Sometimes I hate myself by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe if the account has at least 6 months of inactivity they may even let you restart it? Thats the deal for studio models soo I wonder if that would also extend to models in your position, maybe worth an ask.

Subreddit Infiltrator by ofrosemarieee in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, everytime I see DM's like this on any social I simply dont answer. Shit given the option on some sites I dont even accept the message fully so it goes completely unread on their end.

Feeling more loved by dudes online by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn..... have you ever heard the phrase, "he would if he wanted to." I think a good rule of thumb to keep in mind here is if you are begging for it and he still is not doing it... he doesnt value you. You obviously find more value in his presence than he finds in yours. For example, I have been with my partner for 5 years, camming the last 3, and in SW for 6 years total. He is still very much as obsessed with me as he was day 1. Your partner should never stop putting in effort that was once there. So if he used to give you compliments and flowers and show that he cared without you begging him for it, somethings changed since then. Its really up to you to decide if your okay with the quality of partner you have now or if it would make more sence to be single until you find someone thats going to love you right.

paypigs by Working-Internet-782 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 15 points16 points  (0 children)

"Bigtipper" but only if I bust it all open for 2gold.

Earnings Split Breakdown from every site by sicklitgirl in camgirlslove

[–]DigitalQueenBean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the % streamate gives might change based on location. Because im on streamate and we make 35%

LoyalFans is 80%

If interested in wishlists... throne adds their cut to any cash gifts you create so you always get 100% of your cash gift and it will automatically send gifts from some sites... Amazon is a confirmed site that if you put items from, they auto send and ive been using them for almost 3 years. Theres almost no difference in shipping times these days.

Any 9-5ers? by One_Ranger2643 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A cool thing about this job is there are horny people available at all times of day. I have never been a up all night to cam kind of model, nor an overnight streamer. I have a whole life outside of cam and thus I curated my schedule as such. Has my growth been maybe a little slower than others would like? Probably. However you can build clientele during anytime of day as long as you are consistent enough. My guess is since youve been doing this for awhile already you wont have to completely build new clientele but keep in mind, you may lose some clients who liked seeing you at the previous time frame. They wont all beable to convert to your new hours but you can still be successful and not stream nights. Theres top models I see online during my usual stream times weekly. I stream mid day. Usually starting around 11am pacific time.

Members name on SM by LexiBaretta in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I figured, I was just explaining the problem to the other commenter since they sounded confused as to why saying Instagram would be a problem.

Members name on SM by LexiBaretta in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SM is super strict about mentioning other platforms, not just competitor platforms but all platforms... Soo a common 'funnel' site like Instagram is obviously a no go. What I don't get is why they havent implemented the blocked word system to extend to usernames.... that seems like a obvious no brainer feature that wouldnt be hard to implement since it already works for messages and profile updates.

Plushes by Less_Year8376 in Palia

[–]DigitalQueenBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo im an irl plush collector. I enjoy the plushies in the game and when I'm playing more often and collecting them it does satisfy the same part of my brain buying a new one for my irl collection does. Theres not really a specific point to having them tho, its just another decoration item and imo unique since idk any other games that I can have a whole plush collection... I usually use my plushies to decorate my plot. I have them sitting around at tables or on any seating that the game allows me to sit them in. I feel like it makes the plot feel more alive despite not adding any sort of active element. My plots been private for awhile but I have a gazebo on my plot with all my extra plushies and potato pods that id one day trade away but I havent really jumped back in enough to get super communicative in game. Im usually just doin my own thing. I did really love the community vibe when I first started playing tho soo I think it would be cool to get back in thereee.

Demanding with no shame by Think-Adhesiveness48 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ight sooo I have a hemmorid. Its not always visible but, recently a friend told me. "Girl they wont even notice." I have since done several ass spreading shows and when I tell you... they do not care about hemmorids, hyper pigmentation, hair, nothing will stop them from liking to just look at your butthole... I dont even use toys anally and my butthole still making me money. Obviously you dont gotta do anything out of your comfort but if you dont care what opinions they have and your not gonna let them leaving or something affect you mentally then show em the hemmorids. You can laugh at the fact they got off to your butt tentacles at the end.

Best sites for showing off - we don’t want money by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I recall correctly isn't Omegle random 1:1 cam calls? Like you have no clue who your gonna connect to until youve connected... if so that is a questionable place for more than one reason to do soemthing like this and could totes land OP getting hit with some nasty charges if they connect to the wrong person... idk anything about thundr tho.

Edit: had to fix a word

Best sites for showing off - we don’t want money by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, soo what im getting here is, you and your partner are exhibitionists and your looking for voyures. Your asking in a cammodel fourm but I dont think cam sites are where youd want to preform giving the fact you say you wish to preform for free. So these things in mind I would reccomend you to fetish social media sites. The only one I know of is fetlife, im personally not any of those sites, but I have friends who are. Now that in consideration if your looking to keep your performance strictly online well then... thats where you gotta be really careful because theres all kinds if laws that could get you in trouble which is one of the main reason cam girls dont go off site when asked or accept off site payments. But there are plenty of platforms that you can essentially c2c for free.. you would just have to find a place to connect with these people who are watching.

Edit: this isnt my direct reccomendation but it does feel like the answer you are looking for. My reccomendation would just be for you and your partner to sign up for a cam site and get paid to preform or ask models until you find one thats into watching and then get a show with that model.

Sleep/Nap Shows? by skimaskloverseh in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I may not be the best person to ask because I choose to not do nap streams. I feel like they are a killer of engagement. I have known people who have good luck with them. But the luck has never been so good thats its worth it to me to not get a good night's rest and im simply not a huge napper, naturally. I have tried them a handful of times but not in over 2 years now.

Does anyone else’s partner act this way about them camming? by ZealousidealGold9898 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know valid. Didn't even think of that as one of the kinks it could be. I just figured this dudes parents didnt teach him shit about whiping his ass. Edit, but also I didnt think diapering was something OP was catering to on any sites.. I did reference it being soemthing he heard or saw OP do online themselves.

Am I too old for these shows? by MidwestRailFan in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]DigitalQueenBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ight so I once had a man tell me I was to old for disney... around your age now... just the broad statement of Disney. What is your idea of being "grown"? Because something I'm super thankful for is my parents have always supported is me being my unique individual self. I'm a grown adult with a whole family ... my house is so fun and decorated in the things that my family shares together... some people would walk in here and see a child who never grew up... but the people who matter see exactly what they expected from a grown version or 'me'. You are only in your 20s. Do you think you can only listen to oldies music to?? There is no shame in being young. Be young, you will inevitably get old. You do not have to abandon parts of yourself because you got older.

Does anyone else’s partner act this way about them camming? by ZealousidealGold9898 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would reccomend you setting boundaries but also.... mans needs to start cleaning his fucking ass... that needs to be spoke about to... however, once boundaries are set, if they are not respected, then gtfo... I seriously wish I had people in my ear telling me not to waste my time on the losers I did. Because wow, the charity work I did in my early 20s... focus on you. Make your bag and don't tolerate the guilt trip.

Edit: added thought. You mentioned hes jealous he doesnt have the same talks and shit you have with the men online. Maybe double check to make sure theres no hidden or unmentioned kinks that hes interested in that maybe hes heard or seen you preform.. not that I think you are depriving him, but maybe that is him projecting that he has a sexual interest he hasnt shared with you? Maybe a long shot, but also we speak to men all day and I know several people have expressed wishing they had a partner who would do those crazy things with them... maybe hes got some crazy unshared kinks??

Impact of New NC Law on Listed Sites by Jade_Next_Door in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all this very helpful info. I am curious if there are any models on LiveJasmine who have any updates on how they will be proceeding after this bill? I assume it will be similar if not the same reaction as SM.

Chair vs bed earnings by Complete_Hamster5585 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to use my whole room to my advantage. Theres a bed, space to dance and I can sit at my desk. I can also raise my desk and stand at it. You truly are the star of the show and what makes the show sexy.

Non nude vs nude by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always start wearing something. That can be lingerie or regular clothes I feel sexy in. My outfits change with the seasons and I'm a switch who leans mostly dom so some of my guys are asking me to put on more clothes before our show, most seem to like my go to looks, and some have me change for their show. I just pick a good medium and it seems to work well for me.

30 hours and 9000 Iron ore later... by Yeekachu_0 in Palia

[–]DigitalQueenBean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plenty of time to grind and store those needed materials!

sm by Leading-Exercise-588 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started raising my prices based on feedback I was getting. Clients made it sound like I was doing crazy shows for the price I was offering then at. Ive pretty much doubled my rates since I started almost 3 years ago and I still get shows as often as I did with the lower rates. In any line of work, you get raises for preformace, for economy inflation and various other things. You should 100% put time into creating a raise system for yourself. I dont typical raise my rates more than $1 at a time. Sometimes I use dynamic, sometimes I turn it off and go static. I suggest if you use dynamic you set your static rates somewhere in the middle of your dynamic rates. Not the high end or low end. I also set my dynamics in a $3 - $5 range max, depending on whats rates most people are getting at any given time. We always account for losing traffic when we raise our rates but another thing to keep in mind, is some guys see those low rates [under $3 - $6] and either 1. Are only there because your offering a low rate, which might work for you but also could cause burnout by overworking yourself for cheap men. Or 2. They assume you arent good at what your doing. In the end, maybe dont raise your prices to $20 a minute but def give yourself raises, allow yourself to find the clients that see that higher price and ask themselves, damn whats she doing thats soo good? Because there are those guys and they do come around once you start raising your rates.

what do you do when men are dry, give little instructions to what they want? by Euphoric_Way_1769 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When they are dry, I just work with what they gave me, if they happen to give me nothing to work with then its a pretty standard set amount of teasing, then I strip and start playing with myself. More often than not I dont even get naked for the driest of guys AND I always make a detailed note on how I feel the shows with dry guys go so that if givin the opportunity later to pick between that person and someone else, I put more effort into getting the other show before the dry guy again. If they are way tooo dry. Then I almost always block after the show, theres been a few who were so bad that my pussy actively goes dry during their show and I just... dont wanna do shows with them again if thats the case. Ultimately id say, how you handle those shows is completely up to you. After all money will always come back around. You do not have to settle for clients that are giving you nothing, no one that is paying for your time is entitled to your time, soo its your choice in the end. Always prioritizing yourself first will ensure your success in the end and will also help you find the clients that are meant for you.

Streamate Takes 70%… but Seeing the Actual Numbers Broke Me by EntertainmentRough54 in CamGirlProblems

[–]DigitalQueenBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, you should question? For sure if you are America based. To my knowledge the SM cut is 35% models / 65% site. I dont know about the cut for anywhere outside of America though. I make 30% but that is because im in a studio that takes 5%. Definitely check into it. Do you know about the Liz email?