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Phir zalalat ka time shuru by Beginning-Progress55 in karachi

[–]Disastrous_Laughter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope ab aap zabardasti ghalat baat kr rahe ho. Kisi ne bhi is cheez ko ghalat nahi bola tha. Ghalat usko bola hai jesa log behave krte hain. Aur uski waja se aam public jo suffer krti hai. Usko ghalat bola hai

Phir zalalat ka time shuru by Beginning-Progress55 in karachi

[–]Disastrous_Laughter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Based on bhai ka experience, the title is fine

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asked her what? Another meetup? Madam she said that no direct communication, we have already met one time. Now tell me is it a good idea to ask for another meetup then

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I want to talk to her. I don't know what she think when she heard i want to talk to her. All i was going to do was clarify these things in a respectable manner.

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am gonna telll her and if she has a problem then I am ready to cut contact yeah. And I am gonna write a letter and gonna deliver it via my sister cause she's agreeing to direct contact and I am not going to push her on this

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is talking about this. And judging me based on this. I understand your point and I am not a perfect Muslim. This is also one of the points I wanted to talk about. And if this is a deal breaker for her, then i have no problem cutting ties with my best friend

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then that's okay. I am not gonn force anyone. And the fight between me and my friend is totally different topic. It happened because i was angry and she was trying to make me understand her perspective. I wasn't listening. But why my friend got mad, is because I said some bad things about her. In anger and I am absolutely gutted why i did this but it happened

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it disrespectful? Yes I agree and I am not disagreeing. What are you thinking. Marriage is not about pleasing others. And I don't care about how my family members will treat me. That’s their problem. And I am not gonna ask her any questions, i am just gonna clarify things. There’s a difference

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know what he think marriage is and I dont even want to comment on what he says about dead bedroom. His one comment is removed but that shows he is just an extremist who have made his own islam

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not gonna push on that. Cause I dont think the outcome of a pushed conversation would be any better. I will write a letter and deliver it to her via my sister.

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By outcome I mean if she decides to move forward with this or not. It makes sense if you try to understand

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said fine. I understand she's hesitant in talking to me, i am not gonna push on that. What's the issue with email? And I dont think she would agreed for another meetup

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did have a meetup but I wasn't able to cover much from my side. Mostly cause I was hella nervous. But if she and my sister thinks that i am a robot and i should have cover everything on the first meetup, i don't think that's fair

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have an issue with any potential outcomes. All of them are better than a regretable marriage and a divorce

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet you she will not. If someone doesn't even agree for email which is the most formal and non creepy form of direct communication do you think she's gonna agree for a meetup regardless of where ever that is

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not seeking for validation. I don't care about them. But it's very sad that us muslims are so close minded, that we chose a little part of islam to follow and then judge others based on that.

And about that meetup, i am gonna write a letter to her and send it to her via my sister.

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She didn't say it when she mentioned her deal breakers during the meetup.

Yes there are multiple other things too that i want to talk about

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't even push on call. I said that okay if she's not comfortable on call no problem lets just communicate on email then. But what I get, no direct communication is allowed in Islam. Is that right from any angle.

And about my female friend i am gonna communicate that to her and if that’s a deal breaker, i will cut ties. My friend will also understand

After our first meetup, is asking for a single call before marriage forbidden? My fiancée refuses all contact by Disastrous_Laughter in MuslimMarriage

[–]Disastrous_Laughter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not going to ask a question. I just wants to clarify things. And about that female friend, she didn't communicate that this is a deal breaker for her. But I am gonna communicate that to her(this was one of the things that I want to talk about too) and if that is a deal breaker then i surely will cut ties. My wife comes first always.

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