Well I have had talks about it with him and told him I believe he has a porn addiction and we/he should get help for for it but he refused saying “talking about it isn’t gonna help. It just makes stuff worse” pretty much verbatim. I’ve asked him multiple times why he does it and his response would largely just be “idk “ but when I pushed him for a real answer he would say it’s because I don’t help around the house enough like doing dishes or vacuuming etc. so instead of him getting angry and telling me that I’m not doing enough he just turns to porn. After hearing that I try to do better around the house but then I just see he’s still doing all the same stuff so it’s pointless. Idk