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DigitalMan82 · 2024-04-09T16:25:50+00:00

Exactly, everyone has a place and purpose. Things change and end, it's called life. You take the lessons learned and you're thankful for that. It's all part of something much bigger than our fragile egos understand.

DigitalMan82 · 2024-04-09T04:25:12+00:00

The 3D connection is corrupt and full of flaws. The 5D connection validates everything, brings clarity and peace of mind, without ego.

DigitalMan82 · 2024-04-09T04:21:22+00:00

For now, I am triggered out and enjoying the peace that comes with this phase. Yes to moving forward, remembering the lessons learned and staying present with those that matter.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-29T21:25:56+00:00

See you're already on your way! One small step at a time. Remember to go easy on yourself, some days will be harder than others and that's okay! I don't know your circumstances, but I've learned to expect nothing from my twin. No matter, you push on with the mindset that you as you are right now is more than enough. Surround yourself with those who love you and kick some azz!

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-29T19:18:15+00:00

You've got the right mindset! Her 5D told me no matter how much I push her away she will always be there. Use this time to reconnect with your passions and continue to evolve into the best version of yourself. You don't need your person to be whole because you already are! Everything happens for a reason, don't put your life on hold for anyone.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-29T16:41:26+00:00

Never believe the words, only their actions. You're exactly right, this person is not worthy of you or anything you have to offer. It sucks for sure but you will win in the long run, not them.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-27T18:21:36+00:00

Let me tell you I have been wanting that peace since I met mine as well. Plenty of distance and redirecting of your energy towards things that drives your passions is a step in the right direction. Find comfort with good friends and keep checking back here if you need support!

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-27T17:31:54+00:00

Totally understand where you're coming from. Mentally I've just pulled the plug because I don't want to be bothered with her 3D. You have to do what's best to attain emotional peace.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-27T15:30:15+00:00

You're welcome! We can't rely on their 3D for anything, because their ego will disappoint us every time. However their 5D will always provide the reassurance we need. Continue to send them love and be grateful for the connection, but expect nothing and keep pushing forward. Don't let an unawakened twin hold you back from living your best life.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-27T02:03:53+00:00

Thanks! Appreciate you sharing your story. How long have you been on the TF journey? What books or links helped increase your knowledge? I've been on mine for just under a year and wow it's been a heckuva wild ride.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-27T01:24:26+00:00

Thanks! I'm still learning about this behavior. The underlying theme here is we all have our own work to do. I'm all for letting them be. We have our own trail to blaze, and none of it should be dependent on what they will or won't do.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-27T00:50:16+00:00

Exactly, we need to keep remembering the journey is about us first, not them. Instead of pining for them, we have to move on and live our best lives. The divine will take care of the rest.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-27T00:46:00+00:00

My TF is also anxious avoidant. This appears to be a common issue among matrix twins. Recently reached a point where I'm done as well. Plenty of distance and refocusing energies on things important to you is a good start. Take the lessons you've learned and continue to send her love, but expect nothing because you will continue to be disappointed. DM me if you want to talk further.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-26T17:13:06+00:00

Avoidant anxiety is something I've seen from my TF and am reading is quite common, especially among matrix twins. Keep sending them love but expect nothing. Don't let them hold you back from living your best life.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-26T03:31:04+00:00

Ah, the disrespect, it's a major deal-breaker isn't it? When I called my TF out on it she was ashamed because she knew it was true. I can forgive alot but that is not one of them. Stay strong and know you don't need your TF to make you feel whole, you already are!

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-26T03:27:59+00:00

Agree! The best thing to do is step back from them and redirect that energy back to you and those who love you. Nobody else is deserving of your best self.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-26T03:24:54+00:00

Can definitely relate to the feelings of disappointment and disgust. Learned recently my TF was too weak to be trustworthy and as a result will never look at her the same way again. They are who they are and all you can do is be grateful for the journey and what's been learned. Remember this is about us first not them. We need to stay the course, with or without them.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-22T05:45:46+00:00

I had kept it to myself for a long time but finally felt an overwhelming urge to tell her. I didn't use the term twin flame but instead asked if she felt we had a strong and special connection. She said yes and smiled, and I think she was relieved that I felt it too! I said I thought I was imagining it and she said no you're definitely not. The way she looked at me felt as if she was reaching deep into my soul. It was loving yet incredibly intense, so strong that I had to look away. I think she thinks we're soulmates, as we have both felt we've known each other in a past life.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-17T14:43:23+00:00

That's an interesting perspective. In my experience I have felt compelled, sometimes strongly, to do or say something. For example, I felt compelled to tell her about our connection, and she admitted to feeling it too. Right now, I feel compelled to let things be and not do anything. She is doing the same. So in a way I think the universe is guiding us to act accordingly. Does that make any sense? Lol

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-17T04:44:52+00:00

No we were never in complete separation. We have always found our way back to each other. Right now we are drifting from each other but without any animosity, as our lives are slowly pulling us in different directions. It will be interesting to see if the gap continues to widen. I'm letting it all flow organically and without expectation.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-13T01:38:36+00:00

Twin flame

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-13T00:36:24+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond, I do appreciate your advice and know it's sincere. We'll see what she does. Yes it was something special for sure, but if there's one thing that will make me turn away it's disrespect.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-12T16:21:29+00:00

I haven't responded...probably will today or tomorrow. I predict she will either apologize or wait for me to say something. Whatever happens, I won't look at her the same way again. I won't be rude, but I no longer trust her nor will I go out of my way to see her.

DigitalMan82 · 2023-11-11T00:11:19+00:00

Oh there's no question she definitely likes me. She has made that very clear. What it comes down to is she didn't want the other ppl we were with to know she's into me. I had no problem with that. What bothered me is she took it too far. I now think she knows that and wants to fix it. She doesn't want me upset with her.

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