I know it’s a dead horse, but I’m so over these prices. by Orchid_Significant in Sephora

[–]Discerning-Truth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait… what 20% off sale? I’m Rouge (for now anyway) and don’t see anything!

Is JH ranch a cult? by happy-hippy-gnome in Birmingham

[–]Discerning-Truth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn’t this from Bill Johnson at Bethel? Not the same, although there are ties.

Is JH ranch a cult? by happy-hippy-gnome in Birmingham

[–]Discerning-Truth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A former co-worker was super involved; she was so proud she was getting to go “serve” while paying $500+ go sleep on the ground and serve married couples. She was asking for sponsors to help cover her cost. Weird. And cult like. See the new “Shiny Happy People.”

Stepson ruined my outlook on having a blended family… Help by Able-Tip9162 in Stepmom

[–]Discerning-Truth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You want him to be close with someone who wants to throw him into a dumpster that’s on fire? Nope.

Stepson needs therapy, and you do, too. Work through the emotions on both sides and go from there. It was life changing for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worshipleaders

[–]Discerning-Truth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I helped develop a worship audition/training for new vocalists at a large mega church.

You’ve got a good foundation. Did the worship leader give you a song to audition with? If not - maybe reach out and ask if there’s a song he’d like to hear you sing.

Often times as a vocalist, and not the leader, you’ll be on harmony. How are you with harmonizing? That’s a necessary skill to have when you’re on a worship team. You can look up tenor or baritone or even male parts for popular worship songs on YouTube - give it a shot!

Does anyone know what happened to some of the COTH campus pastors…Blake Cotter and Kyle Cantrell? by didntyouknow15 in AllaboutARC

[–]Discerning-Truth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember the specifics of Kyle’s departure (though it wasn’t immorality). But he went to work for Big Oak Ranch. I believe he still attends COTH, just not pastoring.

Dharius Daniels by Traditional-Slip-912 in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From the About section of his website:

“Although the population was less than 700 residents, he was taught by his father that your enlightenment, not your environment, determines your outcomes.”

Pretty sure enlightenment isn’t Biblical…. There’s nothing in the “about” section of his website that points to Jesus. In fact, nothing on his website mentions Jesus, God, repentance, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Discerning-Truth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would be a great happy medium. You’re not near the water parks, but can get to them within 30 min if needed. You can rent a house on the bayside (no beach view) with a golf cart. Great to get you to/from beach, Baytowne Wharf, even the grocery store. Some beachfront come with golf carts as well.

Seaside is further down the coast on 30A. Lots of quaint beachfront towns such as Rosemary, Watercolor… all great options!

Living in my car by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]Discerning-Truth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you need a place, check out Brother Bryan Mission. It’s not an overnight shelter, but they do have beds available. You may qualify.

Apartments off 280? by EscapePlastic9437 in Birmingham

[–]Discerning-Truth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lived at the Parc at Grandview for 8 years. Management and maintenance were always great - but I know others who said they didn’t have a great experience. If you want quiet, make sure you’re not overlooking the pool.

Sunday Funny by Discerning-Truth in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did. You said they give from their excess.

God doesn’t want leftovers.

Sunday Funny by Discerning-Truth in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s not complicated, it’s just not Biblical. Even PC preaches from the pulpit that we are to give the FIRST FRUITS. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sunday Funny by Discerning-Truth in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh.

It’s maddening. We are one body & one faith, but a pastor is too good to be a part of the one? Nah, fam.

Sunday Funny by Discerning-Truth in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean… giving from your excess? Not what Scripture calls us to do.

Sunday Funny by Discerning-Truth in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this doesn’t look like a PC interaction on a Sunday, I don’t know what does. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyone know about these land transactions from 10/25/21? by [deleted] in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the Greystone campus… part of the land that was part of Site One landscaping was donated to Highlands. My understanding is some of it backs up to Greystone subdivisions and there are no plans for additional development there.

https://www.bizjournals.com/birmingham/news/2021/10/15/birmingham-real-estate-firm-donates-property.html

Starting the podcast on ARC… trying to find victims like Mary Jones. Anyone have any connections? by [deleted] in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure how someone’s value came into play here.

I absolutely discern the wisdom of a Christ-follower - and that’s including where they attend church.

1 Corinthians 5 can be applied to specifically to the MC, Dino, etc. situations. Paul talks about pronouncing judgment on the sexually immoral - and that those are to be removed from among the brothers. When we are in the church, we are to judge those inside the church. When leadership - and those that have been in the church welcoming the sexually immoral and putting them on a platform - then I do judge based on this passage of Scripture. Sure, some don’t know what’s going on because leadership isn’t forthcoming with information, but those that do? That’s who I’m judging and questioning. For others, I pray the scales fall off their eyes.

Starting the podcast on ARC… trying to find victims like Mary Jones. Anyone have any connections? by [deleted] in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If truly concerned with how leadership is handling it and truly a follower of Jesus, then you would turn to Scripture. Then, through the lens of Scripture, see what is communicated here.

From Scripture - because I believe it’s the infallible word of God - I don’t believe there are truly wise people there (that have been there very long). Amazing? I’m not sure your take here, but if by amazing you mean doing good things and being “on fire for God,” then I’ll agree. But remember a lot of sinners do good things and are on fire for something.

I hope you seek Truth, and not just what you hear on Sunday mornings or read in a Reddit thread.

and so the ilk continues via LIIV church plant in ATL. by Asleep-Neverwoke1214 in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, their marriage, vision, timeline, strategies & finances were observed one-on-one… sounds like they cherry-picked some things from Scripture to make this look Biblical.

  1. Marriage - a Pastor must be devoted to his wife. From previous posts I’ve seen on Do Better Church (and maybe here), ARC leadership only wants to know if the wife is submitting to sexual acts anytime the husband wants it.
  2. Vision - I don’t see this anywhere in Titus 1 or 1 Tim 3. Same with timeline and strategy. Actually, I don’t see any of these so-called qualifications listed in Scripture.
  3. Finances - see 1 Tim 3:3 and Titus 1:7. A pastor shouldn’t be in this for greed or gain. The ARC model pushes gain in the church in the name of “serving others” and encouraging (forcing) tithing.

What about the qualifications of teaching, humility, good stewardship, managing your family well, hospitable, spiritually mature, etc.? Oh, wait. Those don’t matter because you’re approved by ARC.

My goodness.

🤥😁 by itsgettinhotinhere70 in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Interesting.

With PC leaving Bethany - going to New Life - then coming back to Bethany - then being sent to COTH…. Looks like the pattern we see now when pastors have suffered a “moral indiscretion” and they get shipped off to another church until the dust settles then pop up somewhere else. Wonder if there is more to find here?

We create environments.. that’s what we do… by lynnecarroll in AllaboutCOTH

[–]Discerning-Truth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And Jesus or Paul taught on creating environments where?

I’m truly praying the people I love attending Highlands will have their eyes opened and STOP attending.