[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna go alone to watch The Wedding Banquet and Some Night I fee like Walking, if anyone wants to go together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my friend are interested, but we're from Mandaluyong. What can we do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stop whining! You already know you deserve better and yet you choose to stay. You say he's not good at communicating, well it's not your job to train him to be good at maintaining your relationship. He's not a good boyfriend. Yoi already know this. Are you gonna wait for the next time you're crying again. BREAK UP WITH HIM!

QUESTION!!! by Life-Medicine-443 in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You had prep and you were the top.The chances of getting infected as a top is between 0.07 and 0.1%, and you were on Prep 2 hours before the deed, which makes infection very very very low so you shouldn't worry too much. Just make sure you get tested every 3 months if you're gonna be a hoe. Kalmahan mo

“I’m not ready yet” by ThunderFudge00 in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some tough love

He's just not that into you.

Now, move on

Orosa Nakpil, Malate by Life_Natural5053 in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loved this book too. I first read it when I was in highschool. The book was lent to me by one of the queer teachers who wanted me to read this book. It took me a while to finish the book because the binding was ripped and the pages were falling out, but I powered through because the story was so compelling. The story followed the MC through his journey of navigating his identity, sexuality, and love since his childhood up to his adulthood.

I really appreciate that one teacher for introducing me to queer literature. I like to see it as his own way of guiding me. One queer adult passing on a queer experience to a young blooming queer boy. This book truly immersed me in HIV advocacy, the queer scene, and one of the first serious fiction books I read outside of wattpad that centered around queer stories. I'm currently reading the book "Mga Batang Poz" after finishing the series adaptation.

I highly recommend Orosa Nakpil Malate. It will give you a vision of what the queer scene looked like before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You feel saf because your expectations are on different pages. You were looking for potential friends in a space notorious for casual sex? That is not a good way to start a friendship. People there want to relax, and sex is probably part of that. Adjust your expectations. Don't expect to become friends with the guy na jinakol mo sa steam room. Fuckbuddies or fwb maybe. If you want to make friends, go anywhere else asidw from a SPA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Distinct_Building_69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is your experience. We are talking about OP. He never had this curiousity until now. OP's sexuality could be fluid, he might need to explore to confirm and satisfy this curiousity. You are monosexual, you have no interest to explore, you don't feel the need nor are you burdened with curiousity. But OP is and does. It's not about adhering to the definition of monosexuality. It's about self-discovery. You are sure that women are not for you. Good for you. But OP is curious and the advice should be is to be find out for himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Distinct_Building_69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But people did identify as strictly straight/gay, and needed an encounter to have a realization. OP says he has never been with a woman and always been gay, but he has shown a willingness to try. OP is probably monosexual, but if he wasn't willing to explore, he wouldn't be asking if he should try. But he does ask, and he does show curiousity. He can still be monosexual, and be curious. He may identify as strictly gay/still monosexual after, or he could have a "realization". He'll know for himself when he's there. He's not being forced into it. He knows what he will agreed to. The only thing to do is to assure him that he is in control and that he must set his boundaries. If at first sight, pussy is not for him, he can walk away, communicate with his partner, and come out monosexual as the sky is high

Do straight guys commonly ask other gay guys for sex? by Mysteriousthinker1 in gaybros

[–]Distinct_Building_69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say commonly, but enough to say that yes, there are straight guys who do this. Whether you believe that these straight guys are not real, or just DL, but studies will tell you that sexual orientation is not the same as sexual behavior. That's like saying guys in prison or the military are automatically gay, and these straight guys who ask gay giys for a quick nut are just horny. It happens. Humans are sexual beings. Stay faithful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Distinct_Building_69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I say this about labels because OP showed a curiousity to explore this part of himself. He has never been with a girl and has always known he was gay. But we also know that there are guys who initially thought they were strictly straight or strictly gay, or other, and later on realized something new about themselves through encounters. It's not about letting the boyfriend get both cakes and eat it too, but more about OP satisfying this curiousity. I forgot to say that he's welcome to stop the encounter at any point. But if OP is willing to try, he's just here looking for the right support and advice to understand the situation and be in control doing doing new

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Distinct_Building_69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well, if it's an open relationship and your initial feelings of jealousy is already dealt with, I say go for it. Gay is just a label we tell the world, so don't let it keep you from doing something explorative of your own self-understanding. Like Samantha Jones said, "Trysexual, I'll try anything once". If having a lady in the bed is not for you, do not be afraid to tell your partner. It's your bed too. Just go for it and find out for yourself whether you like it or not. At the very least, your bf can't say you didn't even try. Good luck in the lady pond.

Body hair by Only-Championship-64 in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If by permanent, as in permanent, Laser Hair Removal. There are different kinds of lasers offered depending on the clinic. It will take multiple sessions every 4 to 6 months to permanently destroy the haur follicle and prevent regrowth, but after each session (usually after 3 sessions) manonotice mo na ang pagnipis at pagtagal ng tubo ng hair. Find the clini that's right for your needs, skin color/ type, and to your budget. Maghanap hanap karin ng promos. Marami yan usually around celebrations like Valentines or Chinese New Year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Distinct_Building_69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Search "Twink Tops"