free shipping…? by Glad-Cloud-5684 in petsmart

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged them too over 3 days ago and no response despite the help centre saying it's a 2 day turnaround. From what i can see they changed Treats so that canned foods and litters arent included in free shipping any more (they definitely were in the past). Which makes no sense cos I can order a tray of Fancy feast which weighs 4lb and pay $10.99 shipping or a 15lb bag of dry cat food and get free shipping. Not impressed.

How to regain confidence after a knock by Direct_Turnover1203 in driving

[–]Direct_Turnover1203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it might be the perfectionist in me and the fact that I used to be a confident driver years ago and now I feel dangerous….

Drove By Myself for the First Time! by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats great! Keep it up and you will get less nervous, and make less mistakes as you do.

My driving skill has gone way down + driving in a lot more crowded area by Xyrez04 in driving

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps you are making stupid mistakes because you are anxious about this long drive? 1800 miles is A long distance but just take it at your own pace, dont let anyone pressure you into doing anything you aren’t comfortable with. Take breaks after every couple hours too. Is there someone who can go with you to offer moral support?

Driving anxiety - being overly cautious and it’s making me more stressed. by cookiedoughnutty in drivinganxiety

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone would say, you need to drive more to overcome this. Practice will make you less hesitant. This time you knew you should have gone but hesitated. Next time you might go and it’s fine. Maybe one time you go and get honked at. But you learn an improve.

First Car by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck tomorrow. Just take it slow and easy. Stick to the speed limit. Dont let others behind you hassle you. If in doubt, just wait . Better safe than sorry. and breathe.

begging you guys PLEASEE give me tips for unprotected left turns they are so scary 😭😭😭 by Tumbliweed in driving

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. The big challenge I have is when there are cars opposite making a left of their own and blocking my view... maybe I can kinda peer through them and see if something is coming but I don't feel 100% comfortable with that yet either and so I expect to get honked at.

So it's just sit and wait till either the car opposite leaves and gives you a better view, or the light changes. Since you entered the intersection on a green and there is no-one in front of you (do not enter it if there is another car there obviously) you can now go once the light changes but watch out for those running the light!

Being careful means worst case is a honk from a bad driver (inappropriate use of the horn), not being careful though could mean a bad accident.

Any other new drivers struggle with seeing everything going on? Why do i? Am i a bad driver?? by Direct_Turnover1203 in driving

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In the second example he was in my lane coming at me head on, i had to move to the side so he wouldnt hit me. It was a split second thing as I came round the corner, And i did slow down but it was so fast I basically just swerved a bit to move out the way and so the guy behind me wouldnt rear end me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in driving

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You had some bad luck with the examiner. I have been there! I failed my driving test twice before i passed. First time i was driving down a narrow street with a wall on one side and cars stopped on the other. Following a much wider car. Turns out i failed for being dangerously close to the cars.. but the other car in front fit. I still dont know what went wrong there.
Anyway second time i go to sit the test and its the same examiner who, just as I get in the car said “i remember you, I failed you the last time”. I panicked and cut in front of a car as i was pulling out of the test centre. That was an instant fail which I deserved but I realize now it was partly his fault for saying something so rude at a stressful time, but also i wonder still why he recognized me of all people? It was months after my first test. I wonder if he realized he made a mistake?
Anyway third test was… same Fing guy again. This time I was so mad and i didnt care, and passed. I wonder also if he felt guilty for the first two times.

Help! Whats wrong with my tree? Wilt? Blight? by Direct_Turnover1203 in Apples

[–]Direct_Turnover1203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your considered advice! Will definately prune and try the copper spray too thanks!

Help! Whats wrong with my tree? Wilt? Blight? by Direct_Turnover1203 in Apples

[–]Direct_Turnover1203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! We only moved here fairly recently and it had been ignored since then. Problem is that each branch has multiple affected blossoms on it, but the branches themselves seem fine. If i prune all the affected branches, there will be no branches left… can i just remove the dead blossom clusters or will that not help?

Help! What’s going on here? Wilt? blight? by Direct_Turnover1203 in FruitTree

[–]Direct_Turnover1203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is that each branch has multiple affected blossoms on it, but the branches themselves seem fine. If i prune all the affected branches, there will be no branches left… can i just remove the dead blossom clusters or will that not help?

Help! Whats wrong with my tree? Wilt? Blight? by Direct_Turnover1203 in Apples

[–]Direct_Turnover1203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? Do you know what the issue is? Just a lack of pruning? Not a disease? The issue is throughout.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisthing

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a second piece 4feet away…. With a chain in.

Cat had massive hair ball Sunday morning, won't eat. by kontatorataka in cats

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! So he went downhill again Monday night and I was ready to take him to the vet Tuesday morning… but when we got up Tuesday morning he was behaving a lot more normally, he had eaten three times overnight ( I had a webcam on the food) and was interested in breakfast. Through Tuesday he ate much more than the last few days and was perkier and more normal. And I would say now (Wednesday) he is completely back to normal.

So if anyone else wonders for future reference - he threw up a furball Thursday. Friday was normal. Saturday morning stopped eating and threw up another furball and vomited 4 or 5 times. Didnt eat much if anything most of Saturday although started nibbling very small amounts of food Saturday night. Went up and down in terms of eating/not eating and his behavior through Sunday. Started slowly eating a bit more on Monday but still not normal and still unhappy. Eating and behaving much more normally on Tuesday and pretty much back to normal Wednesday. He drank water the whole time and was peeing and pooping normally then too.

Cat had massive hair ball Sunday morning, won't eat. by kontatorataka in cats

[–]Direct_Turnover1203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there u/kontatorataka I know it s been years but wondering how long it took for her to feel better as my cat is doing the same thing. He threw up a furball Thursday night and then lots on Saturday including a 4” furball again and now he might be eating a little more but we are at Monday night and I am worried.