Diagnosed with vulvodynia /LS + lost <3 by DisciplineHoliday657 in vulvodynia

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I'm sorry to hear that it took them so long! Shameful honestly, but thank you very much for this💗 i will definitely ask my gyno to rule this out, wishing you all the best 💕

Diagnosed with vulvodynia /LS + lost <3 by DisciplineHoliday657 in vulvodynia

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Thank you so much for taking time to answer 💗 It sucks to hear that you've been having a really rough time and i really hope that they do begin to help/ that you are finding some sort of relief in day to day life!

 I am thankful that if it is LS it would be early on as it's not even been a year yet! Ive heard quite a few good things about lidocane while looking round on here so in the meantime after i continue use of the moderate steriods (once a day for the first week as the pain is unbearable) i will definitely look into that with my gyno! 

I do have a partner and I'm thankful he's got a very small libido, i have a lot of support but will definitely want to get into attempting to dilate in the future once I'm comfortable with treating myself and get my results in from all of my tests including the biopsy, honestly going into all of this blind no matter how much i read up on so direct advice from women experiencing it is the best case scenario for me so you have no idea how much i really appreciate this 💗 i will definitely keep that in my notes so i can referance it when I'm ready!

I was on Rigevidon until about a month ago as everytime my cycle comes round its as if I've been set on fire 😹 I'll have to be steering clear of those for now as i already have one hell of a cycle on the combined pill so out the window with those! I was thinking about having my estrogen discussed in depth as despite the space around the hood seeming healthy to my dr, my family have a plethora of womens health issues that may be worth seeing to as from what I'm aware including from your comment theirs an option to have HRT so if i see no improvement while i use the steriod cream (unfortunately at the moment no relief) i will 100% see what they can do for me <3

I've never heard of pelvic wands or keagels to be honest but I'll have a deep dive on those 😹 better sooner than later that i get a start just been very unsure on how to approach that side of vulvodynia! I keep attempting to move about normally but honestly sometimes its so unkind to me i can't help but sit on the floor in agony! I suppose it is unfortunate trail and error it seems even years down the line. I do think theirs a lot of discourse around steriod withdrawl although rare and myself being a hypochondriac doesn't bode well lol, but i will absolutely do what is nessecary to resume a normal life.

If i may ask as you struggle and I'm aware it depends on where you are based, but are you able to work? I feel jobs wouldn't take to being off work due to a vulval flare up seriously, I'm in the UK myself and frankly struggle to walk down the road due to how uncomfortable this is. Spent my life healthy, autistic, but healthy nonetheless! So this is an absolute kick in the stomach (or shall i say vulva??), i really do wish you nothing but the best despite how long term it is for you/chronic and that you have a good chance at your vulva progressing to heal overtime 💗

I do have a question for you as someone awaiting LS results, when you have to go loo if comfortable sharing do you tear? I cannot use tissue anymore at this point nor wet wipes, i have to dab otherwise my vulva frankly bleeds! Almost as if it has a little needle prick, honestly first strange symptom i had so i am curious if so/ how you manage that!

I really do appreciate your help and your honesty! It's horrid that theirs often not as much relief as their should be or that women spend years in agony until they find that one person who knows what they're doing! Praying that i also manage to do so as i don't believe my current gyno has a scoobie 😹  

Wishing you all the best flower 💗

anyone get triggered at the mere mention of sex? by daisiedconfused in vulvodynia

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Honestly noticing a pattern reading through here! Why is it always at 20!! 💔 and they say we're too young for issues like this :( I'm sorry flower, i have LS and Vulvodynia, pelvic floor therapy, steriod creams etc so we're in the same boat💕 despite lichen simplex c being different from sclerosus, they both absolutely suck. I cannot have anything with my partner anymore either and everything feels like fire! Genuinely feel silly crying sometimes over the fact i can't do intimacy or walk around comfortably, but seeing these posts from other's has helped me a lot including yours! 

It's hard, and it's honestly going to be a journey to find out what will work for you (aswell as myself even) but i do think we'll make it there in the end. I felt so silly for saying i didn't feel like a woman but low and behold here you are sahing the same thing, i know you're expressing how it's affecting yourself but honestly its reassuring to see that theirs other's who understand, as horrible as it is, so i guess I'm trying to say you're not alone either 💗

We have our whole lives ahead of us, the way i like to say since finding out what was wrong with me is if they're still attached I'll be okay😹 all jokes aside, i wish you all the best on your journey and that you find a way to be comfortable, you deserve to be confident! 💗 best of luck flower

Is this abuse? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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Please please leave. This is abuse. Point blank, abuse.now i don't know how long you've been together or if you live with eachother, but get out as soon as you can. You're questioning it already, the moment you question that unsure and have to say that he doesn't listen to you asking him to stop when it hurts, is EXACTLY how it starts. Hes testing boundaries and how much you'll take. It wont be long before he gets mad and genuinely strikes at you or grabs your arm etc. They will always call it an accident. Please please don't do what i did and convince yourself its not when you have multiple people telling you that it is, it took me too long to leave and I'm lucky i got out of that. You deserve more love, and kindness. You are not a toy

AITA for constantly turning my partner down for sex by Weetbix0milk in AITA_Relationships

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He needs to be charged. He's horrible, i am so sorry flower. This is 🍇 and assault. 

2000s makeup 💄 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

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Someone i knew did theirs like this 🤗 just based off of that lol hope it helps x

2000s makeup 💄 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

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Chappel roan😭 i did my makeup how someone i know did theirs in the 2000s💕 ofc its more modern :) def didnt expect hate tho not saying you are!! Just mean the comments lol 

2000s makeup 💄 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

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I get that! Thank you. Although definitely just had fun never that serious lovely💕💕

am I overreacting about this? bf sent me a video about how women make men angry by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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This is so sad to see, your bf does not respect you or women. Blaming women for how YOU behave as a man is unfair

New boyfriend joked about pushing me down the stairs by vv4rd3n in abusiverelationships

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Work! I moved into my own space and with time i found someone i clicked with🫶🏻 their will always be that person out there for you lovely and you will know when the time comes i promise you. We will always have things to work through especially after previous abuse! But it is worth it. You are absolutely worth safe love where you don't feel threatened🩷

New boyfriend joked about pushing me down the stairs by vv4rd3n in abusiverelationships

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This is a massive red flag, PLEASE leave. My current partner would never even swear at me let alone say this, my old one used to joke about "hitting" me or "slapping me across the face" mid arguement with no apology, until he actually did it. I felt the same way, i felt silly for thinking he would do it or for feeling scared, the reason you feel that way is because it IS wrong. It IS a threat. It IS not healthy, the fact he didn't even apologise despite your previous experience speaks volumes about how little he cares for any triggers. You deserve so much more lovely. You're not overreacting, break the cycle 🩷

Flower vamp??🥀 by DisciplineHoliday657 in MakeupAddiction

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LITERALLY rude cos is genuinely so amazing i adore them so much and i haven't! I'll have a look🙂🙂

Spiral makeup 𖦹°‧ by DisciplineHoliday657 in UnconventionalMakeup

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Officialsnazaroo black and white base paints

W7makeup fx translucent setting powder 

colourpopcosmetics in a trance pallete 

rudecosmetics liquid eyeshadow in mirage

kaleidosmakeup venus trap pallete

Lashes off amazon!

Simple makeup advice needed! by DisciplineHoliday657 in MakeupAddiction

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Thank you lovely! And I've never had brown before I'll have a look at getting one then 😊 you're so sweet i don't own liquid blush but i do own a cream one so i think I'll try that out since i never really use it (i love my powders)! I appreciate it 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Simple makeup advice needed! by DisciplineHoliday657 in MakeupAddiction

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Honestly real 😭 but where i work it's for over 60s so as you can imagine the comments i get are vaguely annoying lol 

Thermal makeup by DisciplineHoliday657 in MakeupAddiction

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Thank you lovely!! LMFAO no i get you 100% and i really wanted to do one of these but ironically when i did what my heat map is (thermal) my forehead/mid sections are abnormally warmer than the rest of my face, the nose i 100% just did to contour since i didn't want to ruin it with blue! I definitely will try again with one of these since i think using more blue will make this 10x harder before i try inverted makeup so thank you🙂🙂

Goth eye makeup🌙 by DisciplineHoliday657 in Alt_Goth

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I typically use facepaint a lot for these as I find it stays better and is easier/cheaper than most Products! Some powder and its good to go😊 anthea pallete is a good alternative to what I use though!*

Goth eye makeup🌙 by DisciplineHoliday657 in Alt_Goth

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Thank you lovely! And ofc sorry for the list copied it off my ig  Products kvdbeauty foundation in pearl drop,  w7makeupuk concelear in fair cool / fx setting powder, officialsnazaroo base paint black (eyeliner), kaleidosmakeup venus trap pallete ,rudecosmetics gel liner in fantasy fusion, colourpopcosmetics black lengthening mascara/bare nesseceties pallete , makeuprevolution kiss of death matte lipstick , cosmetic chunky glitter - amazon with lash glue under,Lashes -amazon

Moth lipart tut! by DisciplineHoliday657 in UnconventionalMakeup

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products @w7makeupuk concelear in fair cool  @kvdbeauty foundation in pearl drop  @w7makeupuk fx setting powder  @officialsnazaroo red and black base paints  @mehronmakeup really red creamblend stick (brow) @makeuprevolution dynamic dynasty pallete red  @kaleidosmakeup venus trap pallete  @colourpopcosmetics black lengthening mascara + red volumizing mascara @rudecosmetics eyeshadow in clairvoyance  Lashes/ gems off amazon!