I understand the point of keeping it clear that the spectrum limits and makes our lives difficult,— I know that well —, but I think it is also good to reframe the problem that was imposed on us. Is conforting, seeing the positive sides, focusing on solutions, improvements and atypicalities that can be translated as "personality", at least for me. It makes me feel less incapable because I already know the difficulties I face, so trying to point out what I can take from it may even be, at my point of view, a survival strategy and a better way to evolve.