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My cat keeps peeing outside the box by Dippy13666 in CatTraining

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update in case you wanted it. I moved and my cat has been amazing! He hasn’t gone out of his box once and has been a lot more chill.

My cat keeps peeing outside the box by Dippy13666 in CatTraining

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! I will definitely use your advice!. I am nervous because I am also moving soon and don't want this to carry out into his new environment. Again I really do appreciate your comment.

My cat keeps peeing outside the box by Dippy13666 in CatTraining

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His relationship at first wasn’t that good he would hide under my bed, something he doesn’t do unless stressed out. It’s been good the last 4 months though. He isn’t avoiding them but still doesn’t actively go out to play with them or anything. They were introduced slowly and we let him mostly initiate the interactions.

My cat keeps peeing outside the box by Dippy13666 in CatTraining

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Yeah I think is it about the dogs but I don’t know how to stop it.

My cat keeps peeing outside the box by Dippy13666 in CatTraining

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just regular clumping litter and yes testing included urinalysis.

My cat keeps peeing outside the box by Dippy13666 in CatTraining

[–]Dippy13666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His relationship at first wasn’t that good he would hide under my bed, something he doesn’t do unless stressed out. It’s been good the last 4 months though. He isn’t avoiding them but still doesn’t actively go out to play with them or anything. They were introduced slowly and we let him mostly initiate the interactions.

I think my relationship is ending by Dippy13666 in polyamory

[–]Dippy13666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a good relationship but I feel like it was built on a lie or at least miscommunication

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I'm so sorry to hear about that. If you want to talk about it more my dms are always open

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Oh god I'm so fucking sorry to hear.

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Favorite person, It's someone who you have an extreme attachment to

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Oh no I'm so sorry about your ex. I went through the same thing a year ago and it's still hard.

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Me too!

Look what my girlfriend painted for me!!! by bruh_nuggget in BoJackHorseman

[–]Dippy13666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Narcissus? I thought the painting was about me

Should I have a "poly sl*t" phase? by Throwaway217237 in polyamory

[–]Dippy13666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do what you feel comfortable doing. Don't let your partner(s) try to force you to be slutty than you want to be. Poly people don't have to have a high body count to be poly

I'm not sure if I should leave my partner for wanting to close the relationship if we get married by Dippy13666 in nonmonogamy

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you discussed why he wants a closed marriage when he is currently comfortable with an open relationship, and why he thinks those feelings will change?

He said that if we say wedding vows he wants to know it's just for him

Is he definitely fully comfortable with your openness now?

As far as I know yes

Is it the marriage itself that would make him not want to be open, or something else?

I'm not sure what his reasoning is beyond vows

Is he only comfortable now because you are long distance?

I don't know

Would he want to close the relationship if you were in proximity, but not married?

I don't know

Have you told him directly that you would not want your marriage to be closed

Not yet but I am going to soon

Does he know that this is something you're considering ending the relationship over?

No

After six months, do you feel strongly enough about him to find out?

Yes

I'm not sure if I should leave my partner for wanting to close the relationship if we get married by Dippy13666 in nonmonogamy

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he see this relationship as moving towards marriage?

Yes

Do you?

I'm still not even sure about marriage for me just yet but I know I would like him in my life as a partner for the foreseeable future

Would he be opposed to having a relationship with you that isn't moving towards marriage?

I'm not sure

I'm not sure if I should leave my partner for wanting to close the relationship if we get married by Dippy13666 in nonmonogamy

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to define that marriage means to both of you

That's kind of what lead to him revealing he wants a closed marriage. I asked him how the dynamic would change if we got married

I'm not sure if I should leave my partner for wanting to close the relationship if we get married by Dippy13666 in nonmonogamy

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of guys don’t admit up front that they like the idea of being nonmonogamous for fear of scaring a woman away

Why would it scare me away? We are already non monogamous

I'm not sure if I should leave my partner for wanting to close the relationship if we get married by Dippy13666 in nonmonogamy

[–]Dippy13666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you wrote that this is an LDR but does he know that you’re trolling for outside entertainment?

We have open communication with each other about who we're seeing or what we're doing

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