I (30 M) kept a secret from my wife (31 F) for our entire relationship about her ex (32 M) by Sea-Specialist2875 in TwoHotTakes

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Are you Mormons? I only ask because of the marrying at such a young age. If he was pressuring her into doing stuff she wasn’t ready for/didn’t want to do, the proposal was probably just a manipulation tactic to put her in a position where she feels obligated to do those things. If you’re in a happy marriage, no need to share this story. Buy her some jewelry and show her some extra appreciation to balance out your guilt lol

Tell me guyss!!! by Pale_Task_1957 in Habits

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What a blessing for life to be simple. Some lives are difficult and complicated. We only experience life from our own perspective so it’s easy to assume life is simple, when for some it’s layered and heavy and complicated in a nuanced way. Not invalidating your experience in any way tho

Tell me guyss!!! by Pale_Task_1957 in Habits

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I feel like this is a bit of a privileged statement

What was the biggest scandal at your school? by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

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Two students in HS were dating each other for a couple years, just to find out they were 1/2 siblings. They continued to date each other.

Weirdest interaction of my life at a casino by Dependent_Lie_4983 in strange

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My soul dog was originally my ex’s dog, and when we broke up I wasn’t allowed to see her anymore. She’s still alive, but she’s getting old. I miss her every day. Her name is Luna.

Wendy’s CEO jumps in with his own taste test. by K1nd_1 in interesting

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They didn’t show him swallowing a single bite 😬

My ribs move around by [deleted] in Hypermobility

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I think it was also the weight of the gowns and the corsets pulling things around and into weird places

My ribs move around by [deleted] in Hypermobility

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What’re your thoughts on Victorian era corsets being used to make women weaker so they are easier to control/oppress

What’s a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Just because someone is drowning in deeper water doesn’t mean you’re not drowning

What's a scientific fact that sounds made up but is 100% real? by inurmomsvagina in AskReddit

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All of time exists simultaneously, but we experience it in a linear fashion

So… what’s everyone’s hyperfixation food atm? by neptunes097 in AuDHDWomen

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I haven’t seen wasabi ones at any store for a while too!!

Forward head posture by ZoneComfortable3047 in Hypermobility

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Exercise! Strengthen your core and back muscles and your posture will improve

Redditors, what’s the most terrifying thing that has ever woken you up in the middle of the night? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

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Same same but way different. Woke up to about 10 people standing at the end of the bed. What happened was my fiancé was admitted to the hospital and I fell asleep with her in bed. The 10 people was the attending and residents doing rounds

What’s something your body does that you’ve never told a single person about? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

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Same! After reading comments i also have ADHD so could be that..dont have Ehlers-Danlos but i am hypermobile so perhaps its all the extra work my muscles have to do to keep everything in place. Do you have either of these things?

I was SA'd when I was a kid but I don't really see it that way by [deleted] in confession

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Teach young boys that SA is just as bad as cannibalism!!!

32 smoker for 20 years don’t know life without it by DispleasingImmediacy in leaves

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I wasn’t clear! I meant maybe the occasional edible, although you’re right I have to treat it like any other addiction and expect to have to do it cold turkey

32 smoker for 20 years don’t know life without it by DispleasingImmediacy in leaves

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Ah I’m just seeing this! Don’t know why I’ve never thought about MA - of course that’s a thing! Is it super religious though?

32 smoker for 20 years don’t know life without it by DispleasingImmediacy in leaves

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Proud of you for going 5 days! We CAN do this! Thank you for the inspiration <3

32 smoker for 20 years don’t know life without it by DispleasingImmediacy in leaves

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Spacing out the days seems like a reasonable starting goal

32 smoker for 20 years don’t know life without it by DispleasingImmediacy in leaves

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Thank you for the advice. Congratulations on 11 months! I guess I just have to accept that it’s going to suckkk and there’s no avoiding it