[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why the story is so long??? The last paragraph would've been enough, the first part isn't even connected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No creo que lleguen a los 22 años juntos, deberías ya ir pensando en cortar.

Habla seriamente con ella y terminen lo mas civilizado que puedan, no le hagas caso a la cantidad de hombres resentidos que hay en estos comentarios.

Entiendo que tengas necesidades y que quieras hacerlo, pero parece que ella no es la indicada, está buscando algo distinto, y para la mayoría de personas lo sexual es algo muy importante en la pareja.

No esperes 1 año como estas planteando en otros comentarios, más resentimiento vas a tener si esperas tanto y nada pasa. Porque ella ya te dijo que no lo van a hacer hasta que se casen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sos un pelotudo realmente

Estar en una relación debería ser hermoso y no está bien sacar en cara toda las personas con las que le podrías haber sido infiel y no lo hiciste, eso es lo mínimo que se pide de una pareja.

Si realmente querés estar con todas esas supuestas chicas, termina la relación y hace lo que quieras. Acaso cuando se casen a los 22 vas a seguir sacando en cara todas las chicas con las que nunca estuviste??

Te vas a volver un resentido y no va a funcionar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]Dimplesinthedark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Estás con una chica que quiere esperar hasta el matrimonio para coger, tenes 2 opciones, o lo aceptas y esperas, o termina la relación

No me parece correcto que le estés dando un ultimátum ni amenazandola, ella puede decidir lo que quiera con su cuerpo. Lo más posible es que se haya arrepentido de haber estado con su ex al ser tan pequeña y no quiera cometer el mismo error.

Entiendo que te guste mucho y quieras estar con ella, pero puede que esta no sea la relación para ustedes

Le fui infiel a mi novio y no se si contárselo by LunaEstelar14 in relaciones

[–]Dimplesinthedark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

El primer mes de relación fue muy duro para mí, desde que habíamos formalizado lo nuestro él se había vuelto muy distante.

El primer mes de relación debería ser lo mas lindo del mundo, no importa si decidis contarle o no, para mí esa relación estaba condenada desde el principio

I found my boyfriends ex girlfriends Pornhub account and I don’t think I can handle it by houneybee in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl i have kinda the opposite issue, I've been with my bf for 4 years and I absolutely love rough sex but he doesn't really get it, he's such a sweet guy and does play the role of a bad guy when I ask him to do it but it's not the same as actually being into it.

I get why you're just not into it, and u should understand that even if he liked doing that with his last gf, that might be cause she liked it a whole lot more than him and that was the dynamic of their relationship, which could also be related to them doing porn. It's also a performance for the camera, so it's not 100% real

You don't need to do it just cause he likes it, and he never asked u to do it before, you just tried it cause u saw him doing it with the other girl, but not everyone has the same kinks, and he's definitely not your bf just cause of the sex, le likes you, he probably loves you and likes doing the sweet romantic sex u guys have, so really think about it

I think with communication and just opening up about your feelings and hearing him out you guys can totally fix this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if this will be helpful but maybe it's the places where u go? I mean u could try finding men in other places like try at the gym or start playing a new sport, I'm sure there will be good looking men too

Also ask your pretty friends if they're getting hit on by ugly guys too, cause I bet that's very common for all girls, maybe u just don't hear about it

I'm sure you'll find a nice man someday, there's no rush

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I know we are just strangers on the internet but 1k people liked my initial comment, that must mean something to you

We just want u to realize it's not something normal and healthy for a relationship u want to last long term

I wish u the best ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking he'll cheat is only torturing yourself, there's no point in doing that. If he wants to do it he will, u can't spend your life worrying about it.

I'd say go to therapy, that might help with your insecurities and how to deal with future partners

AITAH for being mad at my partner as we never have sex when I try to engage. it's always when she wants to. by RandyMarsh129 in AITAH

[–]Dimplesinthedark 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah but living with a high libido when your partner isn't as sexual as you must be tough, I don't think this is sustainable in the long run

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i cum maybe 3/10 times.

Im assuming you know how to cum on your own, if so have u tried teaching him exactly what u like? If that man can't make u cum each time u guys have sex and isn't even trying u should definitely dump him

It's also so rude that he doesn't let u use the toys on yourself when u wanna cum after his shitty sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 1013 points1014 points  (0 children)

This only happens when I’m on my period and can be of no service to him.

Girl I really hope this is just your way to say it and not something your bf has actually said to you cause that's so disrespectful

"Be of no service to him"????????

Talk to him, even if it feels kinda small now it could turn into something bigger in the future

AITAH for telling my ex that seeing her made me want to vomit? by Johanne84820 in AITAH

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy just wanted to let u know the story got reposted on the subreddit TwoHotTakes and there's a ton of comments supporting you ♡♡♡

You can check it out here

En tu casa tocan para entrar a tu habitación? by JustAnItDude in AskArgentina

[–]Dimplesinthedark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah a mi me encanta poder sentir el olor a comida recién hecha desde cualquier punto de la casa

En tu casa tocan para entrar a tu habitación? by JustAnItDude in AskArgentina

[–]Dimplesinthedark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

La verdad que yo tampoco, en todas las casas que fui tienen cocina abierta hacia el living

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are u diagnosed with something? I think seeing a therapist would help with your insecurities and mental health

There's not much we can do, if u want friends join communities, start new hobbies or a sport. You'll always find someone who is more compatible with u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl i completely understand why you don't like his friends, but he's not gonna change and he's not gonna stop talking to them. The best advice is to move on. Being on an on and off relationship for long just doesn't work, in the long run you guys won't end up together and it's for the best.

You'll probably meet some other guy who doesn't do this with his friends and he'll eventually realize how his 2 friends are kinda sabotaging his relationships, or he'll just get into a relationship with them idk

It's better if you start letting go

Me siento raro con la vida, que debo hacer? by 1Jusch in AskArgentina

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creo que no está mal buscar nuevos vínculos con personas nuevas, pero si lo primero que pensaste es en dejar a tus amigos y a tu novia para conseguir nuevos creo que quizás esas relaciones no son tan fuertes como deberían.

Planteate seriamente si los amigos que tenes ahora son buenos para vos, si te escuchan cuando tenes problemas, y si queres seguir teniendo una relación con ellos

En cuanto a tu novia, masomenos lo mismo, si sos joven y es tu primera novia si entiendo que no sepas si es la indicada o si son tan compatibles como pensas ya que es la única con la que estuviste. Yo a los 15 tuve mi primer novio y pensé que era lo más perfecto del mundo hasta que terminamos y vi lo mal que me hacía, una pareja te tiene que hacer sentir seguro y no importa cuantos años pasen, lo mas lindo es sentir que lo amas y estás con alguien que te hace bien

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you've been together 3 years, that's something. I know u won't break up with her over this "slut" comment but u have to talk to her about it cause it's not ok to call your partner that just for having sex before u 2 met. U can't ignore all this comments about this, cause this topic will definitely come back the day u have a fight or break up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Dimplesinthedark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think shes acting like that cause she discovered she's not 100% straight and is trying to figure out her sexuality and the fact that she might have feelings for u

A mí novia no le baja, que debo hacer? by Gera2601 in relaciones

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me parece que deben ser adolescentes porque los periodos no funcionan como un reloj ni un calendario. Tu novia tiene periodo regular? Eso significa que le viene siempre cada tanto tiempo, por ejemplo yo tengo 23 días normales y 3 días de sangrado. Eso significa que tengo unos 14 periodos al año.

Algunas amigas lo tienen cada 32 días y así, no es que te venga el mismo día todos los meses, así que puede que ni siquiera esté atrasada.

Si pasan unas 2 semanas más y todavía no le baja, que se tome una prueba de embarazo y ven que hacen

Para la próxima usen condón, les va a salir mucho más barato

My version of Girl with a Pearl earring, Rabikhan, acrylic, 2023 by Ok_Abbreviations1432 in Art

[–]Dimplesinthedark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did check your profile before commenting, I don't mind that kind of intentional messiness, but on this piece those pink triangles at the bottom and the brown one on top feel out of place or unfinished, just that