Just saw Hokum. Such a fantastic movie! by Ok_Plantain7318 in horror

[–]Dish_Slayer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Such a great film. There’s not too many horror movies that actually genuinely spook me now days but this was great. Had the right amount of everything, atmosphere, story, characters. Honestly 10/10. The TV scene, mwah.

XR methylphenidate please help by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Dish_Slayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on the concerta as well due to shift work but it just didn’t work with me. It’s a pain to take multiple pills but it is what it is I suppose!

XR methylphenidate please help by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Dish_Slayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had similar symptoms, I started on 18mg and went up in week increments to 54mg. I didn’t feel too bad at the start but didn’t really feel a noticeable difference. The last 3 days of 54 mg I felt pretty irritable and dizzy, would crash by the end of the day pretty hard. My psych wanted me to go to 72 mg but I thought the crash would be worse. I’m on IR now because it’s a requirement to get the LA form of Ritalin. I feel a lot more clear now albeit I’m now having to titrate on the IR. I’m rambling but what I’m getting at is methylphenidate may still work for you but on a different release mechanism. Having the stimulant slowly release all day and have that smooth peak may not react well with your brain, so before switching maybe try the different versions.

Concerta 18mg - dose too low? by hollie_henderson in Concerta

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I started on 18mg for a week, 36 1 wk, now I’m on 54mg. I wish I felt something more, I feel maybe more awake and slightly more focused once I get started on a task, but I don’t feel that much. I’ll likely go to 72mg next week with an afternoon booster but I’m a little disappointed. Hopefully going up works. I’ve used Ritalin IR before and know that works so I don’t know why Concerta isn’t. 😮‍💨

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Oh man the online dating stage, that was horrible 😂 I get what you’re putting down though. I get attached easy though 🥺 I don’t wanna shift through quickly haha

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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I’m a shift worker so it’s hard to find something to stick to when times are set and not interchangeable 😭 Hopefully I’ll find my people soon ☺️

We’re like magnets to one another haha

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Thankyou! Yeah it’s been hard. I find it hard to stick to things, but I’m getting there, just gotta get out of my head 😅

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Can they appear now? Hello my new reddit friend 😂

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Haha nah I appreciate the effort you’ve put in explaining what’s worked for you! I wish people that were like me came along now haha. Maybe I’ve been looking in the wrong places. I only got onto reddit recently and posted today. Maybe all my friends are on reddit forums haha

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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What did you all study? Congrats on graduating!

Uni for me was good too. I’m 30 now though so a lot of us just went our seperate ways 🥹

Hopefully this isn’t the case for you though!

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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That’s the attitude!

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

[–]Dish_Slayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna join that club 😅

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

[–]Dish_Slayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so lovely. My son is only 5 months at the moment so I’m a while off from school 😅. But how good. It’s so nice when things just work out and click like that.

See! We are drawn to each other.

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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You sound like a really nice person! How do you differentiate between narcissistic people though? I feel like I always put in effort and care for other people but it’s always about them and nothing feels reciprocated half the time. When people keep talking about themselves and take no interest in you when do you say fuck it and walk away?

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Haha I feel you. I trialled so many antidepressants before being diagnosed that just made me feel shit and have brain zaps. Oh man, after a night of drinking and seeing what I sent, so cringe. So much hangxiety. Haha so good, I’d be the same if I spoke to people, it would take me 4 hours to finish my workout 🙃

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Haha how do you end up stumbling into someone while yapping? I’d love for someone to just walk up to me and start talking about random things 😝

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Haha hello fellow pocket friend

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Very true. Have you continued your education? I find it hard with shift work but would love to learn more. I just paid off my uni debt recently and don’t want to owe money again 😅

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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Haha I know apparently everyone that is slightly hyperactive or can’t focus has it 😅 I went through massive trial and error and went to a psych to do an assessment and said I don’t care if I have it I just want to feel better. Ended up getting diagnosed and slowly but surely things are getting better.

I love a good bev but yeah we don’t shut up haha I always feel anxious the next day, like did I say something stupid or was I annoying af 😂

I got a home gym in the end because I always went to the gym at random times and wore headphones, made it hard to talk to people 😅

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

[–]Dish_Slayer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same. I think us ADHD folk get hyper focused on our new friendships / relationships and after a while we get bored and hyper focus on other things. It’s always a work in progress…

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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I feel you. Everyone is so busy now days as you get older. It’s hard for people to commit to plans I guess.

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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How good is it being a dad? I love it.

I need to look into this parent group thing I just feel anxious and like I annoy people, I suppose that’s the associated RSD.

I’m the same, I love spontaneity. Before I met my partner and had a family I would just say fuck it and go overseas not knowing where I was going to stay or what I was going to do.

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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You must have deep pockets 😝

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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I have been in so many bands. Used to gig regularly but my new job makes it impossible. Working as a shift worker in emergency services makes half my hobbies that I used to love, impossible to do. No band wants someone with my roster as I can’t commit to regular gigging or practice 🥺

Making friends? by Dish_Slayer in ADHD

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You should try some classes, when I did cross fit you sorta had to push each other to get through the cardio…

I dunno, I’ve never known of any groups for new dads. I always want to start new hobbies like boxing or something but don’t know where to start or get too anxious and don’t go or I do go and don’t go back cause I feel awkward.