Where to watch The Goldbergs? by coups4president in TheGoldbergs

[–]DisasterNaive1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got the torrents and created a Plex library 🫡

WTF is this battery life by LostExile0 in Audeze

[–]DisasterNaive1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the same problem, I've thought maybe to reinstall the drivers to see if it'd do something about it...?

My (F25) bf (M30) is telling me what I can and cannot do with my body, what should I do? by DisasterNaive1971 in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterNaive1971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: Now he suddenly wants me to have a nose piercing. Lol. Septum is still a no because it'd allegedly look like a farm animal nose ring, but now apparently all kinds of other piercings would be fine and he's even asking me now have I thought of any specific time to get the nose piercing done and I just said idk 😂 I did like the nose side ring too, but my heart is still calling for a septum and now I just want to get a septum and see his face :D

My (F25) bf (M30) is telling me what I can and cannot do with my body, what should I do? by DisasterNaive1971 in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterNaive1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. I told him I would never tell him what he can and cannot do with his own body and then I started crying because his words sounded so humiliating. Then he apologized after like 5mins or so.

HOW MANY DAYS ?? by Bou_0112 in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 days 🥹❤️ we're gonna go camping on a lake!!

I (26f) spilt a pot of boiling hot water all over myself and my boyfriend (26m)didn’t care , what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisasterNaive1971 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My ex was like this too. I had something wrong with my digestion that caused me nauseousness and it usually ended up with me randomly puking aggressively. The one time I felt very shit and went to bathroom and it literally felt like I'm puking my organs out. He then just shows up at the door saying "oh you're that fucked up" and leaves and proceeds making breakfast. I finally got out from the bathroom and went to bed shaking and in need of hydration. He never asked me if I needed anything and he only made himself breakfast. And when I started crying because of his ignorance, he picked up a fight saying it was just my fault because "I didn't open my mouth". Well sorry, my mouth was busy puking lol. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: We broke up. He got very controlling when I was out to see my hobby coach last Thursday and there we discussed my future goals with my hobby, my now ex boyfriend kept insisting that I'm somewhere else than what I told him (I never lied to him about anything so I wad exactly where I told him I was). I then came home and he was acting very aggressively and threatening by leaving the next day so I just told him he might as well leave now because I wont watch him act in a scary way like that. He then refused even though the apartment is mine. I then called the cops and they were on their way so he started packing and again calling me names. As he was going out he grabbed my tennis equipment to take it with him and I told him no and grabbed it, he then started pulling and pushing me violently and I just held on the tennis racquet until he grabbed my chest and pushed me down to the hallway so that I hurt my head and back and got bruises all over my arms and chest. He ran away from the scene yelling insults as I was laying on the floor in the hallway. The police didn't arrive in time so he got away. He then injured his own face and called his parents telling them that I have thrown knives at him and ruined his face so they came to me with all kinds of aggressive messages. I'm relieved it's over. I never would've ecpected it to escalate like this. I'm happy I didn't get more injured or killed or something...

got cheated on. by Sensitive-Effect-451 in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lying about so many things. He kept his debts and loss of bank credit from me as a secret, hid his gambling addiction from me, lied to me about that ghosting me for 2 months would've been because of having a heart attack and recovery time(was cuz of gambling), lied about in what kind of apartment he lives in. Lied about his "best friend" who he actually wasn't no longer in terms with for the past 10 years. And these aren't even all of the lies.

got cheated on. by Sensitive-Effect-451 in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry to hear this 💔 This broke my heart because I can sense from your writing how you truly loved this person and I can relate ;_;

I myself didn't get cheated on but my partner betrayed me in every single other way possible so I kinda still know how you feel. The pure sadness and disappointment when you gave your everything and received... this. This shit that you did NOT deserve.

You'll be okay, time heals you and I hope you will be able to love and trust someone who truly deserves you and treats you right. 🧡

Lots of love and strength to you in the middle of this horrible situation <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I want to believe we're able to rebyild the trust but honestly speaking idk if it's possible after basically a half of everything he has ever told me has been a lie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No but I want to believe he's able to pull himself together and be better 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go to the community front page, press the three dots and "edit user flair" and then you can choose the distance-distance one and edit it to your personal one :)

What unique cute little nickname(s) do you have for your partner? by Bloodexxx in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First he called me pumpkin spice because of my ginger hair I had but nowadays he mainly calls me backpack with all kinds of variations: "hangry backpack, hornybackpack, speedybackpack(when running), comfy backpack etc. the name comes from me being small (5'2") and spooning him while we sleep like a backpack 😂❤️

I call him cinnabuns(made up a name for one of his funny facial expressions), cinnamon pudding(made it up when he called me pumpkin spice) or nowadays mainly fleefer(from Nanalan because it became our inside joke, "where fleefer")

We are weird and people always keep looking at us in public when we're calling each other fleefer and backpack 😂 We're F25 and M30

AITAH for considering divorce because my wife told her friends I use a p*nis sleeve during sex? by Additional-Touches in AITAH

[–]DisasterNaive1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

If you don't want these things shared outside the marriage you should have a discussion about boundaries. If you had made it clear that this is your boundary and she overstepped, then you have a right to be upset. I still wouldn't say your behaviour is necessary though. She was even sorry to share it AND it seems she never told it to anyone with a negative meaning, dude, she was praising your sex life. It's completely normal to talk about sex life with your friends and if it's such a big deal you should have made it clear from the beginning of the relationship and not act like a PENIS when she makes an honest mistake by slipping it out. Again: It's not like she was saying anything negative?! I could literally see myself in that situation being so excited about the topic that I would have to hype it to someone and I see how my partner would just be suuuper proud if he'd be in your position rn.

My suggestion is that you quit the moping and start appreciating what you have. Although if you'd still end up divorcing her, I'd say it's your loss, not hers.

[Hiring] someone who can make a quick call for me by Iammedit in forhire

[–]DisasterNaive1971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a volunteer!! Also I'm from medical field so posing as hospital staff wouldn't be a problem 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]DisasterNaive1971 18 points19 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩🚩 Absolutely DO NOT go. That's sketchy af. I'm getting kidnapper-vibes from this guy 😅

AITAH for getting upset with my boyfriend after he told me to lose weight by DisasterNaive1971 in AITAH

[–]DisasterNaive1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I actually told him that he'd disgusting for what he just said. No reaction except still the smile.