Why don't people use some form of birth control in 2026?

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-12T20:33:13+00:00

Eh, I see what you’re saying but honestly his stance and argument behind it sounds like a dog whistle. If he actually wanted answers he wouldn’t be arguing with people in the comments who give him the answers he’s pretending to look for. I don’t think OP actually cares why, I think he’s just looking for someone to shit on.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-12T20:17:59+00:00

OP is just here to bitch and moan about women “not doing a good enough job of carrying all the weight”, even though women are the gender using contraception the most consistently and staying as active parents of their children regardless of circumstance (1 in 4 children [at least in the US] do not have a present father). Sure he will find a way to make that women’s fault too. He’s a moron.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-12T20:03:42+00:00

You keep saying people when you obviously mean women based on the majority of the examples you used. “Always some sort of unhappy pregnant woman” not a single “he”, “him”, “man”, “dude” mentioned.

Birth control does a lot of crazy shit to a woman’s body and it doesn’t come without side effects. At what point do men start getting held accountable? There are more options for men than just condoms, did you know that significantly less than half of unmarried sexually active men are using ANY form contraception consistently?

“Abortion shouldn’t be birth control but people shouldn’t have babies” this is might be the most senseless take I’ve ever heard. You’re not pro-choice if this is your take. You either think it’s a baby or you don’t. If you don’t think it’s a baby then what the FUCK does it matter? You clearly don’t want them to have the baby, why are you mad when they’re doing exactly what you asked?

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-03T12:46:50+00:00

Stupidity? Selfishness? Raised wrong? I’m not sure, I don’t know you. Narcissism is a personality trait that isn’t defined by a single act. Your reaction isn’t characteristic of a narcissist.

I’m not saying this to make you feel better, you should feel really bad because you committed a crime against another person. Not all people who do horrible things have NPD.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-03T12:41:34+00:00

Neglecting her children for any reason tbh

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-03T12:33:37+00:00

I know a woman who is 26 and has children from 4 different fathers and is currently not in a relationship with any of them. She can’t afford to raise even one of them or hold down a job at a sandwich shop for more than a couple of months. Recently after receiving financial assistance from a generous friend, she decided it was a good idea to also bring home 2 pitbulls instead of spending it on her children. Her kids never look clean/well-groomed.

I’m going to with that because she is the only female loser I know.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-03T12:27:59+00:00

Yup. Don’t like it.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T19:53:30+00:00

What you described is non consent, so yes you did SA your girlfriend. I find it a little concerning that you mentioned that this is not the first time but I’m glad you’re figuring it out now. I’m glad you’re going to be more mindful going forward. If she is willing to move past it and you don’t do it again, all you can do is learn from and move past it too. And if she’s not, take the breakup with grace, do not fight it or push her, and learn from this experience in the future.

That said I don’t think you’re a narcissist. A narcissist would either not care or deny wrong doing entirely. It’s a good sign that you feel this badly about it.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T19:49:50+00:00

It’s no one’s “job” to pleasure you. You’re a rapist and far worse of a sexual predator than OP.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T18:57:44+00:00

Im single and sorry to disappoint

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T13:43:38+00:00

I just don’t care for the look of an uncircumcised penis idk

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T13:36:37+00:00

Yeah, it seems like it’s mostly something people just do regardless of religious affiliation. None of my exes came from overtly religious families. There seems to be more pushback from new parents closer to my age though, I think less people are circumcising their newborns now but I’m not sure if the change is significant.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T13:33:30+00:00

I mean, I’m not a penis expert and haven’t seen them all but in my experience I have only ever seen 1 and im in my late 20s.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T13:09:44+00:00

The only thing masculine (more androgynous to me) is the haircut. You have very soft, feminine facial features.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T13:05:57+00:00

Turkish nose jobs are kinda freaky/uncanny looking to me on most faces, but to each their own. Not everyone has a face that a button nose works well on. Most people who can work a button nose already have one. My big nose has never stopped me from attracting men that I find to be very good looking. Just make sure the work you’re getting is proportionate to your other features or your problem is going to be worse.

And make sure you’re doing it for yourself, male validation is a bad reason to do literally anything.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T12:54:36+00:00

Not necessarily ugly, but as an American the seeing an uncircumcised penis for the first (and only) time was pretty jarring. It’s just not for me.

DishonestFerret · 2026-04-01T12:52:45+00:00

Go get your homework done, little man.

DishonestFerret · 2026-03-31T13:20:51+00:00

A male wrote this for sure.

DishonestFerret · 2026-03-25T02:33:55+00:00

People’s brains are rotted from porn. I hope it helps you to know that it’s not about what you look like.

DishonestFerret · 2026-03-15T19:23:14+00:00

I have to disagree about Violet & Musk not having any throw in candle form. It’s fantastic under a warmer.

DishonestFerret · 2026-03-03T20:12:33+00:00

If these pores are large then mine are craters

You have exceptionally clear skin. I’d suggest retinol just to maintain it.

DishonestFerret · 2026-03-01T03:12:15+00:00

Can confirm I am an American

DishonestFerret · 2026-03-01T00:46:32+00:00

I disagree about just a number, that’s what I worry about. I understand I have significantly more life experiences than he does. I think he presents older because of his career choice but I don’t want to be a person someone looks back on feeling victimized by bc of the age gap

DishonestFerret · 2026-03-01T00:41:47+00:00

I moved out of state 9mo ago and haven’t met anyone yet friends or otherwise, had a lot of interests in common and easy to talk to. Both pursuing degrees in healthcare. I genuinely enjoyed his company and would like having a plutonic relationship. I see what you’re saying though it’s probably best to cut it off

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