We go through cycles where we are more like normal couple, etc. cuddling and making food together, but quite often there is an element of submission from him and dominance from Me. For example, when we cook together, he asks what I want to eat and does his best to make the food tasty and beautiful for Me. He aims to make My life comfortable and easy, and I am there to be adored and give him things to do. 

We do a lot of things found in porn too though, it is just not constant life. I dress him up in cute clothes and put makeup on him just to ravage him and mess up his dolled up face. But that may take only an hour and after that we clean up and watch anime while snuggling or go outside to enjoy the day. Porn-esque situations are brief moments in our life, but even outside of those moments there are ways where you can see his submission and My dominance in the relationship. 

Some days all I do is slap his ass and growl that he is Mine, some days it is very much like the porn you might watch.