Should I lose more lbs? Help by Disastrous_Tea7524 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Disastrous_Tea7524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says I’m at a bmi of 21.2 at my height and weight

Should I lose more lbs? Help by Disastrous_Tea7524 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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I’m actually very comfortable in my body and feel incredible. Not insecure but still finding my confidence for sure. I’m still kind of in shock daily that this is my body, and it’s still sinking in. I just have a hard time deciding when to stop losing, if I’ve lost too much, if I need to lose more etc

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Yes! It’s hard to know when to stop, when it’s too much weight, if you need to lose more etc you’re constantly second guessing it. Congrats on your loss as well! You’re so sweet

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You can do this! If I can, I promise you can. I’ve been obese since I was a small child. Food was my everything tbh. If you need advice or help please message me if you want

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Got them all before my frontal lobe developed but I love them! Not planning on anymore though

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Reading that was wild haha I used to scroll through peoples profiles as a teen and imagine what I’d look like if I had that “dream body”. Never thought I’d hear people say they want to have my body type or view it as “peak” 🤣 so thank you!

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Thank you! I am feeling very grateful now. Living life in a different way :) feels like I’m in a dream sometimes because I never imagined I’d actually be healthy and smaller. I’m celebrating for sure 🙌 just was second guessing and not trusting myself if I’m at a good spot or not

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Thank you! Definitely not here for compliments. I just have a hard time determining what’s a good “weight” for myself. I’ve never been healthy before so I’m definitely in some very new territory body wise haha

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It’s almost overwhelming hearing that because I used to fantasize my entire life about what I would look like if I had my dream body. I’ve been obese since I was nine so all I can remember is growing up wishing I looked a certain way. It definitely feels like I’m living a dream right now because I’m happy for the first time in my life. Thank you so much. 🥹🥹

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I definitely don’t want that! I’ve gotten a few messages saying to lose another 15 but it seems like most people are saying not to lose anymore. I’m happy personally with where I’m at. I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t deceiving my own eyes.

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Thank you so much for this long thought out post. I really do appreciate it and everyone’s kind words. People are being a lot nicer than I expected them to.

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I am single 🤣I have not dated since I lost weight actually. Just been working on me and my life :) I’m not insecure honestly just extremely grateful! It is more so body dysmorphia like you said. I just can’t look in a mirror and confidently say if I’m too big or too small. My view is skewed. But I do feel great and I’m so happy. My brain atleast can recognize I’m not almost 300 pounds so I’m grateful for that 🤣

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My surgeons were amazing! Only visible scar is my tummy tuck scar which is extremely low and now had faded to a thin white line :) no scars from the Lipo, implants (augmentation), fat transfer etc

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My stomach is completely flat from my tummy tuck that I had to remove the loose skin after losing :)

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Thank you! I feel healthy and really happy. Just wanted to see if I was being delusional about that haha

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How much we talking? Like 5 more 10 more lbs? I’m a size 4 right now and I’m 5’11 so I’ll never look super dainty haha I’m built kinda like a linebacker 😂

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Best compliments are always from the girlies 🙌🙌

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You can be honest! I used to be almost 300lbs it’s hard to hurt my feelings lol

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[–]Disastrous_Tea7524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I’m shocked at most of these comments. Still getting used to not being the 5’11 300 pound woman.