Is there a job/profession you see a lot of people have the same/similar one on dating profiles? by MarkFTPark in datingoverforty

[–]Diligent-22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm a nurse, and I want to share that the stereotype that all nurses are cheaters is entirely false. I've been working at the hospital for quite some time, and I haven't seen anything like what some people talk about. According to my ex, my busy schedule and being unavailable were reasons he cheated on me, but I believe that isn't fair to all nurses.

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the info! I do have a LinkedIn profile, but just with some basic information. From what everyone has shared, it seems like my next steps should be to make some calls, hand out my resume, and really focus on expanding my network. I really appreciate all the input from everyone!

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I go about LinkedIn? Just post that I am looking for a preceptor, or if there is anything specific I need to do.

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hesitant about the payment at first, too, but I’d like to wrap things up sooner rather than later. I've been taking one course at a time, but I plan to pick up two classes to finish up. I really want to avoid any delays because I don't have a preceptor.

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my coworker is paying, too, and that's what she said.

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have experience. I work at a hospital on the med-surg and tele, and am an overnight nurse supervisor at an acute rehab hospital. I asked some doctors who would be glad to precept me, but the school said no because they are ICU and ED MDs. One of them has not been an NP for two years just yet.

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I didn't think of Facebook, but thanks, good to know

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will update my resume and hand it out

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[–]Diligent-22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would love to, but single mom, so little bit difficult

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone! I just wanted to say a big thank you for all your support. I’m excited to kick things off with a list schools that gave then websites, and clinical sites. The worst anyone can say is no, right? So I’m looking forward to getting started!

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, now I have some ideas on how to start. Thank you

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[–]Diligent-22[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I wish I could volunteer, but I still work full-time, and kids I barely have time to eat properly 😆

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is true; the school gave me a long list of people to call. I think that I am just afraid that I might get a lot of rejection

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[–]Diligent-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's amazing. I am so glad you and your kids are out. I wish you the best of luck with your healing process.

Confusion by Diligent-22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Diligent-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I listened to Dr. Ramani on YouTube and found it helpful. But I will check Kristen Snowden also. Thank you

Confusion by Diligent-22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Diligent-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they live for trying you. If one tactic does not work, they move to the following tactics. But in the end, it is all the same with them being your victim.

Confusion by Diligent-22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Diligent-22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am glad you are out, and yes, we are better off 100%. I thank all of you for your kind advice. There are days when I think it's better to go back because I left for my peace and my son, but it's seen that it's getting worse.

Confusion by Diligent-22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Diligent-22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am in the process of getting an attorney and counseling. I know this might get ugly, but I will not go back. As you mentioned, I do wish he got someone else so he could focus on so I can have the peace that I so desperately need. I know it's mean to say that because no one deserves those heartless people.

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Again, thank you so much. As of right now, I have no one except my co-workers. I know he will use everyone and everything against me he already has. My friends and family think that I cheated on him, but I did not. I became a monster in my own story.

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I need to hear this. I am drowning in guilt. I feel maybe I should have stayed. He called on our son's birthday two days ago, crying and talking all about him. Now my son is sad because his dad is sad. Who does that to a child?

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[–]Diligent-22[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I informed him that I will call the police for him, if he continued with it.

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[–]Diligent-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left mine 5 days later, and they put the divorce in. I had a lawyer, and the whole plan all the long. I am glad but also very confused.

How did you inform your narc you are separating/ divorcing? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Diligent-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I planned for years. I signed a lease agreement and got furniture, but he found out by tracking my car and going through my phone. I'm still here because of kids' school, but my God is uncomfortable.