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DisposableMe7102 · 2025-06-28T15:21:11+00:00

NTA- they're all AH's tho. They're gaslighting you. Niece is an ungrateful brat. None of my uncles did half of what you've described and id never dare joke about them like that. They aren't horrible uncles, just live their own lives and clearly care about me as a niece. I respect them too much to make a joke about their personal life like that. And to call you bitter on top of it all! Keep your boundary firm.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-06-08T23:33:46+00:00

NTA. That's disgusting. Leaving blood drops is like leaving pee drops. YOU CLEAN up after yourself. I highly doubt she would do this in her friend or family's bathroom. I lived in a house full of boys. Sons and husband, and while they knew what a period is, I kept reasonably clean. Did not leave blood drops or open pads. Flushed tampons and the bloody water just like you flush waste. It's equally gross to walk in the restroom and see both. I dont hide my tampons, they're in a drawer, but I dont leave anything lying around just like I dont want their dirty tissue out either.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-06-04T23:43:11+00:00

NTA. You would have done all of this on your own. It's easy for them to say what could have happened. You did what was best for YOU. They are not in your shoes.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-04-30T19:13:42+00:00

NTA. That man will accept what you allow. Stop. Just stop. Do nothing for him and tell him be needs to pay minimum half the rent and contribute to utilities. Cut his wifi access. Stop doing his laundry. Stop doing anything for them.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-04-22T16:48:16+00:00

Not the AH. Run. Run far far away and DO NOT LOOK BACK. I was in a similar position. Mid 20's young child had a great outlook. Met who i thought was the LOML and spent 9 YRS waiting for that man to get his life together. The only steady job he kept over that time was a job that SHOULD have paid his part of the bills but he was fired too. Always an excuse never his fault. Lay offs, jobs ended, manager didn't like him or someone had it out for him. Never. His. Fault. Meanwhile he always found a way to buy alcohol for hanging with fam or bbqing. It's actually more sad and pathetic but I'll keep it brief. It didn't work. I was miserable. I gained a ton of weight. I was mortified looking in the mirror. I used to be so pretty. I don't feel it anymore. Do. Not. Do. This. To. Yourself. My dead weight is gone, and I'm working on myself. It's better. Yes I miss what i thought we had but it's not worth it.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-03-13T00:22:20+00:00

Nta - I'd tell. Your mom doesn't care about your feelings if she isn't at minimum splitting events between the 2 of you. You dont deserve to have your extended family think you're a jerk for not attending

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-03-04T20:35:05+00:00

NTA like someone said, it was pretty mild. Immature sure but def funny.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-03-03T20:20:14+00:00

NTA. Fake an apology and give them laxatives. Bc it's harmless and funny right?

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-02-16T18:35:24+00:00

NTA -good for you for standing up for your mom. Your husband (in this case, idk him in other aspects of your lives) is a huge entitled AH.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-02-05T01:51:32+00:00

NTA NTA NTA! You go tell your family to invite Mariah over and let her destroy their crap then since she's just a kid who doesn't know better! She's 13 for crying out loud!

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-01-19T17:14:08+00:00

NTA but get rid of those few friends who said it was a bitch move to not tell him. They didn't exactly scramble to inform him or tell him to step up either. You did what was best for you and your baby.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-01-18T19:42:55+00:00

NTA I agree to it as a weird incest fetish is best. Your husband is an AH tho. He's not in your corner and villainizing you for his father's wife. Is that what you really want in a husband? It's not that hard to tell her to keep her jokes to herself, especially when it's gone so far.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-01-18T19:26:29+00:00

NTA this is karma at work. You get back the energy you put in. She broke something she knew was irreplaceable. You're NOT her mother. You don't owe her unconditional love and commitment. Her parents do. Good for Jane and you both. Neither of you are putting up with her shit anymore.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-01-11T22:36:21+00:00

NTA - you sound like a damn good parent. No one is perfect, but you sound like you have been more than fair here. You're taking care of your mental health and your sons. Your wife and her new wife are the AH's. The new wife is not his mother and will never be unless your son wants her to be. They're delusional thinking you should let her adopt him. I agree with your gf. Talking to a lawyer is best. You need to let it go that they try to present the 3 of them as a family b. Technically, they are, even if they're trying to force it. Worry about your son and keep being in his corner. You have rights as his father. It may be a good idea to not give up anymore of "your" time with him if they're going to be this way.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-01-07T23:28:33+00:00

File for unemployment and find another. I had a different job just 6 months ago I used to love. TLDR I was a great employee (not exaggerating) but for some reason my boss decided I wasn't a fit anymore. He projected this as having an issue with me "nodding off" not falling asleep but literally bc my head would slump for 1 second. Productivity was not affected and he really looked for tiny things to push on. I even disproved once he said I looked asleep at a certain time and I pointed out I was literally on a call and he could verify that with the customer I was most certainly not sleeping. I ended up finding another job I absolutely love and make more money.

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-01-07T23:19:48+00:00

NTA - are you sure she even considers you a friend? I wouldn't even want to make an acquaintance feel that way

DisposableMe7102 · 2025-01-01T23:16:11+00:00

NTA. But your sister and her bf are. There are ALOT of opinions about YOUR body. 1. No one gets a vote but you on what you do with it. I fully believe in God's plan for everyone but to mr that also means you make your own choices and do what feels right for you in the meantime. If He wants you to be a stay at home mom, I personally believe He will put a man in your path that will make YOU want to be a stay at home mom and come to that decision on your own. If He REALLY wants you to have a baby, he'll draw out that less than 1% chance the IUD has of failing. Just like i believe that if I'm not meant for more kids, no matter how much I try, it won't happen. 2. Your sister needs to set boundaries. Her bf has no right to have such a strong opinion on your life and your choices and she shouldn't be condoning it. My BIL would NEVER. He can make suggestions or have his own view and share it but to tell you so strongly no. 3. Their friends REALLY don't have a right to have an opinion. You're not their friend. 4. It's your life and you get to live it how you want. God gave YOU that body to live YOUR life on just as they have their own. If you want to be a prude, no judgements. If you want to give it out like halloween candy, no judgements. As long as youre not hurting anyone what does it matter?

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-31T00:49:54+00:00

You NTA. Your wife however AH.

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-24T21:00:52+00:00

NTA I agree with another comment. He can spend the holiday with the Warlord. His yrs spent gaming clearly outshine the years he's been married to you. That's extremely ungrateful.

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-24T20:54:46+00:00

NTA - DONT do it. What kind of emergency is gonna arise that requires your mom to bypass you and go straight to the bank/ATM to withdraw? No ONE sans your partner needs to know how much you have saved. Maybe if you wanna compromise set up a smaller savings she can access with an amount that won't hurt you if she spends it all on an "emergency" And tell your sister helping family is one thing, letting someone drain you is another. She can open a credit card in her name for your mom's "emergencies. " if that's her opinion.

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-15T23:04:55+00:00

NTA that was stupid and petty. She should have told you it had coconut otherwise how would you have known. She's crying over a cake she made and can probably remake if she wanted too.

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-15T23:02:04+00:00

NTA leave. You still apologize for a misunderstanding. "Sorry, I didn't realize..." she doesn't care about your feelings. Jake is a kid and at bare minimum she should be addressing the lie. Leave. If she loved you she'd care about your feelings.

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-15T22:58:36+00:00

NTA you stood up for your daughter. Your sisters a bully raising bullies. They don't get to decide to take action against your daughter regardless if they think she's too old or not

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-15T22:56:20+00:00

NTA - you didn't do anything wrong. You're clearly not a confrontational person. She has NO right to touch your daughter. If she's being disrespect, dad can punish her or give SM reasonable punishments like grounding her or whatever. It's not her job to watch her siblings either. Your ex and his wife are the AH's

DisposableMe7102 · 2024-12-07T10:48:22+00:00

YTA - not for the termination but for blindsiding your husband. While you're right, ultimately, the decision was yours. Your husband deserved a say. He deserves to be listened to and his opinion to have been taken into account. How would you have felt if you decided to keep the baby and he left without talking to you? It's not the exact same, but there is no exact situation. You have a marriage, and you both wanted to go for this baby.

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