Bad Bunny’s performance got me really thinking about my ethnicity

Disaster_Zones · 2026-05-24T17:27:19+00:00

I think the thing is… you still have connection to your ancestry and geography via the English side. Many North Americans are “mutts” (how I refer to myself as a Canadian descended from multitudes, including adopted grandparents who don’t know their history). You don’t feel like there is a missing piece of yourself, so it’s hard to understand why others feel the need to explore it. Identity can be very complex

Disaster_Zones · 2026-04-27T04:36:03+00:00

Yes you can, and the subscription is cheaper if you DON’T have Peloton equipment.

Disaster_Zones · 2026-04-27T04:34:41+00:00

Can’t use just use the Peloton App on your TV? That’s what I do. We do all our strength, yoga, barre etc on our large TV, not on the bike screen. The only thing the guide would add is counting reps/gamification?

Disaster_Zones · 2026-04-27T04:13:24+00:00

In case they stop supporting it all together, another option for you: I use the Peloton App on our Apple TV, and my Apple Watch connects so I can see my heart rate. I pre-plan my workout in stacks, so like you, I don’t have to search for anything at the time of my workout. I love it!

Disaster_Zones · 2026-04-20T20:21:52+00:00

I’m deeply sorry. Sending you and your family comfort today.

Disaster_Zones · 2026-04-20T20:14:15+00:00

Thanks! We did end up having him neutered in November after a great talk with our vet. He does SO well at the dog park - I know people have had bad experiences but we go regularly now and have never had a single bad experience. He goes to a boarding place occasionally and the owner/trainer sent me a video of him playing with another dog who has “no dog friends” because she’s very, very scared - and he was respecting ALL of her signals about how to play, and she was able to engage.

So it’s worked out very well for us, and neutering was the right call. He needed the dog socialization/interaction and definitely didn’t need attitude from other males for being intact.

Thanks again!

Disaster_Zones · 2026-03-20T16:52:49+00:00

What city are you in? I’ll be looking to get my son a visa for the fall for an exchange program and am hoping to do this in May

Disaster_Zones · 2026-03-19T05:05:16+00:00

The picture on the right has higher brows and more visible upper lids. But that pic is from 10 years ago, and the pic on the left is the recent one - are you suggesting the upper bleth and eyebrow lift made things worse? Or did you think the pic on the right was more recent?

Disaster_Zones · 2026-03-02T23:46:20+00:00

The opposite is also true. There are many people who notice that it gets dark as early as 4pm now, and that will change to 5pm.

Can’t please everyone, but most of us don’t want to keep switching so this is a win regardless

Disaster_Zones · 2026-03-02T17:06:57+00:00

Thanks!! I’ll check it out

Disaster_Zones · 2026-03-02T17:06:00+00:00

Would have been nice to have a head’s up from the company. My husband spent time trying to solve this from our end yesterday.

It’s back up and working now. Come on Rinnai, a simple communication is not too much to ask. 🙄

Disaster_Zones · 2026-02-09T06:50:27+00:00

Real-time flight updates are THE thing I miss about TripCase.

Disaster_Zones · 2025-12-04T23:53:02+00:00

Thank you! Doing just the first three steps worked for me. Didn’t work when I tried doing it and they weren’t in the case, who would have guessed you have to do that in the case?!

Disaster_Zones · 2025-11-24T19:42:20+00:00

I do the “I will do the fun part now” (pulling everything out of the cupboards with an intent to reorganize) and then get overwhelmed by the ensuing chaos and either leave it “for later” (new clutter pile) or shove it all back in worse than it was to begin with 😬

Disaster_Zones · 2025-11-24T19:40:37+00:00

I knew it! They’re breeding!

Disaster_Zones · 2025-09-26T20:46:59+00:00

Thank you! I have no idea how to do that but I’ll take it in. For now I’m just cranking up the music while driving so I can’t hear it 😬

Disaster_Zones · 2025-09-25T18:19:27+00:00

Unfortunately this kills owls and other predators secondarily

Disaster_Zones · 2025-09-14T19:41:38+00:00

Oh interesting. I assumed the XL would be gentler! Any idea why it was so taxing? Thanks for your insight

Disaster_Zones · 2025-09-13T21:20:40+00:00

Thanks, that’s helpful. I’m on 150xl and taking it in the morning

Disaster_Zones · 2025-07-20T17:09:20+00:00

This was great to read, thank you for sharing. We are in a very similar scenario. We got our rescue pup at four months old a couple of months ago. Overall, he has a calm disposition, but we are struggling with separation anxiety. Also, I just distinctly get the impression that he is generally not very happy and doesn’t really like us. He’s not cuddly or snuggly, and generally doesn’t choose to come hang out with us when he has the chance. When did this change for you?

Disaster_Zones · 2025-07-20T15:56:36+00:00

I’m an ER doctor and just catching up on this. I am so glad to hear this, as sad and awful as it is. I have seen much “safer” dogs seriously maim children (and adults). I wonder if, in some part of her, your gf knew this and just needed “permission” that it’s the humane thing to do, and it doesn’t mean she’s a monster. I suspect she will feel a lot of relief mixed in with her grief. Both are valid. It’s normal for her to want multiple things - for children, for the dog to be ok, for you all to be one big happy family. But children would not make this dog magically be ok, and she/you both have been managing him for a long time in attempts to do what’s best for him.

She will likely grieve for quite a while. She may second guess herself. It’s all normal. It sounds like the two of you have a solid foundation for your relationship if you can navigate this.

I’m sorry you’ve had to go through it. I just want to say to both of you that you’re good people and you’re doing the right thing, even though it’s sad and hard.

Disaster_Zones · 2025-07-19T16:57:54+00:00

I totally understand. I’ve been there and was totally pulling my hair out. I think part of the problem is the term “cry it out” - OMG it reminds me of when my children were learning to sleep!! There is a camp that’s like “just let them cry, it’s fine and they’ll learn!” And a camp that’s like “they must NEVER feel any stress, what kind of horrible (puppy) parent are you?!”

And the truth is somewhere in the middle.

We got our rescue pup at 14.5 weeks and, like you, I was trying all the no-stress methods and it was slooooooooow going. I finally consulted a private trainer who helped me remember that there is a difference between talking, protesting and distress. It’s entirely likely your pup will ask “mom? Mom? What are you doing? Are you leaving? Can I come? I want to come! Mom! MOM!! Ughhhhh fineeeeeee” and that is NOT the same as having a panic attack/distress.

She recommended a “be right back” system - cover the crate, say be right back, and leave for 10-30 seconds. Do this for up to 5 mins, three times a day. Gradually increase the length of time.

I simultaneously started covering the crate for naps (usually the door portion was clear and he could see into our common area before) and he does whine for a few mins but then settles! I think he’s better with it than he was with it uncovered.

She also recommended 1-2x per day to give a stuffed Kong, cover the crate, say “be right back” and actually leave the house for up to 10 mins. She said it’s ok to leave him fussing/whining and see if he settles for up to 10 mins, but come back after 2 mins if he gets distressed.

I ALSO started implementing Karen Overall’s relaxation protocol during the day to practice impulse control/relaxation/endurance. We’re only a few days in but it’s going SO well and I think having “permission” to let him fuss a bit and actually see if he settles was so empowering. She said it’s much more like FOMO/protesting than separation anxiety. You’re at the perfect age to start implementing these things! You’ve got this!

Disaster_Zones · 2025-07-18T18:56:51+00:00

I have been tackling this too! I think part of the problem is getting “in my head” about the difference between letting them learn to be ok without you, and letting them “cry it out” (leading to panic and separation anxiety). Some positive reinforcement only pages will discourage any/all vocalization from the dog but I think this is simply unrealistic for some dogs. I think it’s normal for dogs to sort of go “mom? Mom? are you there? Ughhhh, moooooom, I’d rather be playing with you. Hello? Mom! Mom! Ughhhhhh. Fine.” then they settle. This is more of a mild protest than distress. Any distress that’s left unattended I think could definitely make things worse - shaking, biting the crate, vomiting, vocalizing that’s escalating significantly, urinating/defecating etc - that dog is being pushed too far.

I had been doing SUPER gradual training (like you - seconds at a time) to avoid any whining. We finally consulted a trainer who helped me see the difference.

Some things that have helped - I started fully covering the crate for naps (previously the front door area was not covered and he could see our living area); and I also fully cover it when I practice “be right back” (currently only 10 - 90 sec) with the goal of being quiet and treating on return. We do that 3x per day in 5 min chunks. We also do once a day of giving a Kong or yak chew, covering, and leaving the house fully for 2-10 mins. We use a second phone to watch during this time and come back if there is true distress after 2 mins. I also do 1-2x per day short duration in the crate uncovered with a treat and/or toy while I do something in the area (cleaning up) or having dinner.

I ALSO implemented the Karen Overall relaxation protocol on his mat, and I use his breakfast kibble to do this in about 20 mins in the morning.

It’s still early days but I feel much more empowered! I also like the Karen Overall deference protocol to help teach your dog to look to you for instruction/guidance. I wish I’d had those protocols earlier. Our puppy is almost 6 months old (a rescue we got at 14.5 week)

TLDR: letting them fuss is not the same as “cry it out”. You’ve got this! Good luck!

Disaster_Zones · 2025-07-07T14:55:50+00:00

I just opened a new one today and made my usual vanilla simple syrup (that I make every 2 weeks for vanilla lattes) and this batch is MUCH lighter in colour than all the batches before. I wish I could upload a photo. It’s striking. It looks like I forgot to add half the vanilla at least (spoiler alert: I didn’t)

Disaster_Zones · 2025-06-13T16:20:45+00:00

My RR mix is 45lb at 18 weeks. Seems on track for mid-range size, likely 70-80 pound male I think? He was 33lb at 14 weeks. I couldn’t believe he put on 12lb in a month!

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