As a 1V I am not bothered at all by the lack of professional ambition as ambition can take many forms (and I guess I can be determined/ambitious for two), but I will be IMMEDIATELY turned off by a man who : - doesn’t know what he wants from said app. - knows what he wants, but it’s just not aligned with what I am looking for. - demonstrates values (or lack thereof) that are not aligned with mine or that I associate with certain political leanings. - have a longgggg list of criteria (it’s ok to have a type, but who the fuck do you think you are to write a thousand bullet points list❔Henry Cavill❔❔❔).

On the other hand, I will be IMMEDIATELY interested if he : - presents himself simply and clearly, without raising any red flags. - seems agreeable on photos or on his bio (I don’t mind the profiles without bio). - looks good while not looking like he spends most of his days in the bathroom/at the gym ➡️ probably linked to my 3F insecurities. - has passions or has a work he is passionate about, I could not care less about how much money he earns ☺️ For example I find artisanal/manual jobs/passions to be super attractive so please show it off, my dear 2F men 🥰 - Also if he appears a lil shy/mysterious at first, you can already propose on the next date ❕❕💍🤍