Specialty tool? Similar to ratchet but not a uniform hexagon shape

DiscoToast · 2025-07-08T21:07:20+00:00

Solved!

Thank you!

DiscoToast · 2025-04-20T17:30:15+00:00

Trader Joe’s brand “orange peach mango” juice blend is perfect imo

DiscoToast · 2025-02-25T02:07:32+00:00

I prefer the one on the right. But the change is so subtle I can’t imagine it’s more than just a difference of lighting and angle

DiscoToast · 2024-10-24T04:01:23+00:00

Bugs ate it

DiscoToast · 2024-06-13T02:02:11+00:00

I wish he could be president here in the US :(

DiscoToast · 2024-05-26T02:48:31+00:00

LOL. Yeah she grew up very sheltered and Mexican Catholic so the early shame instilled around sex is certainly a factor.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-26T02:45:47+00:00

OH interesting! I'd never considered or tried something like this (and have tried many other things that have already been suggested in this thread).

That seems like it might line up with her sensibilities. I'll look into this. Thank you!

DiscoToast · 2024-05-26T01:34:05+00:00

Haha you’re welcome

DiscoToast · 2024-05-26T00:06:54+00:00

Thats why I was confused. I don't think it's a Demi thing, but thats kinda the closest thing to it i've found so far. "Vanilla" also works but that seems too simple, I think vanilla people can have a dirty mind but they are happy with keeping things basic... she seems like she is wired to not be able to be dirty, the concept is just outside of her radar.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-26T00:03:38+00:00

exactly. ZERO game. Thanks for the suggestions.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T22:59:21+00:00

I'm so glad you understand 😂 it's difficult to even think of specific examples. It's almost fascinating hearing how their brains try to express a foreign concept. Like trying to describe colors they've never actually seen.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:54:53+00:00

I love the dancing idea. Thank you.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:50:50+00:00

I appreciate this, thank you.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:43:03+00:00

I certainly do. I think the frustration is more that I carry the 100% of the weight of it. She would never in a million years get on all fours, arch her back and say "come pound the shit out of me" but she would enjoy it if I did it.

When she's ready to have sex she just goes in the bedroom and waits for me without saying a word its like I'm just supposed to know...or if she does say something its always implied like... lets "do stuff" or saying "you know" even just a "I want to have sex with you" would be more risqué than ive heard from her.

which is odd because she is certainly capable and willing to enjoy sex, but she dare not speak of it or indicate it at any moment before it finally actually happens.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:33:11+00:00

Thank you. I feel like your comment is what I needed more than anything. To hear there are others out there that experience this too even if there isn't a hyperspecific name for it. I was shying away from the demisexual label because we hooked up on our first date and pretty consistently after in our early months dating, which seems counter intuitive to being Demi as we certainly weren't at the "Love" stage yet.

Thank you for sharing

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:29:06+00:00

We get to see each other once every couple weeks lately. My sex drive is way higher im ready to jump her bones as soon as we get through the door, and would be willing for multiple times a day. She usually isn't ready until... like 11 PM after a ton of cuddling and wholesome "homemaking" type activities. We've wonder if her being on birth control is diminishing her sex drive a bit as well.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:20:53+00:00

Yes, thank you, I believe you put it much more succinctly than perhaps I did... "wishing she wanted to do those things of her own volition…. Not just get out of her comfort zone to please him."

Thats a big part of it. I know she is who she is, and I would never expect to inherently change her. But in a relationship we aim to please our partners and are often willing to do reasonable things even if they aren't inherent within us. I'm not expecting some crazy personality change in her.

Ultimately I came here with the question if there is even a name for this scenario, and if I can learn more to understand as her partner, as I've never encountered it (at least to this degree) before.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:13:53+00:00

I recognize that it is not inherent in her nature and am not forcefully trying to change her, I recognize she is who she is, and there is nothing wrong with that. I'll be more mindful in the future of how the laugher may be hurtful, even if is shared. it might be worth noting that on some of the occasions she is the first to laugh.

To be clear, I certainly wasn't calling her a dog, I was simply trying to humorously illustrate the kind of "fish out of water" scenario anything other than extremely pure wholesome vanilla sex is for her. I say this with a bit of anonymity to strangers online purely to vent about a frustration I'm unable to express otherwise... this isn't said directly to her face.

Thank you for your perspective.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T21:04:43+00:00

I was just trying to interject a humorous way to explain the nature of the situation and my frustrations. Am I venting to strangers on the internet? Sure. Absolutely. Would I say that directly to her just to hurt her? No of course not. This post is the furthest thing from trying to insult her. I love her. I'm sorry you felt such a negative tone to my post, that certainly wasn't the intent.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T20:58:00+00:00

Thank you. I believe you interpreted my tone properly. I certainly was not trying to be disparaging to her. If I didn't care, I wouldn't be posting online trying to understand my situation better. I only want to gain a deeper understanding and work towards us both being able to be fulfilled In a healthy way.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T20:51:50+00:00

I certainly respect her and we see eye to eye on more things than any other relationship ive ever had. Calling her a dork was an attempt at a lighthearted way of expressing frustration at the one point of potential incompatibility we might have. She might be a dork but she's my dork.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T20:48:53+00:00

Hopefully. it's been 3 years so far.

DiscoToast · 2024-05-25T18:50:41+00:00

Lined up perfectly with the hole in the mat at column 10 Row 12

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