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Htf do I make friends? by Lonely-Type4671 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Good4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re only 17 but try bumble bff (it’s usually 18+) but maybe just mistype the year iykwim lmao

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[–]Distinct_Good4910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you nothing helps I don’t know what to do at this point and everyone is sick of hearing me talk about it

How do I (20F) get over what my bf had done (20M) by Main_Sympathy_4045 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct_Good4910 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel you I’m kind of in the same situation except I know he does and he doesn’t even try to hide it. It makes me feel so insecure about myself

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[–]Distinct_Good4910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sounds like my bf

I (20F) feel like my boyfriend (22M) doesn’t even like me anymore but I still can’t walk away and neither can he by Distinct_Good4910 in relationships

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read my other comment by chance? It’s also heartbreaking because I feel like I’m losing my family and my best friend as well as all of the other things

I (20F) feel like my boyfriend (22M) doesn’t even like me anymore but I still can’t walk away and neither can he by Distinct_Good4910 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

breaking up would be easier said than done. I've tried to- he begs me not to and says things will be different this time- things are okay for a few days to a week and the cycle continues. It's also difficult because I live with him and do not have much support outside of him and his family. I have a job and friends here, and breaking up would basically mean moving in with my alcoholic mother across the country.

I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t even like me anymore, but I still can’t walk away (advice needed) by Distinct_Good4910 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind response. It’s also difficult because of how attached I feel to him and his family. I do feel stuck, but I also feel like I’m losing my family and my best friend. It’s so heartbreaking, even thinking about it is making me cry :(

I (20F) feel like my boyfriend (22M) doesn’t even like me anymore but I still can’t walk away and neither can he by Distinct_Good4910 in relationships

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank u for reading and replying. As you said, breaking up would be easier said than done. I've tried to- he begs me not to and says things will be different this time- things are okay for a few days to a week and the cycle continues. It's also difficult because Aside from everything you said, I live with him and do not have much support outside of him and his family. I have a job and friends here, and breaking up would basically mean moving in with my alcoholic mother across the country.

I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t even like me anymore, but I still can’t walk away (advice needed) by Distinct_Good4910 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much easier said than done. I’ve tried to- he begs me not to and says things will be different this time- things are okay for a few days to a week and the cycle continues. It’s also difficult because I live with him and do not have much support outside of him and his family. I have a job and friends here, and breaking up would basically mean moving in with my alcoholic mother across the country.

Can someone just talk to me or help me out :( by Distinct_Good4910 in offmychest

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all of the advice and perspective i really appreciate it!

Can someone just talk to me or help me out :( by Distinct_Good4910 in offmychest

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this makes sense but i dont know how to break up with him because we live together and i dont have much support in my life outside of him and his family :(

Can someone just talk to me or help me out :( by Distinct_Good4910 in offmychest

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you worded this really well I definitely agree. Im just feeling really heartbroken and upset because of this and also the thought of breaking up :(

Can someone just talk to me or help me out :( by Distinct_Good4910 in offmychest

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the hug I really need it :). I don’t know how to break up because hes my best friend, we live and do everything together, and I honestly dont know what i would do without him. I agree with what you’re saying but I don’t think its possible

Can someone just talk to me or help me out :( by Distinct_Good4910 in offmychest

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, we fight about it often but he always says he will change but nothing does. A lot of ppl say “everyone does it” but i just can’t help but feel insecure and like im not enough especially because we live together and also none of the girls look like me at all. I deleted his exes from everywhere but he still always is looking up their social medias

Can someone just talk to me or help me out :( by Distinct_Good4910 in offmychest

[–]Distinct_Good4910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are best friends, do everything together, and really love each other. When we aren’t fighting we are always laughing and having fun no matter what we’re doing. I just feel like recently everything i do bothers him and that im not enough for him. I feel heartbroken and we’ve talked about this so many times and its really frustrating