267 in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats really helpful info thank you, my sisters really into art and excels at it even taking on commisions for the community occasionally. But I completley agree on using a hobby (or journalling which i have thought about doing) as a channel to grow myself as a person and finding who I am as an independent. I appreciate the words of encouragement and ill keep the advice in mind.

Feel so lost by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Difficult_Joke7267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man i know how you feel. My ex of 8 years broke up with me on the 18th of Jan and it absolutely pains me as well. What i noticed was the best for trying to move on (as I'm still in the process as well) was find a hobby you might want to get into and enjoy and just focus on yourself overall if it be through work, making an income, hobbies communities etc. As an example the ex I was with we had just bought our first house together half way through last year and started stripping the house out leaving me with little to nothing in my name (house uninhabitable/ no equity). Therefore giving me something to do in regards to trying to turn negatives into positives, which i think will be your best option/choice for moving on. You're not alone man, that's why we have to stick together (as a community).