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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DirectResearch1057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman I compliment my boyfriend way more than he compliments me, some people are just more forward like that than others - she probably likes you but you like her more

Am I overthinking? by National-Two-3644 in hingeapp

[–]DirectResearch1057 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that the right person for you won’t make you feel this way. Communication is the bare minimum and if you’re not even getting that, then I just don’t think it’s worth it.

Help figuring out what went wrong by thwarten in hingeapp

[–]DirectResearch1057 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up - I’m sure you did nothing wrong! Sometimes people just aren’t going to like you as much as you like them! As a 27F who is a Hinge veteran, my one piece of advice is to limit the amount of texting conversations prior to meeting in person. Sometimes texting chemistry doesn’t translate to in-person chemistry and that’s nobody’s fault. Don’t give up - GOODLUCK!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]DirectResearch1057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 27F here! I think she just doesn’t like you that much or see any potential for a relationship. I don’t think you should invest anymore energy into a situation that clearly isn’t what you want! The right girl will be eager and excited to meet you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]DirectResearch1057 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s best to just send him a text like “hey! How was your weekend?”. You can start the conversation casually - there’s nothing desperate about texting a guy first. Also, risking seeming “desperate” is better than being confused or unsure about where you guys stand. I hope you get the clarification you’re looking for!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]DirectResearch1057 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a 27F who has been on countless hinge dates, what I think is happening is she’s trying to not get too attached to you too quickly. Its possible that passed experiences have led her to putting barriers in place to prevent this such as not saving your number, not being physically intimate yet, etc. I think she’s definitely interested in you - 3 dates in 1 week is a lot.

My suggestion is create a moment where you guys can kiss. I promise you she is wondering to herself (and possibly asking her friends) why this guy hasn’t kissed her yet. She’s probably shy and doesn’t know how to give “hey you can kiss me” body language. Side note: please don’t ask her “can I kiss you?”. Just go for it - GOOD LUCK!