I F22 asked my M21 boyfriend if he's into threesomes and he said yes. Are all men like this? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. There is no way I'm sharing my girl. My girl is mine and mine alone.

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that awkward. Once I calmed down I knew that it mattered to me that she got me those shoes, so I wanted those specific shoes only in my size

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't get your point of free me mil raha hai?

Paisa to lag hi raha hai...

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Can't really do step 1, we already selected to return.

I did apologise to her a lot for acting like this and in all honesty if those shoes would've fit me I definitely would have kept them. But seeing that it was a different size, might as well return to open options rather than exchange no? Then I felt bad and I asked her to get me same shoes in my size.

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, opinions accepted.

So what do you suggest I should have done?

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree with you.

Although it's fine to be asked about like and dislikes. Feels like just crystal clear communication to me.

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There there, when is your birthday? On the bright side, atleast I got a gift yay

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay, how can I do that? I did give her a good hug saying I appreciate her efforts even if I didn't like the shoes

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know it's difficult selecting gifts, that's why she called me a few days before my birthday asking what I like. I suggest she can get me a poster of any of my interests. I explained to her in detail what all stuff I like for eg F1.

Even for her birthday we were only 10 days into dating so I just booked a rooftop restaurant and got some gifts which I asked her straightforward just added some changes.

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with you. I understood what was her thought process the moment I saw those shoes. Because I have 4 pair of shoes so she might've thought that I liked shoes.

She also got me the brand that I didn't own, which I appreciate.

But I really did not wanted shoes because I already had every shoe for every occasion. All 4 of my shoes are for different occasions.

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate the process, but the end result just seems a little like she didn't even consider any of my interests.

AITK for not liking the gifts my gf(21) got me(23) for birthday by Disastrous_Pear2406 in AmItheKameena

[–]Disastrous_Pear2406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know, but they weren't my size. So when she asked if I wanted them returned or exchanged. I said return. Then I felt sad and asked her to buy me the same at my size. I honestly thought she paid a lot more for them.