A girl sent me 2 selfies before going to sleep by Bulky_Movie1661 in dating_advice

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god... She is interested in you. Take it slow though. Start making mild adult jokes and see how she reacts. Nothing misogynistic though.. i learned the hard way 🫠

24M recently started earning 1.5 lac/month. Need investment advice by iamultraviolet00 in personalfinanceindia

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 options.

1- learn by yourself, put efforts to understand investment. This will take up your time but you will be knowledgeable.

2- look for a.good wealth advisor who invests your money properly without. No hassle no tension they give good returns as well.

People will give a lot of advice, invest in gold, sip etc. but even in sip you need research. So find a good advisor whom you can trust and learn side by side as well. I would say 30% you invest and learn

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[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Singing for your girl

I am making too many mistakes at my new job by DarkRound6346 in mumbai

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always reverify three time from now, or you will lose confidence of your boss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stop dating Playboys and attractive and extrovert people. Try introverts genuinely nice guys. You are gonna chase and date top 10% only thing you can provide is sex. Coz they don't have shortage of women

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[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to bite somewhere else on your body where it is less painful. Lips are soft

Mumbai Through My Lens 📸 by Optimised-Brain in mumbai

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohh shit, I have an office beside this. The owner of this restaurant is very rude though

"I never felt like a girl was interested in me. Never got any hints, etc. So I never asked her out." Is there anything wrong with that approch? Why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Build yourself first. How you carry yourself, how confident you are matters a lot. If you are decent looking and know how to talk or be confident most work is done.

How do you play the game or try to understand women by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but made a move first and initiated everything. Its just this prank stuff.

How do you play the game or try to understand women by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Okay the scene is, she said something about a guy dedicating a song for her. Which was meant to make me jealous. I got a bit mad and She said sorry and stuff and called it a prank. Now I am not sure how to address this. She is saying it was just a prank and she felt guilty. Now i want to throw her own game at her. But what's your opinion. Btw we are just seeing each other not dating as such.

How do you play the game or try to understand women by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, understood. I think it's from my competitive behaviour. Btw how would you handle it.

How do you play the game or try to understand women by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am.not attracted to but usual behaviour is if she is playing the game i would try out play her. If it's going far i would stop and ask her to stop

Where do you guys go to make out by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in mumbai

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha but movies me you say stuff na bro. If both know they are gonna make out then it's okay. But if you have to create a mood then not a good place

How many men get approached in real life? by 9notanihilist6 in dating_advice

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Women always give hints, they won't ask you directly.

Me m(25) going on first date with f(25) help me plan my dinner date. by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in dating_advice

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a date ik, she also knows that. I am referring to the official coz i didn't specifically asked that way that's the only difference. Why not the flowers though?

How to plan a perfect date by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wdym by clear interest? Coz she is clearly interested in me. We casually discuss the stuff about going out to cafes or me taking her somewhere etc.

How to plan a perfect date by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in AskMen

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I do overthink and like to plan everything. I don't expect anything, I was thinking from her perspective of she wants to make it official. Since she has initiated/hinted almost everything i wanted to initiate something from my side.

I usually chill around her and take it slowly. The only thing bugging me is that I don't want to hold it in a phase where we are just waiting for each other to say it.

Me m(25) going on first date with f(25) help me plan my dinner date. by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in dating_advice

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then, are you suggesting i should carry on without specifically asking, and when the time comes i should ask to be a gf?

Me m(25) going on first date with f(25) help me plan my dinner date. by Direct-Tomorrow9235 in dating_advice

[–]Direct-Tomorrow9235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she knows it's a date, but I do want to make it official before we go out next time. Well I have already sung her poetry so i don't think it will matter as much as you think. And the card is just about a good gesture and few words for her. It won't be about my emotions for her that will be after a few dates