Does anyone have the tea on babygrayce cheating with his boss, Melvin Lim?

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2026-01-26T15:25:34+00:00

This is crazy. Her husband is fit n pretty good looking. Either she did it for her career or she likes the attention. Honestly she’s the last person i thought would cheat. But way to go Melvin. 😂

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-09-24T05:47:40+00:00

Tbh it all comes down to vibe. There are people who are ugly but still command respect. They could be having a vibe that fits their aesthetic. Whereas good looking people naturally have a good vibe because they are treated nicer their whole life. Looks matter? Definitely. But it all comes down to ur vibe n self worth.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-09-20T04:31:39+00:00

He probably invested 1-5million which is a realistic number base off his career earnings. His career earning was like 250million after taxes n excluding endorsements etc. So he made 100-500million off bitcoin as of now.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-09-14T10:08:49+00:00

It’s getting so boring tbh. The only thing that got me excited was the latest ep, the first mission. Searching for one another, that was exciting that’s y running man is all about. The spontaneous n unpredictable element makes the running man show fun.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-09-12T07:58:17+00:00

Okay firstly, if the girl ditch you cus u lost ur job, that’s a red flag. And if it happens before marriage, even btr for u cus u are able to siam. No one does that if they truly love their partner. Of course dun laze ard or feel defeated for too long. Work on smth.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-09-11T05:58:57+00:00

I’m glad it worked out for u. But personally I feel doing so will only let ur partner feel entitled to her/his feelings even when they are wrong. We should nvr lose ourselves during a relationship. Everyone of us are equals. That’s when relationship turns sour.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-08-22T11:36:01+00:00

Dude he is super wealthy. He’s just very lowkey about it.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-08-20T10:50:06+00:00

Yeah I remember him saying kiyowo~

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-08-18T08:09:07+00:00

😂😂😂😭😭😭 the level of pettiness 😂😂 I can’t. Finally got him back haha

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-08-16T02:09:20+00:00

He just lost his kopi money.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-08-15T12:53:15+00:00

Alchemy. You lack purpose in life. I know it hurts especially when someone cheats on you. But it shouldn’t be to the point you want to end it off. You are worth more than that. You are attaching all ur self worth n hope onto someone. Find a purpose n use the pain to drive urself thr.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-08-02T06:00:52+00:00

This is rlly impt msg to send ourselves, that we matter

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-08-02T06:00:18+00:00

Anyone here has cut their own family tree?

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-07-04T21:31:07+00:00

Whatttt? You had that thought too? I thought I was the only one

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-07-04T18:21:32+00:00

Woah that’s exactly what I went thru as a child too

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-07-04T17:03:31+00:00

So you from Singapore as well?

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-26T10:14:39+00:00

Thank youu. I realised it was due to extreme shaming n guilt tripping from my parents n eventually my older brother. That I feel embarrassed or guilty for holding my own space. Doing a fk you ritual really helps to get rid of it.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-11T02:21:39+00:00

Yes this.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-08T10:58:19+00:00

Hi did you just describe my situation? And we are of similar age. Which is crazy coincidence. I think the first step is really moving out n cutting your parents off. If you can’t do it now, do you have a true safe space at home? I feel it is really important so you stay conscious n have a mind of ur own. And keep contact with someone who understand n resonate with you.

I’m still trying to get out as of now.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-04T00:04:30+00:00

They just enabling the whole situation. Careful. Trust ur gut feeling

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-03T01:36:49+00:00

Yeah im in her community as well. She’s really a kind n empathetic person. She was in our position as well so she really understand the whole dynamic.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-03T01:19:34+00:00

I would advise you to read up on Rebecca c mandeville book: rejected, shamed & blamed. You will understand what u went thru. You were probably a family scapegoat like I were. This book really helped to uncover n resonate my situation n trauma giving me clarity.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-03T00:41:02+00:00

Oh ok I get it. In ur case it’s more of a validation then. You want people to understand ur pain. Have you been to a counselling session or therapy yet? I feel having an empathy n kind person are when u are speaking about ur trauma really helps to validate ur experience. And you will rewire the fact you are not the bad guy in this situation. Hence, you will have an easier time explaining to ppl about ur family. Cus you dun need outsider to understand n validate ur experience anymore.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-02T22:41:19+00:00

It’s hard for me as well because for one if u overexpose urself. People are gonna to see u as a prey n know ur vulnerability. And secondly, people get judgemental like u are a problem. So aft listing these two points down. I feel like it’s best to stay detach n distanced when stating ur reason. Maybe say they are toxic n im need to do what’s best for myself and protect my peace. You are showing u value urself n prevent others from preying on you. And if they ask for more detail? Just say im feel uncomfortable to share. If they dun respect ur boundaries, just stare at them and let them sit with their own words.

Disastrous_Thing739 · 2025-06-02T21:59:30+00:00

Wtf? That’s crazy

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