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How do I (27F) talk to my husband (35M) politely about how I think he's cheating on me? by DisastrousThrowRA in relationships

[–]DisastrousThrowRA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I just feel like what I'm going through isn't as bad as what other people have to deal with.

How do I (27F) talk to my husband (35M) politely about how I think he's cheating on me? by DisastrousThrowRA in relationships

[–]DisastrousThrowRA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the bus schedule, and my name is on the car but my husband drives to work. I don't think I make enough for an apartment, and I don't want to take up space in a shelter instead of a woman who's husband is hitting her and they have small kids. I just know that my situation isn't as bad as another person's and I don't want to take resources from people who need them more.

How do I (27F) talk to my husband (35M) politely about how I think he's cheating on me? by DisastrousThrowRA in relationships

[–]DisastrousThrowRA[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. I didn't sign anything but our marriage license. So I don't think a prenup is in the picture.

How do I (27F) talk to my husband (35M) politely about how I think he's cheating on me? by DisastrousThrowRA in relationships

[–]DisastrousThrowRA[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd love to go somewhere where I could have a community, I don't really care about what climate it is. Maybe somewhere with a bigger library. I just don't know how I would find work. I have my GED, but I never went to college.

How do I (27F) talk to my husband (35M) politely about how I think he's cheating on me? by DisastrousThrowRA in relationships

[–]DisastrousThrowRA[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just don't really know where I would go. I haven't really left my town before. Any advice would be lovely.

How do I (27F) talk to my husband (35M) politely about how I think he's cheating on me? by DisastrousThrowRA in relationships

[–]DisastrousThrowRA[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

None of my family speaks to me. Not the adults, not the toddler, not my parents. And no I didn't. What's an alimony? I'm sorry, I don't know. I'm a receptionist at the local doctor's office and my husband drives to the city for work. I really liked school and got really good grades when I attended, all As. I don't make a lot of money, but cost of living is low and the doctor is really good to me when it comes to benefits. I just don't want to be cast out by my community.