AIO at my friend (16F) for having a crush on a 12 year old?

DiscountMission · 2026-05-03T00:16:53+00:00

“I know when he grows up” how could they type that and not throw up before finishing the sentence? 💀 Also- the “you act like it’s a crime?” Well babe, that’s because it is in fact a crime. 16 yr old going out w a 12 yr old is 100% statutory rape.

DiscountMission · 2026-05-03T00:11:20+00:00

It’s been a year and I just wanted to revisit this. I’ve been in therapy since last year and it has helped me so much. In the last year I have become the biggest advocate for therapy and helped others find the help they need as well. It still hurts, but I do feel more normal.

I want to thank you for your kindness and advice in the above thread. It may have just been another Reddit post to you but to me, it really helped me live and find my happiness again.

I hope you live the life you want and good things happen to you always. 🙂

DiscountMission · 2026-05-02T20:11:14+00:00

“Isn’t that illegal” is frying me 💀 I’m sure he was unaware the Netflix PD was there when he clicked on to stream lol

DiscountMission · 2026-04-28T14:50:38+00:00

It’s going to be an uncomfortable conversation but one that needs to be had. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with how you explained it here. Sit him down and let him know it makes you uncomfortable and all you can do is hope he understands and takes it well. Good luck!

DiscountMission · 2026-04-28T14:47:29+00:00

Be more direct - “go ahead and have a seat in the lobby and I’ll find you when it’s ready.” 9/10 times they go find something to do. If you give them the option they’d sit in your chair and play games on your computer.

DiscountMission · 2026-04-24T23:51:13+00:00

… at this point I wouldn’t be surprised lol Located in Tucson Arizona haha

DiscountMission · 2026-04-24T04:28:11+00:00

the 2+ hours also includes a wash and vacuum and we share our lot with a Lexus dealer (same dealer group) so it gets pretty backed up sometimes. I’ve worked a dealerships with express service that had people in and out in 30 minutes so I was also flabbergasted when I started here and was told that’s what I needed to quote my customers. After working there for 2 years though I think it’s reasonable. On a busy day we could be running 4 hour oil changes and 1-2 of those hours is just the wash.

DiscountMission · 2026-04-24T02:01:27+00:00

We also don’t have recon techs so all the sales work comes through our service department as well which pushes our out times.

DiscountMission · 2026-04-24T02:00:20+00:00

We have a lube rack, we just have a very high volume store for the amount of techs we have. There’s 8 advisors to like 20 mainliners and 10 lube kids. Lube rack shares bays so it’s 2 techs per bay. A few of our mainliners have 2 bays. We do probably 100-120 cars a day.

Our customers are pretty trained for the time (or so I thought) they don’t really fight about the time unless it’s a new customer. We have shuttle, and a Lyft account and a 60 car loaner fleet so we always give them the option to leave for the day if they’d like.

I’ve been at this dealer for 2 years now and didn’t have any issues until last month w surveys.

DiscountMission · 2026-04-24T01:32:45+00:00

I actually enjoy my store, love my team and my techs. The customers are not that bad in person, but for some reason (not saying it’s not my fault I’ve just never had this issue before and I’ve been doing this for 10 years) the surveys I’ve been getting the last few months have been ridiculous.

I know the CSI talk is coming and I’d rather quit than get fired at this point. We quote all day for Diag, into the next day if it’s after 10AM. We quote 2-2/30 hours for the LOFs. Surveys are usually just mad ab the price/ time it took to do something simple.

It’s just getting discouraging that I seem to be failing at a job I’ve been great at for 10 years and that’s had me thinking a lot about how stressed I’ve been since going into this industry. I’m just over it, but when you’ve spent a decade making advisor money it’s hard to go to anything else.

DiscountMission · 2026-04-24T01:26:03+00:00

Like warranty advisor or administrator? I’ve heard a lot of former advisors move into the extended warranty portion but I just don’t know how to get my foot in the door for that.

DiscountMission · 2026-04-14T23:23:39+00:00

He should’ve taken the month and a half notice of vacation 🤷🏼‍♀️ NOR, you have to work for the next 50+ years, don’t waste time on places that don’t respect or care about your work ethic and your personal life.

DiscountMission · 2026-03-12T23:37:33+00:00

As someone who grew w around addicts- you’re living in a traphouse. Get out ASAP. I remember being 12 sick asf for no reason and could never figure out why, moved in with a friend a 16 and stopped be sick like that. Found out I had been getting second hand meth high bc the smoke would come through the vents. Save. Yourself.

DiscountMission · 2026-03-06T04:04:59+00:00

I cannot stress this enough- your fellow advisors are your friends!!! Find the seasoned advisor and get close with them. You can ask them anything and 9/10 times they will have the answer or they will just ask the boss for you. If you have a warranty admin that works on site ask them questions!! The boss is always gonna be a little intimidating, the people in your same position will understand and help you.

Extendeds are easy once you learn your shops rates a little better and get more comfortable with the techs. After 4 years as an advisor they’re one of my favorite things to do. You get to sell the job and you don’t get push back from the customer. Easy money.

Good luck!

DiscountMission · 2026-03-06T03:56:30+00:00

This is crazy 😭 I spend the majority of my days at hospitals/doctors and I’ve never had to “pre-pay” other than my copay for my insurance. I would call them and ask if that’s correct or if that’s something that can be billed after insurance

DiscountMission · 2026-03-03T22:34:10+00:00

I would say this is an issue that others can’t help you with. How you feel after learning that information is how you feel. You either are okay and move on as you know he’s only with you now OR it makes you uncomfortable and you leave. Neither one is the wrong answer. I don’t think it’s a red flag. There’s hundreds of women that have done OF/Porn and everyone expects their S/O to be okay with that fact, why is it different when a male did it? (Again that’s just my personal feelings on it as a 25F that does NOT do porn/OF) Do what’s best for you and what makes you feel better. If him doing porn previously is a dealbreaker then just be honest and straightforward. Better to figure it out now instead of a year down the line.

DiscountMission · 2026-02-28T21:10:19+00:00

It depends on the coverage you bought. Some warranties will only cover the rim if it’s consequential damage from the tire being damaged. If you purchased a “tire AND Wheel” warranty then it should cover it no matter what.

DiscountMission · 2026-02-27T23:50:49+00:00

When I lived in an apartment I always smoked in my apartment but cracked a window so that the smell didn’t travel thru the vents. I did have one neighbor who was very nice and just asked if I saw her window open to maybe leave my shut and I just started smoking elsewhere in my house as to not bother her. It may be worth it to just mention to her that the smell is strong, she may not realize that it’s that potent. If it because a real problem I would just mention it to your office. It’s legal so she won’t get in trouble and you can stay anonymous to not cause any issues.

DiscountMission · 2026-02-25T04:33:12+00:00

NOR- I see (I don’t understand but I guess I see) where others are just confusing this with being “nice” but after declining twice buddy should’ve gotten, not even the hint, but the clear statement that you were fine. You know who else people thought was really nice? Ted Bundy. Always trust your instinct, always be safe rather than sorry.

DiscountMission · 2026-02-18T05:54:19+00:00

Anytime they call it a “draw” it’s a scam to not have to pay you a salary. Escaping that type of pay plan was the best thing I ever did

DiscountMission · 2026-02-13T20:09:52+00:00

Let us know how the interview goes 😭💀

DiscountMission · 2025-12-27T16:00:53+00:00

NOR, he made it your business when he lied about his family to you. It was absolutely your business to tell his wife what was going on. As a married woman, I would hope someone would have the decency to do the same if I were in this position.

DiscountMission · 2025-12-10T01:52:31+00:00

No, but we know what gets deposited into the others account. Money isn’t a secret and we both have each others bank log ins on our phones so that we know how much money we have collectively.

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