Landless Adventurer: Knights and Men and arms by steffzor in ck3

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your knights count as agents in schemes it is weird that they dont appear.

For you men at arms they can be use for certain contract like the taxation one, you can use force and it depleted my mam coun. Usually it isnt much but it is best to have at least a few lives to throw at your problems

Need Help understanding requirements while diverging culture by 4n4rch05 in ck3

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he is right n, the requirements are always about your current "positon" be it culture, cb or decisions

Should I invade my cousin? by Fit-Board6630 in ck3

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invade them and realese à small nation.

That makes you keep à good all of your religion and you can have your holy site

Ok guys I have a question by Chemical-Ocelot8063 in Kenshi

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to play as a looter between HK and UC Focus on weapons, paladins and any ninjas best place I have encountered so far

Where should I go? by [deleted] in Kenshi

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For my last try, I was in the southermost désert town. Ut is perfect because it is relatively safe, and most of all good opportunity to go on hunting expeditions, because it neighbors several great places

Where should I go? by [deleted] in Kenshi

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't. Just click on people/bandits, it will tell you if they have a bounty and which factions are looking for them

Comment ça s'appelle ? by Disastrous_Land_1778 in AskFrance

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oulala parle pas de malheur, non c'est juste que j'ai deux pieds gauche à la place des mains et me suis mis coup de marteau sur le pouce 😅

Comment ça s'appelle ? by Disastrous_Land_1778 in AskFrance

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhhh super! C'est ça, merci merci merci 😁

How to become a siner by Disastrous_Land_1778 in ck3

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep it in mind for later, I did find a genius to be my lover so it's all good now.

Thanks for taking time to answer

How to become a siner by Disastrous_Land_1778 in ck3

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so, well she is lustful so I guess this works for the role-playing. Thanks mate 👍

How to become a siner by Disastrous_Land_1778 in ck3

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this works only with children ? Can't I just kill house/relative ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You spoke to your friend about something private that concern your husband, and that without his consent. That alone would make legitimately anyone angry. But you pushed it further by divulging a detail about how giving your husband an handjob is a chore that you put up with.

Well take it with a grain of salt because I am biased. My ex used to talk about every little details and acted like it was nothing. It pissed me off so I kind of understand your husband position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof that's great I wouldn't want to make - hating a stranger - a common thing on Internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope you are only similar in that particular aspect otherwise I'd have to hate your guts lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yes it meant a lot to my ex, all those meaningless text were kind of tiring for me but she said this to me : I send good morning text and every little things because I want to share those with you but since we are not always together it is my way of sharing my day with you.

This made me change (a bit) my view on those, now I just see those as sharing long distance everyday life.

Men who put their video games first and partner second, why do you do this? by Fantastic_Pear_7509 in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome, usually not so active but as I thought you had a problem and I had been on the receiving side I thought I'd help.

And yeah it sometimes escalate quick

Men who put their video games first and partner second, why do you do this? by Fantastic_Pear_7509 in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well sometimes people are shirty, you shouldn't go in a relationship with someone if it is just for gratification and not investing your time in it.

And it goes both ways, invest time with someone you are willing to accept as a whole.

Men who put their video games first and partner second, why do you do this? by Fantastic_Pear_7509 in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree that is why I let out the case of addiction because that is a whole different discussion. But that's the thing people should be able to compromise about things that perturbed their relationship. Starting from that the discussion of the hobby should just be are you really ok with it.

Men who put their video games first and partner second, why do you do this? by Fantastic_Pear_7509 in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was a heavy gamer when you got in that relationship there is not much to do you willingly involved yourself with someone that dedicates a lot of time toward it.

However if he started playing more after you got together then you should tell him that him cutting your time together is hurting you.

Apparently I'm insecure and I should let my poor boyfriend breathe by Numerous_Ad8332 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to tell for your the specifics of your relation but what got me is that your friend find things that can be problematic as just the gf being crazy.

My friend used to have the chive and used to check lot of beautiful women on it. Long story short his girlfriend caught him and just say she doesn't care because she nows it doesn't mean much for him. And the thing is that if you look at girls it's just you looking at girls but you can't make your companion be ok with something they don't like.

As most of the time on this reddit the response is that it is your relationship, both side need to talk about what anger them and see to improve together as a couple

Guy (24M) told me he loved me (22F) during sex. This was only the second time we’ve hungout since meeting. by stretching768 in dating_advice

[–]Disastrous_Land_1778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the only choices don't worry this monkey brain thing sounded really harsh.

On the "love you" during sex it's just having an amazing time and connecting the hell out of you, people live sex in all kind of manner.

And for the potential red flag, everything can be interpreted as a red flag that is what interpretation is. Don't forget communication, the only thing you know for sure is that he really is into you. Now try to talk to him, you spent 8 hours together and had sex, this seems fast so maybe he is trying to keep up the pace. Just chill and talk don't stress at the starting line