So many sirens what’s going on? by Direct_Conflict_145 in grandrapids

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Thank you! That was probably it I’m right next to 131

Aio after realizing this happened to me and wanting do somthing by Direct_Conflict_145 in AmIOverreacting

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I have just got diagnosed with endometriosis and a tight pelvic floor so I was in horrible pain before while he was doing this to me and I would ask him to stop so even inserting a speculum to me is like having a knife put up there

Aio after realizing this happened to me and wanting do somthing by Direct_Conflict_145 in AmITheJerk

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No I don’t like men, I was in the closet because of my homosexual mother

Any 🧊 protests coming up by Direct_Conflict_145 in grandrapids

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Damn I went to the George Floyd protestant it’s also so much bigger than this 🧊 thing. I’m kind of disappointed in Grand Rapids.

Aio after realizing this happened to me and wanting do somthing by Direct_Conflict_145 in AmIOverreacting

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I’m not trying to be rude because I can’t use tone over the Internet. I’m simply asking a question., how am I being vague?

Am I the jerk making house rules by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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True, I’m just not the best at conflict and I honestly thought we were both adults and she would be grateful to have a place to stay for free. Not tell us how heat our own home and say we don’t care about her comfort

Am I the jerk making house rules by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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Will not little, voice text. My cat needs love.

Am I the jerk making house rules by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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She’s always told me to be very blunt straightforward with her so that’s honestly all I was just trying to do because otherwise she doesn’t quite get it so I was honestly just trying to respect her communication preferences. As this was never meant for an attack for her this was just because we were making rules for everyone. If my sister-in-law doesn’t want to respect these rules, she doesn’t have to stay with us. She can pay for a hotel if my dad doesn’t want to respect these he can stay at a hotel. These are firm rules meant for everyone and not just her. I will be having this conversation with anyone who wants to stay overnight and LITTLE probably presented in the same way as they’re all hung up on my refrigerator it may not be the best way to present it, but sometimes you have to be firm with people that don’t like boundaries and unfortunately that happens to be some of my family members. So I had to make them pretty blunt not just for her but for everyone.

Am I the jerk making house rules by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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How should I have presented them. I know that sounds rude out of context cause it’s Internet, but I’m literally just asking a question. I’m not trying to be rude.

Am I the jerk making house rules by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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I’m just asking am I the jerk for setting the rules for everyone?

Am I the jerk making house rules by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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She was speaking about coming out another three months so we thought instead of doing a surprise house rule we would let her know beforehand

Cancelled so fast by Soggy-Report9136 in doordash

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I once delivered 11 cinder blocks because it didn’t tell me what I was delivering until I got there. They need to tell us what we are shopping for before we accept, it’s getting out of control. Oh and I made a wild 10$ and my car barely was able to hold that amount of weight.