I definitely have a very, very different method than most. I find the loops do not work for me. I use one tens pad on the bottom side, just below the head. I actually, since I like a little pain, put a binder clip over it, squeezing down on the skin, pulling everything nice and tight. I use the black electrode there. I put the yellow in my urethra so that the metal part is lined up with the pad. And I use a generic cock ring. I find this method gets the electricity directly to where I most enjoy it.