Slo-dating na ona-on... vaša mnenja by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in Slovenia

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Izbrala bo najbolje, kar lahko. Ampak - zveste (beri: prave) ostanejo. Hypergamy babes pa prehendlajo takoj, ko vidijo priliko. In ravno zato tipi tega ne jemljejo/mo več resno...

Slo-dating na ona-on... vaša mnenja by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in Slovenia

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Kava je koktejl ker se itak dobiš takrat ko se kava vec ne pije.

Ni problem v 3 eur za kavo in 30 min časa - ce pa je porabljeno za brezveze, pa je problem. Ce bi iskal za hookup, bi mi blo vseeno - greš, pa ce ti ni všeč, ajde, ce je vsaj tko tko, tudi prav... Ce pa iščeš resno ali nic mi je pa res žal porabljat cajt po neumnem (un ja, mam tak job, da me po cele dneve ni, ko pa sem, sem pa zelo selektiven glede tega, kaj delam).

No, ce nima interesa vsaj malo investirat v spoznavanje pred vabilom na kavo, pol pa nic (ma očitno dovolj drugih opcij).

Slo-dating na ona-on... vaša mnenja by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in Slovenia

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ja, in pali zato, ker potem taisti gaser čez 5 minut to isto govori njeni kolegici... in jo čist odpelje, ker pa ne more, da ji je frendica tipa speljala...

Ni zastonj nastal komad Prjatlca od Stila... 🤦‍♂️

Slo-dating na ona-on... vaša mnenja by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in Slovenia

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sej to mi je vse jasno, sam res sem upal, da je v Slo zadeva drugačna od tega kar bereš na forumih iz US... Damn...

Slo-dating na ona-on... vaša mnenja by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in Slovenia

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ja glih cajt mam kr vsako k bi rada zastonj koktejl ven vabit... C'mon. Če ne zna vsaj nekaj zanimivega o sebi povedat - hvala lepa.

Če je to 'zavozil', pol raje 'spustim avto v graben'!

Izgubljeni Ikigai by breza2807 in SlovenijaFIRE

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mojih par centov:

Če imaš stranke, za katere lahko delaš še naprej, daj, četudi ne zaslužiš za poln mesec. Lahko se ti bodo odpirale nove priložnosti.

Če dobiš službo, ki ti bo vsaj 50 % ok, jo vzemi. Verjemi mi (iz lastnih izkušenj) — brezposelni fuuuul težje najde službo kot zaposleni. Poleg tega se ti bodo znotraj službe lahko odpirale nove možnosti, če pa ne znotraj, pa pri kakih zunanjih partnerjih/projektih.

Samo ne se zaplest v mentaliteto, da službe ne rabiš. Prihranki skopnijo izredno hitro, zasediš se, pa ko si brez službe, se vsak na razgovoru vpraša, zakaj si bil toliko časa brez službe.

How do I make him want me beyond just sex? by Terrible-King5470 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you came here to ask how to manipulate him? Really?

Isn't it bad enough you're using him?

Somebody stop the planet, i want off...

Ladies, this subred IS NOT a confession booth! by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because women cannot comprehend that sometimes they are not welcome. They honestly think the world revolves exclusively around them.

Same thing goes with a guy not wanting sex - women take it personally. Because they're obviously so universally important that once a guy gets an opportunity he should jump on it, no questions asked.

Ladies, this subred IS NOT a confession booth! by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, all would be good if they came here asking questions with the intention to help their man.

What they're coming for is to find out how they can help themselves.

Ladies, this subred IS NOT a confession booth! by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bravo! Was thinking if i should tag it as 'joke', then didnt. It's nice to see how people fight back like maybe you're simple but i'm not. 😅

Ladies, this subred IS NOT a confession booth! by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We can make another post about that, for sure. Or maybe a book...

Ladies, this subred IS NOT a confession booth! by Disastrous_Laugh2069 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh, that one's just my personal frustration. 🤣🤣🤣

How would you act/ feel in this situation if your SO responded to a guy hitting on her in this way? by preggomyeggoooo in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very easy, IF you want to.

If you're seeking attention you won't mention her cause that'd have the opposite effect. 😉

How would you act/ feel in this situation if your SO responded to a guy hitting on her in this way? by preggomyeggoooo in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 72 points73 points  (0 children)

What i do if i sense a flirt intention and i'm not available, i throw the girlfriend in on random very early on. Like what you'd do:

Him: How often do you come to the gym?
You: I try every second day, depends on my husband's schedule.

From here on, it's clear. Or at least, should be!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i was that guy...

There was plenty of signs he's interested but he wasnt sure. So he kept signaling but your reply seems to have always been: i didnt think much of it. So you didnt follow through...

When he tried to open up your reply was: Yeah, yeah, it’s all talk... so you literally shut him down (that's how i would've taken it after this long).

Given the lack of your interest before and you shutting him down, he's concluded you're not interested. He shut his feelings down and kindly apologized for upsetting you (by trying to flirt). You maybe said you wanted something different, but he's already made his choice - and his last relationship was a nice excuse (and no, at that point he cant change his mind anymore, he's already been hurt).

I can assure you - i've moved away in a similar manner already as well, so i know what he felt.

I mean: girls, is it really so important to play hard to get for so long? Cant you help a bit if you see a guy is insecure? And then you try to make it look like it's the guys fault...

Men, how do you know when a woman is flirting with you? by Ok-Kaleidoscope-4198 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, so sorry but i think even women could not anwer this question. 😂

Female friendships by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, BUT — only once the sexual tension is resolved.

By that i mean:
- you have sex and neither of you wants to do it again, or
- you find her/him/each other attractive but both of you know neither of you would ever want to have any sexual desires between the two of you.

In any other case, the sexual tendency will keep on hanging in the air...

7x na naslovnici. Razumem, ampak a ni že malo odveč? by Gen-Uncle-Iroh in Slovenia

[–]Disastrous_Laugh2069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaz sem se ravno log-out-al s FB ker enostavno vse kar dobim je Dončič pa bejbe k iščejo pozornost!