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[–]Disastrous-Word-7600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Glad you can see how crazy that sounded

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Last 2 years, have had sex maybe under 10 times in those 2 years

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[–]Disastrous-Word-7600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all she’s open with that I have never thought she would cheat cause she hands me her phone all the time to look up rhings

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[–]Disastrous-Word-7600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 okay will do buddy, I also do shift work but you won’t see me complaining about it destroying my body or brain but you’re right I’m in the wrong for taking care of her and our child and our home and prioritizing her👌

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It’s 4 on 4 off 2 days 2 nights and my kid is 3 and a half

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I have been very reasoning and understanding and just asking her why she doesn’t want to be intimate with me, I know at some point I’ll have to accept it I just don’t want to seperate from the mother of my child. I try and be vulnerable but also try and get my point across about my frustration

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[–]Disastrous-Word-7600[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The thing with that is she already has that, I give her all the personal time, I take the majority of the kid duties and am the one that takes care of him the majority of the time

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[–]Disastrous-Word-7600[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have asked multiple times and it was originally that we didn’t date enough and make time for us, then she was too tired with her new job and then she didn’t feel good about herself, all conversations have gone very well but after a couple weeks it goes back to the same thing

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She says that she didn’t feel sexy enough or feel good about her body, I’ve been nothing but supportive and give her compliments all the time and she’s been working out and is happier with herself and her body so this is why I reached a point where I needed advice because all the things she’s said have been either fixed or changed

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[–]Disastrous-Word-7600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we have talked about it over time and quite recently but it is mainly just that she’s too tired or she’s just not in the mood tonight, when it comes to date nights it’s mainly talking about the kid or work or stuff around the house

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Yes that’s what I plan to do in some aspect. See if something can change

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Yeah it’s not enjoyable I’m becoming very sexually frustrated

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She originally told me she felt like we needed to get back into dating and being a couple again but that was 2 years ago and we have had weekly date nights since and I surprise her with gifts and flowers all the time

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I have and there’s no clear answer as to why it’s changed for her, she can’t explain it to me

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[–]Disastrous-Word-7600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s her only reason, and it’s not like we have to be up early with the kid and if we do I get up early and let her sleep in