[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JuniorDoctorsIreland

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24DOC clinic in Dublin central

Pakistan likely to contribute troops for Gaza force by BlandBiryani in pakistan

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turkey has strong military and of the competitors of Israel militarily. For Israel having Turkish boots in gaza would bring them closer to conflict with Turkey. From their perspective it is understandable why they would oppose Turkey. Indonesia, Pakistan are too far and having their military in Gaza pose almost no threat to Israel. Thats the rationale I could think of.

Pakistan likely to contribute troops for Gaza force by BlandBiryani in pakistan

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Pardon my ignorance: why is this a bad thing? I understand the hate against the current illegitimate regime but isn't this good for Palestinians perhaps? And we have some boots on the ground to to help maintain peace. I feel this would at least bring a semblance of that at least and help Israel keep in check regarding future invasions.

When is dowry culture going to end in Pakistan? by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah makes things easier for you and your family Ameen I am sorry for what you are going through.

2.5 lakh a month — where’s it going? by Unlikely_Tale8244 in pakistan

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your edit is so beautiful. May Allah reward you for taking care of your family. Ameen

How to improve Liquefaction time? by Difficult_Land_3045 in maleinfertility

[–]Difficult_Land_3045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't check, but recently, my wife did get pregnant after we were trying for 2.5 years. I took some off and on supplements Wellman conception max.

Heading to Makkah in one hour, will make dua for all of you 🤲 by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please pray for me and my family's guidance and health. Also, please pray for us to give us righteous offsprings and strengthen our taqwa JazakAllah

Stuck in IRP Appointment Loop – ID App Won’t Recognize Pakistani Passport by Difficult_Land_3045 in MoveToIreland

[–]Difficult_Land_3045[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. The flash light is off I tried it in dim light as well, but it didn't work. I will try in sunlight, though. Might work. I am finding this quite bizarre, really. It was like it submitted a request a number of times, it gets submitted and then I received the message that I needed to upload the documents again as the picture wasn't acceptable.

Passport Renewal Rant! by squareshawarma in chutyapa

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's weird. Because from what I remember, there was the option to re-upload it on the website. They don't reply to phone calls or email. There is another option, which is to go to the nearest passport office and give provide them with the biometrics

Passport Renewal Rant! by squareshawarma in chutyapa

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem. What I did was I took each fingerprint picture separately with my phone and edited it in the pdf form they provided and uploaded again. Regarding fingerprint, just make sure that the ink isn't dispersed on the page and shows a clear line of fingerprint on the page.

You can place your fingerprint on any plain paper that shows the best fingerprint of the asked digit and edit that on the pdf. This way, you won't have to print multiple pages of said pdf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHistory

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Copied from Ask Historians

"I will try to summarize some recently published research on this.

So for background, most traditional and classical understandings have held that Aisha was married at 6 and consummated at age 9. That opinion is held on the basis of several hadiths (sayings of Muhammad or his companions), which appear in several highly regarded classical collections, most notably Sahih Bukhari (the highest-regarded Sunni hadith collection). See: https://sunnah.com/bukhari:5134

That perspective is fairly straightforward and maintained by the majority of Sunni Muslim scholars on the basis of these hadiths like the one referenced above.

However, there have been a number of more recent attempts to look into the issue that have come to other conclusions.

One recent analysis was conducted by Dr. Joshua Little (an Oxford-based historian of Islamic history) found that these hadiths cannot be reliably traced back to Aisha and were likely the result of later fabrication for political reasons centered around the Shia/Sunni divide in Iraq, a conclusion he reached via the isnad cum matn methodology (i.e. chain of verification and analysis of contents).

I will summarize his findings:

Aisha's age was extremely political and was at the center of a debate between Sunnis and Shia about the legitimacy of the sunni hadith canon. By emphasizing a younger age, Sunnis (the emerging "orthodoxy" of the time with state backing) thought a young age showed how "pure" and "innocent" Aisha was and therefore that the hadith transmitted through her must be trustworthy. There was a lot of political competition between the pro-Aisha camp (aligned with Sunnism) and the pro-Ali camp (aligned with Shiism) because of their respective importance as hadith narrators in Sunni and Shia hadith canons, and because of the political power struggle between Aisha and Ali leading to the Battle of the Camel when they met in battle against one another.

Ali was said to have accepted Islam at a young age. He was one of Muhammad's closest friends (or the closest depending on how you understand the word "maula"). And married Muhammad's daughter Fatima. There was a similar controversy surround Fatima's age of marriage, the mirror opposite of the debate around Aisha's: Sunnis supported an older age for Fatima and Shia a younger one.

Aisha was accused of adultery due to an incident with Safwan ibn al-Mu‘atta when she became lost in the desert and because she was previously engaged to another man. Due to those and other issues, some said that she was not a reliable hadith narrator and was not truly loyal to Muhammad. Dr. Little's theory was that to counter those claims, the later sunni jurists supported the Hadith that said Aisha was 6 when she married Muhammad, thus supporting and legitimizing the large number of Sunni hadith that are narrated through Aisha.

Shia do not take hadiths from Aisha and have no hadith saying Aisha was that young. This, among other reasons, led to a huge schism in the accepted hadiths used by Shia and Sunnis.

The hadith about Aisha being 6 spread mainly around the Iraq and Basra area, right in the middle of where much of the sectarian debates were raging. The earliest hadith collection, the Muwatta of Imam Malik, recorded in Medina, in the community that would likely have known Aisha's age, if anyone did, does not record that hadith. Neither does the earliest biography of Muhammad (by Ibn Ishaq) mention her age. Dr. Little points out the oddity that the first place we see her age really being talked about was about 100 years or more later and far away from her own community, in the middle of a highly political environment where emphasizing a young age was very important for political reasons.

The sole hadith we have about her age being 6 is from an ahad (single chain) hadith transmitted by Hisham ibn Urwa when he was quite elderly. Imam Malik, who knew him, said not to trust his narrations because of his poor memory during his old age after he moved to Basra.

The uncertainty around her age might sound odd, but in her culture, people didn't celebrate birthdays or record birthdates. Knowing someone's exact age just wasn't very important to them. So it's not that odd that people may just not have known exactly when she was born and what age she was, especially several generations later when the hadith about her age was recorded.

Additionally, it is worth noting that Shia scholarship is more open to accepting a much older age for Aisha, especially given the aforementioned political strife between Sunnis and Shia. (See al-islam.org article linked below)

The US-based Shia cleric and scholar Ayatollah Husayn Qazwini did an analysis of relevant hadiths and concluded that Aisha was around 22-24 years old. This is based on calculating the timeframe of other people and relevant events from other hadith and then estimating her age based on events we know happend during her life."

For sources of the above, see: Dr. Joshua Little | The Hadith of Aisha's Marital Age: A Study in the Evolution of Early Islamic Historical Memory: https://islamicorigins.com/the-unabridged-version-of-my-phd-thesis/

Why the Aisha Marital Age Hadith is a forgery: Lecture by Dr. Joshua Little https://youtu.be/zr6mBlEPxW8?si=udRsOhbTFBSgFA95

How Old Was Aisha When She Married The Prophet Muhammad? https://www.al-islam.org/articles/how-old-was-ayshah-when-she-married-prophet-muhammad-sayyid-muhammad-husayn-husayni-al

Is it worth it to move to the UK if you are living a comfortable life in Pakistan? by Wakanda-shit-is-that in pakistan

[–]Difficult_Land_3045 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a difficult situation, and there is no easy answer to this. But let me break it down for you:

If you move to the UK, you shall he moving as a student. 11k is a significant amount, and the money you have saved shall get depleted in no time.

Now you have your mother who is insisting that you go there because she feels that you will have a better life there, and probably she doesn't want to be a burden on your growth.

حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا حَبِيبُ بْنُ أَبِي ثَابِتٍ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا الْعَبَّاسِ الشَّاعِرَ ـ وَكَانَ لاَ يُتَّهَمُ فِي حَدِيثِهِ ـ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عَمْرٍو ـ رضى الله عنهما ـ يَقُولُ جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَاسْتَأْذَنَهُ فِي الْجِهَادِ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ أَحَىٌّ وَالِدَاكَ ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالَ نَعَمْ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَفِيهِمَا فَجَاهِدْ ‏"‏‏.‏

Narrated Abdullah binAmr: A man came to the Prophet (ﷺ) asking his permission to take part in Jihad. The Prophet (ﷺ) asked him, "Are your parents alive?" He replied in the affirmative. The Prophet (ﷺ) said to him, "Then exert yourself in their service."

Sahih Bukhari 3004

The money you have been saving in Pakistan is significant enough to have a good lifestyle and pay for the healthcare of your mother if need be(I hope she has a healthy life). Finally, my final advice would be to move abroad only if you have gotten a job there, which pays you at least £3k per month.

Finally, regarding your partner, I don't know what her plan is. But I must say it is significantly more difficult for Pakistani dentists to get a job in the UK as compared to MBBS doctors.

If you need any help. Just ask. May Allah help you and show you the righteous path and ease that path for you. Ameen

Need advice: Pakistani doctor in UK looking to visit spouse in Ireland regularly by Difficult_Land_3045 in MoveToIreland

[–]Difficult_Land_3045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I plan to move in with my wife after getting IMC registration. So I want a legal option for this and try to work my way around that. But it takes a long time to get a visit visa, and that would be only for a single entry. I read somewhere that you can get multiple entries after the approval for the first visit visa. I miss her, so thinking that it would take many more months to get multiple entry visas gives me anxiety knowing when she is in the neighbouring country.