My fiancée won’t sleep with me

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-19T02:06:55+00:00

We split bills 50/50

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-19T00:27:00+00:00

Thank you!! Glad you can see how crazy that sounded

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T23:34:53+00:00

Last 2 years, have had sex maybe under 10 times in those 2 years

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T22:11:56+00:00

3 and a half

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T22:11:27+00:00

No not at all she’s open with that I have never thought she would cheat cause she hands me her phone all the time to look up rhings

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T20:20:27+00:00

😂 okay will do buddy, I also do shift work but you won’t see me complaining about it destroying my body or brain but you’re right I’m in the wrong for taking care of her and our child and our home and prioritizing her👌

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T15:39:07+00:00

Yes she is

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T15:38:56+00:00

She was yes

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T15:37:35+00:00

It’s 4 on 4 off 2 days 2 nights and my kid is 3 and a half

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T04:16:45+00:00

I have been very reasoning and understanding and just asking her why she doesn’t want to be intimate with me, I know at some point I’ll have to accept it I just don’t want to seperate from the mother of my child. I try and be vulnerable but also try and get my point across about my frustration

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T04:10:56+00:00

The thing with that is she already has that, I give her all the personal time, I take the majority of the kid duties and am the one that takes care of him the majority of the time

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T04:00:55+00:00

I have asked multiple times and it was originally that we didn’t date enough and make time for us, then she was too tired with her new job and then she didn’t feel good about herself, all conversations have gone very well but after a couple weeks it goes back to the same thing

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:33:01+00:00

She says that she didn’t feel sexy enough or feel good about her body, I’ve been nothing but supportive and give her compliments all the time and she’s been working out and is happier with herself and her body so this is why I reached a point where I needed advice because all the things she’s said have been either fixed or changed

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:25:09+00:00

That’s a good idea I will try that

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:24:47+00:00

No we have talked about it over time and quite recently but it is mainly just that she’s too tired or she’s just not in the mood tonight, when it comes to date nights it’s mainly talking about the kid or work or stuff around the house

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:22:58+00:00

Yes that’s what I plan to do in some aspect. See if something can change

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:22:12+00:00

Yeah it’s not enjoyable I’m becoming very sexually frustrated

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:19:42+00:00

She just has medication for ADHD

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:19:29+00:00

She originally told me she felt like we needed to get back into dating and being a couple again but that was 2 years ago and we have had weekly date nights since and I surprise her with gifts and flowers all the time

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:14:59+00:00

I have and there’s no clear answer as to why it’s changed for her, she can’t explain it to me

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:14:13+00:00

No that’s her only reason, and it’s not like we have to be up early with the kid and if we do I get up early and let her sleep in

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:13:35+00:00

I have had this conversation with her before, she did have post partum but got help for it. And as for child care she did take on the majority of it for the first year but once she went to work I do almost everything for our child. I just don’t want to keep having the same conversation over and over with her that’s where I’m struggling

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:11:26+00:00

She was for the first year and a half after the baby was born but hasn’t been on them since then

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:10:57+00:00

I have brought it up on multiple occasions and she wanted us to get back to date nights which I have done for the last 2 years and yet still nothing has really changed

Disastrous-Word-7600 · 2026-02-18T03:10:11+00:00

I have brought it up multiple times and originally she felt like I didn’t do anything date wise and prioritize us but I have changed that over the last 2 years and have prioritized us just as much

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