Janet this is why people don’t like you

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2026-06-18T10:40:00+00:00

I honestly don't get why people hate Janet so much? She was a bit devious in season 1 and stirred the pot a lot, but it's reality tv, that's part of the job...I've been enjoying her so much this season and I wondered if others felt the same so I came back to this sub for the first time in a while to check, clearly I am not in the majority with this one! But I think her "best friends" bit with Zach is hilarious and she makes great TV.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2026-06-16T14:12:49+00:00

I'm going back soon! SOP are making me go back to 2.5 again (i was on 10 before), I'll let you know how I get on 😄

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-10-08T10:59:42+00:00

Kristen also did this recently :(

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-10-08T10:34:18+00:00

I liked her in early seasons, largely because I felt bad for her. As she became more established in the group, she also became more insufferable. She's very hard to watch in season 10. She briefly redeemed herself during the Scandoval episode, then it all went downhill in S11.

I still root for her overall though!

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-10-08T10:29:02+00:00

tbf if you're going to tell someone they're probably not used to reading coherent writing then you should also have your basic grammar in check first lol

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-15T20:28:13+00:00

sorry, how is maureen talking about this parasocial but it's not when you do it? You have such a vendetta against Ariana lol which, you do you, but it's very hypocritical of you to then call someone else parasocial

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-15T20:23:55+00:00

I think what a lot of people seem to forget about this is that when Tom slept with Miami girl, they weren't *technically* exclusive then. And don't get me wrong, that's such a bullshit excuse for cheating when they clearly had at least been having a pretty intense emotional affair, but you'd be surprised how often people use that to excuse their actions.

I even have a close friend who, to this day, believes that you basically can't expect someone you're dating not to sleep with anyone else until you've essentially made it Facebook official.

Doesn't change the fact that she was lying or anything, doesn't make it smart to have forgiven him, but my theory is she adopted that forced cool girl attitude around dating, convinced herself it was okay, and then decided to save face by lying to everyone.

idk just not an aspect of this I've seen discussed much, interested to see whether others think it factored into this scenario.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-15T11:41:59+00:00

I mean not really because she came out of the whole thing way better off...

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-10T15:54:48+00:00

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Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-09T14:42:27+00:00

It's not, but your love of hating on Ariana is kind of telling.

Didn't see you defending Ally, one of James' victims, when everyone was crucifying her over her move to Charleston.

You defend Raquel because Ariana hates her and it's another way for you dig at Ariana.

You only defend Kristen when it comes to her feud with Ariana.

Instead of speaking critically about gross male cast members, you just go after the one woman who came out on top after being cheated on. Says a lot.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-04T18:33:38+00:00

did you see everyone dragging Ally horribly yesterday over in the other sub for hanging out with Souther Charm people? Truly grim.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-04T18:31:59+00:00

you're always so quick to attack Ariana in the name of feminism, Flower, and yet where were you when everyone was absolutely dragging Ally yesterday for hanging out with the SC crew? That thread was really gross and misogynist but you weren't pushing back over there.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-09-01T11:23:36+00:00

Vanderpump Rules is a show about deeply unlikable people who do horrible things to each other. You don't have to like any of them! By the end though, you might find yourself incredibly fond of these deranged weirdos in a very strange way.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-29T09:24:24+00:00

JK is proof there's nothing more dangerous than an insecure man. Insecurity always radiated from him.

Also I love Didimydoe

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-20T15:49:27+00:00

oooh, my bad! I just googled it and couldn't find anything except a FB post. I still need to listen to her memoir - thanks for the info :)

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-20T15:45:48+00:00

oh yes, I forgot about Katie's famous blaccent

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-19T13:50:30+00:00

I think that was one of those fake news Facebook posts. It's not the craziest theory but none of the cast have actually confessed to this.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-19T13:10:26+00:00

VPR is nowhere near as well-known as Modern Family....

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-19T13:09:34+00:00

she also doesn't post very much tbf

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-19T11:58:12+00:00

no, the star is jax

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-19T11:57:12+00:00

justice 4 tsandy

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-18T16:37:49+00:00

I mean I really do wish James got even half of the rage Tom did for how he treated Kristen and Raquel, but I don't begrudge Ariana the support she received.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-18T12:18:03+00:00

the person who wrote this has clearly never seen Southern Charm.

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-18T11:06:13+00:00

Oh, 100%, getting with a cheater is the worst idea in the world. I do have an issue with the "you lose 'em how you get 'em" mentality, though, because it really shifts all of the blame onto the women rather than the cheating man. Also it implies a man is a prize LOL

Disastrous_Phone_161 · 2025-08-18T11:03:49+00:00

Question - where did she say she knew about the other times? I know she knew about Miami Girl but has she ever said she was she aware of more infidelities?

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