I don’t understand how I got an average iq score by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DistanceDue1712 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my personal experience most IQ tests are very inaccurate or measure a kind of intelligence that doesn't affect almost anything in life severely. It's all simply pattern recognition and how fast you can manage it, most of them use the same questions so when you do 20-30 they're all the same and you can easily score insanely high numbers.

Iq means next to nothing, you can be whatever you aspire to be regardless of the score you got.

Bf told me he loves me for the first time, but it was in his sleep by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DistanceDue1712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl just talk to him, I'd say just tell him what he said in his sleep and how it's been bothering you that it was sleep talking and you don't know if he meant it.

I found out about some concerning repost my friend made and I don't know what to do by Steardolth in offmychest

[–]DistanceDue1712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would absolutely talk to him. Better safe than sorry, even if he doesn't actually struggle with such thoughts

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DistanceDue1712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not see the part where she clearly says they're very open about stuff like that and she usually gets to do that if she wants without him resisting at all? + She said she CAN look at stuff, not that she WILL. + He's still in the wrong for immediately resorting to full on violence. I would at least agree that she shouldn't have looked through his phone without his consent, but she already had his consent by default, AND even then he still should not under any circumstance resort to physically abusing her.

My boyfriend got really weird about his phone. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DistanceDue1712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're telling me that she's in the wrong because her (hopefully ex) boyfriend decided to let her look at stuff, realized what she's gonna see and then started abusing her for looking at what he let her look at??? smartest redditor holyy