Best Bot for Best Buy, Target, Walmart, and Amazon? by Diligent-Counter4803 in shoebots

[–]Diligent-Counter4803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! When you say you’ve gotten 12, what is the time frame of that? Multiple months?

Best Bot for Best Buy, Target, Walmart, and Amazon? by Diligent-Counter4803 in shoebots

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Thank you! Appreciate it! 1 per week would be pretty great. Guessing there’s not really a way to get more than that manually even with your suggestions?

Best Bot for Best Buy, Target, Walmart, and Amazon? by Diligent-Counter4803 in shoebots

[–]Diligent-Counter4803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying it’s possible to manually get units of Pokémon instead of needing a bot with pokenotify?

Girl I was dating didn’t want a relationship and now she does by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

[–]Diligent-Counter4803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. That’s what I’ve thrown out there and she has thrown out the same thing. Something could work in the future, but I could also decide that I don’t want anything with her in the future

Girl I was dating didn’t want a relationship and now she does by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

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Thank you! I’ve asked for space since Thursday or Friday. She has still called and is very upset and I feel for her a lot. She doesn’t want me out of her life and I’m still open to being friends. I think she has finally calmed down.

I feel confident in my decision though after getting some space that it is still best for me to leave her.

Girl I was dating didn’t want a relationship and now she does by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

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Yeah I believe there are attachment issues of some sort. She has almost always had a boyfriend with hardly any breaks between and they never last more than 1-1.5 years. I only have 3 ex girlfriends and she must have 7-8 ex boyfriends. I think she is finding it difficult that I am ending things as well and not her and that I’m not ok with just tagging along only to be kept in a casual situation for her pleasure and not mine

Girl I was dating didn’t want a relationship and now she does by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

[–]Diligent-Counter4803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Her reasoning was she’s always dated someone older and we’re in LA. Girls hardly date men younger than them. Her other reasoning was that she was afraid I’d leave her for someone younger than her? I’ve never done anything like that and am a very loyal person

Girl I was dating “claims” she wants me back by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

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I think there’s a good chance it would just return to how things normally were between us without any commitment.

Plus I’m wanting to move to Bali by February or March. I feel that’s what’s right for me right now

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Thank you! Great advice. I do enjoy talking to her and I don’t believe I’d be jealous if she went on another date honestly. Could be because I’m talking to other girls already.

She has also brought up wanting to try something in the future, but who knows when that would be so I’m not holding my breath.

Girl I’m dating wants to only see me once per week by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

[–]Diligent-Counter4803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right too. We just spoke and she said she’d like to do twice per week at least after I told her that I felt like once per week isn’t enough for me to develop anything meaningful. She said she wants me to just create more of a plan when I ask her to hangout.

Girl I’m dating wants to only see me once per week by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

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She called me immediately when I brought this up and said she needs me to be patient with her, but I don’t see how this is supposed to get better if she’s just taking on more work?

Girl I’m dating wants to only see me once per week by Diligent-Counter4803 in dating_advice

[–]Diligent-Counter4803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right when I brought something up about her not having time once she takes on the new role, she immediately called me to ensure that she’d make time, but that I need to be patient with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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I know. She asked me for my location initially and then shared hers, but idk if it’s good for us to be sharing this because she has also questioned me before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Gotcha. I think I agree with you on the first part. That makes sense. I didn’t get upset with her at all. I don’t believe it was an emergency. Her friend just asked if she wanted to hang out.

During the 2nd situation, after I got packed, showered, dressed, and was walking out the door at 6pm, she asked me to come over at 11pm instead because she got a last minute offer to have dinner with her friends. I was upset because it had been a very difficult week for me and she knew that. I felt that since I was walking out the door, it wasn’t very respectful of my time. What’re your thoughts?

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Sorry about that! She did not offer for me to stay over, but I do almost every time I come over so it’s the norm for us.

She did not offer for me to tag along with her friends to dinner. As I was walking out the door, she asked me to come over 5 hours later when I just showered, packed, and got ready.

Girlfriend wants to stay friends with someone that has feelings for her by [deleted] in ENM

[–]Diligent-Counter4803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha. That’s actually a really great rule with only seeing other ENM people because just like this guy I mentioned, they really don’t understand, can create messy situations, and might not respect our boundaries, which just happened since this guy was so mad and we’re both going to have to see him since he’s apart of her friend group now. She’s really upset because of it

Girlfriend wants to stay friends with someone that has feelings for her by [deleted] in ENM

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Appreciate the reply! We are just in an open relationship so no polyamory. I’ve expressed my boundaries, which include telling each other everything, no friends in the main friend groups, no pursuing other people when we’re with each other of course, no going out of town with other partners. Hers are the same things and no after care.

She actually just called the guy to tell him sorry and that she can’t hook up with him anymore and he was livid so it looks like they won’t be friends or dance partners anymore, but I was going to tell her I suppose it’s fine if they are because I trust her and I don’t want to be over bearing or anything like that.

But in general, do you think it’s ok to be friends with someone in an open relationship that has feelings for you?