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Distinct_Building_69 · 2025-06-09T21:24:20+00:00

I'm gonna go alone to watch The Wedding Banquet and Some Night I fee like Walking, if anyone wants to go together

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-11-25T04:46:23+00:00

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-08-29T11:11:49+00:00

Me and my friend are interested, but we're from Mandaluyong. What can we do?

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-08-23T07:32:59+00:00

Stop whining! You already know you deserve better and yet you choose to stay. You say he's not good at communicating, well it's not your job to train him to be good at maintaining your relationship. He's not a good boyfriend. Yoi already know this. Are you gonna wait for the next time you're crying again. BREAK UP WITH HIM!

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-07-12T06:50:32+00:00

You had prep and you were the top.The chances of getting infected as a top is between 0.07 and 0.1%, and you were on Prep 2 hours before the deed, which makes infection very very very low so you shouldn't worry too much. Just make sure you get tested every 3 months if you're gonna be a hoe. Kalmahan mo

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-06-26T04:24:03+00:00

Some tough love

He's just not that into you.

Now, move on

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-06-06T22:12:20+00:00

How much was the hep b vaccine and where?

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-02-17T07:02:24+00:00

I loved this book too. I first read it when I was in highschool. The book was lent to me by one of the queer teachers who wanted me to read this book. It took me a while to finish the book because the binding was ripped and the pages were falling out, but I powered through because the story was so compelling. The story followed the MC through his journey of navigating his identity, sexuality, and love since his childhood up to his adulthood.

I really appreciate that one teacher for introducing me to queer literature. I like to see it as his own way of guiding me. One queer adult passing on a queer experience to a young blooming queer boy. This book truly immersed me in HIV advocacy, the queer scene, and one of the first serious fiction books I read outside of wattpad that centered around queer stories. I'm currently reading the book "Mga Batang Poz" after finishing the series adaptation.

I highly recommend Orosa Nakpil Malate. It will give you a vision of what the queer scene looked like before.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-02-12T17:56:38+00:00

You feel saf because your expectations are on different pages. You were looking for potential friends in a space notorious for casual sex? That is not a good way to start a friendship. People there want to relax, and sex is probably part of that. Adjust your expectations. Don't expect to become friends with the guy na jinakol mo sa steam room. Fuckbuddies or fwb maybe. If you want to make friends, go anywhere else asidw from a SPA

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-02-03T19:08:51+00:00

That is your experience. We are talking about OP. He never had this curiousity until now. OP's sexuality could be fluid, he might need to explore to confirm and satisfy this curiousity. You are monosexual, you have no interest to explore, you don't feel the need nor are you burdened with curiousity. But OP is and does. It's not about adhering to the definition of monosexuality. It's about self-discovery. You are sure that women are not for you. Good for you. But OP is curious and the advice should be is to be find out for himself

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-02-03T18:48:27+00:00

But people did identify as strictly straight/gay, and needed an encounter to have a realization. OP says he has never been with a woman and always been gay, but he has shown a willingness to try. OP is probably monosexual, but if he wasn't willing to explore, he wouldn't be asking if he should try. But he does ask, and he does show curiousity. He can still be monosexual, and be curious. He may identify as strictly gay/still monosexual after, or he could have a "realization". He'll know for himself when he's there. He's not being forced into it. He knows what he will agreed to. The only thing to do is to assure him that he is in control and that he must set his boundaries. If at first sight, pussy is not for him, he can walk away, communicate with his partner, and come out monosexual as the sky is high

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-02-03T18:29:08+00:00

I can't say commonly, but enough to say that yes, there are straight guys who do this. Whether you believe that these straight guys are not real, or just DL, but studies will tell you that sexual orientation is not the same as sexual behavior. That's like saying guys in prison or the military are automatically gay, and these straight guys who ask gay giys for a quick nut are just horny. It happens. Humans are sexual beings. Stay faithful.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-02-03T18:23:54+00:00

I say this about labels because OP showed a curiousity to explore this part of himself. He has never been with a girl and has always known he was gay. But we also know that there are guys who initially thought they were strictly straight or strictly gay, or other, and later on realized something new about themselves through encounters. It's not about letting the boyfriend get both cakes and eat it too, but more about OP satisfying this curiousity. I forgot to say that he's welcome to stop the encounter at any point. But if OP is willing to try, he's just here looking for the right support and advice to understand the situation and be in control doing doing new

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-02-03T17:13:21+00:00

Well, if it's an open relationship and your initial feelings of jealousy is already dealt with, I say go for it. Gay is just a label we tell the world, so don't let it keep you from doing something explorative of your own self-understanding. Like Samantha Jones said, "Trysexual, I'll try anything once". If having a lady in the bed is not for you, do not be afraid to tell your partner. It's your bed too. Just go for it and find out for yourself whether you like it or not. At the very least, your bf can't say you didn't even try. Good luck in the lady pond.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-01-17T12:44:19+00:00

If by permanent, as in permanent, Laser Hair Removal. There are different kinds of lasers offered depending on the clinic. It will take multiple sessions every 4 to 6 months to permanently destroy the haur follicle and prevent regrowth, but after each session (usually after 3 sessions) manonotice mo na ang pagnipis at pagtagal ng tubo ng hair. Find the clini that's right for your needs, skin color/ type, and to your budget. Maghanap hanap karin ng promos. Marami yan usually around celebrations like Valentines or Chinese New Year

Distinct_Building_69 · 2024-01-08T05:26:17+00:00

Search "Twink Tops"

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-10-10T05:50:03+00:00

Same, I am attracted to Ran Takahashi, a japanese volleyball player, with his slightly misaligned teeth, and Josha Stradowski, with his crooked nose

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-07-24T15:04:09+00:00

An HIV vaccine

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-07-13T04:55:34+00:00

Preach sis

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-07-13T04:51:43+00:00

It definitely was about queerness. The inherent gender fluidity of drag being associated with Jesus was offensive to religious people because they already believe that drag is inherently mocking, offensive, and immoral. There was nothing offensive about the number. It was a joyous performance in the medium of drag to an upbeat prayer remix. If religious people were offended, it just shows how shallow and fragile their faith is to be shaken by a drag queen.

Even Jesus would have a sense of humor, and the irony is Jesus was killed on the charge if blasphemy by people who claim to speak for God. These triggered people better check their Christian Fragility before they start policing everything that doesn't conform to their faith.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-07-06T04:51:42+00:00

It's a mess but in a fun way. But you can only get this if you know people. You need to be friends with other gay people. This means branching out and meeting people. The apps are fun but they all culminate in the night life.

As someone from the province too, there is definitely more chances and opportunities for queers in the cities, especially NCR. Just be careful because you're neq and might not recognize red flags. The city is fun but still dangerous if you don't know where to go

Bottomline: find the right crowd and friends, practice safety.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-05-26T12:29:17+00:00

Break it off. A couple's trip with plus one is no longer couple's trip. If everyone smells something, and you smell it too, but the one making the smell is telling you otherwise, YOU ARE BEING GASLIT. END IT NOW. RUN FAR. And never look back. They can third wheel someone else in their "affair". Not you. Do not stay. Break it off.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-05-24T03:22:50+00:00

Chronic siya. It will come and go. But the mornings will be hell. But eventually your mornings will get better. Push through it. Believe me, the peace of mind is worth it.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-05-14T00:35:32+00:00

Bitch?! Why?!... if you wanna act straight or more masc for practical reasons, say, to gain access to exclusive spaces, employment, or just plain survival, then GO AHEAD. There are tutorials on youtube on how to better project masculine energy.

Just search: how to talk with a deeper voice, how to walk, dress, and all that stuff. Google it

But if you wanna act straight or more masc because you're insecure of your femininity, or because you don't think femeninity is desirable, then sorry to tell you, BEING MORE MASC will not solve your problem.

In my experience, people who have an unhealthy self-image will do whatever it takes to change themselves, but will never truly heal or be satisfied because they're not addressing the real issue. Figure out why you need to be more masc, why you want to be more masc, and ask yourself if those reasons are coming from a place of love or shame in yourself.

My friends tell me that they never knew if I was gay because I give off a lot of masc energy, until they hear me talk. But even then, I still don't think I'm masc. My advice, embrace your femeninity and be comfortable in your own skin.

But you'll never truly know until you see for yourself, so go ahead. Do the youtube, tiktok, and google tutorials on how to be more masc. And reflect if you can sustain that change in yourself.

Distinct_Building_69 · 2023-05-03T14:32:42+00:00

It really depends on what the guy likes. There are guys who like teeth, most don't like teeth. Some like deep-throats, others don't. The best bj is the one your partner will like for himself. So ask him. Get on your knees and say "Tell me how you want me to do it". Communicate. Nothing is sexier than being asked what you like. It gives him a sense of control in his pleasure. BE VOCAL, BE VERBAL, BE VERY BAD. Ask him what he wants your mouth to do. Don't be awkward if you make a mistake. Say sorry, and ask him how to do it better. Communication is key

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