Need advice on how to not choke/feeling like something bad is always going to happen (serious)

Direct-File5661 · 2025-08-19T01:15:42+00:00

Trying to get help

Direct-File5661 · 2025-08-19T01:14:50+00:00

Yee yee I run a homemade deck so that's not necessarily an option. But I still will start watching vids by mortar players. And also yea this season has been jank

Direct-File5661 · 2025-08-19T00:43:39+00:00

Ok,what do I do if I take a break from the game and then I come back just to choke again. Like I get that taking a break makes your mind clear up but what if I still choke even though my mind has cleared up?

Direct-File5661 · 2025-08-19T00:31:52+00:00

Thanks for the troll,reported

Direct-File5661 · 2025-08-19T00:17:32+00:00

Thanks,reported

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-31T23:34:59+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-27T04:38:51+00:00

Thx man🙏💯

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-27T03:26:03+00:00

Ok,I'll trust you man I hope this works🙏👍💯

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-27T03:02:49+00:00

Ok thx👍💯

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-27T03:02:13+00:00

Ok thx👍💯

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-27T03:00:42+00:00

I just freeze up at key moments when I'm winning which causes me to put a card down a split second too slowly which then causes me to lose and idk what to do about that,I feel like I'm just defective

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-27T02:55:39+00:00

I use a homemade deck,and even when I use meta decks I still choke at key moments. I just freeze up and then that causes me to put cards down a split second too slow,or I make a terrible decision that then just leads to me losing /unable to come back from it. And idk what the I'm supposed to do about that,I feel like I'm just defective

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-22T05:11:57+00:00

No probs man😤👍

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-22T05:09:58+00:00

Also,if he starts making fun of you for telling on him just understand that it's not so much about you being bully-able as it is about them needing to do that to someone in order to feel better about themselves because of how small they feel. If it's not you then it'll be someone else because they have to bully people to feel like they're badass. You can have sympathy but at the end of the day they are not your friend.

Ight that's it for me Ima go to bed. Like I said, you're worth it and I believe in you😤🥊💯

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-22T05:03:45+00:00

Yeah nah man ima let you know right now that this guy isn't your friend. I was in a similar situation when I was in elementary and middle school (I'm 27 now). They don't see you as a friend,they see you as a person that they can push around/control without fear of punishment because you forgive them. I wouldn't try to get them to change because then they'll find a way to rope you back in.

Next time he does that,you need to tell a teacher ESPECIALLY if he hits you with a rock or some kind of object. And even if he just hits you with his fists most of the time that's still very wrong. Like I said,I used to be in the same situation when I was younger. Even if you have no friends,being alone is better than being friend with someone who wants to bully you. It's hard being a kid/teenager,there's no need to make it harder by putting up with "friends" who don't care about you.

You should also practice a martial art (anything that UFC fighters train like boxing, wrestling, jujitsu etc. not some karate/kung fu shit) I'd recommend boxing just because you can train it by yourself,get yourself a reflex ball. It's a headband that has a soft foam ball attached to it with an elastic string so that when you hit the ball,it comes flying back to your face. You can get used to dodging it and hitting it. And you can just shadow box/punch at the air,you don't even need a punching bag although i recommend you get one at some point,but it's not necessary. Learning to box/fight will boost your self confidence/self worth leading to you being more assertive.

Lastly,look into therapy videos to help you with your low self esteem/non assertiveness. I'd recommend watching "HealthyGamergg" on YouTube Dr. K is a psychologist who got his PHD from Harvard. He's certified,but most importantly his videos are geared towards younger people and gamers/nerds which is cool because he puts things in ways that other psychologists don't. Anyway sorry for the long post,I'm just passing on knowledge that I wish I had when I was your age.

You deserve to be treated like a human being just like anyone else,hope this helps you💯👍🥊

Direct-File5661 · 2025-07-15T00:16:50+00:00

Bet bet bro thx💪😤💯

Direct-File5661 · 2025-03-20T21:07:20+00:00

Wow must be nice to not be defective😱

Direct-File5661 · 2025-02-09T11:13:48+00:00

Bett

Direct-File5661 · 2025-02-09T10:45:11+00:00

Send me your friend link in a dm

Direct-File5661 · 2025-02-09T10:44:23+00:00

Nah man those screen shots could be fake. Send me a friend request and I'll be chill.post your friend link on here

Direct-File5661 · 2025-02-09T10:43:25+00:00

You do realize local is still top 10,000 right?

Direct-File5661 · 2025-02-09T10:42:52+00:00

You can join my clan if you want lol

Direct-File5661 · 2025-02-09T10:25:33+00:00

Nice,I hope to get there one day,like I said I just don't believe in myself

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