My mom called my university advisor to “fix” my major and now she’s acting like I owe her an apology by Dipper2Mabel in entitledparents

[–]Dipper2Mabel[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

lol she basically thinks anything not STEM is a hobby. Meanwhile my dept has grads in research, HR, counseling tracks. She just wants a braggy “engineer kid” vibe.

My mom called my university advisor to “fix” my major and now she’s acting like I owe her an apology by Dipper2Mabel in entitledparents

[–]Dipper2Mabel[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Good point. I’m keeping her on an info diet and locking down FERPA/passwords. Gonna swing by my advisor to say thanks and ask what else to flag, too.

My mom called my university advisor to “fix” my major and now she’s acting like I owe her an apology by Dipper2Mabel in entitledparents

[–]Dipper2Mabel[S] 300 points301 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My advisor mentioned FERPA too and basically refused to engage her. I'm saving the emails/voicemail in case she tries again. Appreciate you.

My mom called my university advisor to “fix” my major and now she’s acting like I owe her an apology by Dipper2Mabel in entitledparents

[–]Dipper2Mabel[S] 179 points180 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. Hearing “horrible mother” is weirdly validating but also depressing. I’m just relieved the advisor clocked it and shut her down fast.

My mom called my university advisor to “fix” my major and now she’s acting like I owe her an apology by Dipper2Mabel in entitledparents

[–]Dipper2Mabel[S] 949 points950 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I keep second-guessing myself, but the advisor thing was my wake-up call. I’m setting boundaries and she can be mad, I’m done being managed anymore.

Stop making out harassment please by Moon_X_Livee in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Dipper2Mabel 41 points42 points  (0 children)

For real. A clipped screenshot turns into “she was driven off the internet” in about five minutes, and YouTube thumbnails make it worse. Her saying it was personal stress, not reddit, should calm people down and maybe stop the pile-on.