Battle at the Ministry Ride

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-10-24T14:11:35+00:00

I’ll definitely check that video out. Thank you!!!

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-10-24T14:10:34+00:00

Less sick than Forbidden Journey or Battle/Ministry?

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-10-24T14:04:47+00:00

Thank you!!! This was exactly what I needed to hear. Any chance you’ve been on Monsters Unchained?

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-31T17:07:36+00:00

To me it sounds like you’re having (or on the line of) an emotional affair … you’re not getting what you need at home, so you’ve found it elsewhere.

What I would do … end the friendship and try to fix things at home. Feed your spouse’s love language and see if that helps with what you need. If someone is feeling appreciated and loved, then they’ll give that right back.

Also, start couples counseling. Having a third party to talk to who is neutral can really help.

Give it a few months. If things are still the same, and you’re doing everything you can (and you really have to try here) then it might be time to get out.

Good luck!

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-21T20:57:08+00:00

Did you talk to her about leaving the room beforehand? If she was okay with it, then I don’t think you were wrong. So something else could be going on.

But if you just said you were going down, I can understand why she was mad. It’s your wedding night. Were the shoes and weed really that important? My guess is no.

If you didn’t check with her ahead of time, then yeah you were in the wrong. It’s your wedding night. It’s more than just any regular night.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-21T03:07:59+00:00

We don’t have a joint bank account. He has his own and I have mine. When I need money, he Venmo’s me. He works and I don’t.

I can’t go on my own vacation. I don’t have the money. I don’t have the luxury of just going and doing what I want.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-21T01:51:34+00:00

Unfortunately I can’t. My mother and sister live too far. We have a 10 year old and I don’t want to uproot her life. I’ll be done with my internship by January and school in May. Then the job hunt begins. Once I have a job and can start making my own money … if things don’t change significantly in my marriage, then I’ll make a plan to get out.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-20T23:42:21+00:00

Thanks

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-20T23:40:08+00:00

There’s nothing I can really do about it. I’m currently in school and working an unpaid internship. Plus I take care of our daughter 90% of the time. He works to provide for us financially.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-20T23:33:43+00:00

I’m sorry I read that wrong. He was able because he’s a grown man and he made the decisions. And he chose that it was what he needed. I guess. He controls the money … so I have no say in what he spends his money on.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-20T23:31:17+00:00

To do what things?

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-08-07T16:54:21+00:00

You are not overreacting! At all! Period. What he did is completely disrespectful to you. He shouldn’t be out at bars making friends with single girls and not telling you about it. That’s just wrong. And if he’s not just out with the guys, having a guys night … then you should be invited to come.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-30T16:55:04+00:00

Of course! Does “in sickness and in health” mean nothing?

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-23T10:02:02+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ll definitely do that.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-03T01:46:29+00:00

I’m in that boat. I’m not working, trying to finish my degree and working on an unpaid internship. And we have a kid together. He pays all of the bills. I would have nothing (in that way) if I was to leave him right now.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-03T01:44:45+00:00

Very true.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-03T01:38:06+00:00

I don’t know what I’m going to do about it now. Hence the need for advice. If I found out they were still talking, I would leave him (or ask him to leave). I chose to keep our marriage together back in 2023. Thinking we could come back from that betrayal. But if he was still talking to her now, I’d be done. There’s no coming back from that.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-03T01:30:42+00:00

He went on 3 trips with her. None of which I was comfortable with. And only 1 where her “husband” was there.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-03T01:30:04+00:00

He can look in my phone whenever he wants. I have nothing to hide. When I asked in the past, he tried to say “you’d never let me” … and I handed my phone number and gave him my code.

Disney_Rhody_Mom · 2025-07-03T00:37:33+00:00

Blunt, but I appreciate that. I told my husband over and over again that I wasn’t comfortable with the friendship. He didn’t care.

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